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i am a small town average guy. who plays guitar and skates.
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=D hey this is for the guys..
when you see a girl... do you actually notice what they are wearing and what makeup they used that day and how there hair looks?
just wondering.. because i know most people, probably including me... all try to look perfect for the guys.. but do you guys even notice?
[: thanks.
as a guy i have to admit that noticing things is not our specialty. most of the time as long as you look good not necerally perfect guys will not even rember in about a week what you even had on.
i want to get my girlfriend something special for christmas & in a special way. so like what do i get her?
well sence i cannot answer that for every girl its hard to say find out what she likes or u could just ask her for what she would like!
Hi im 16/f and would appreciate if this question was answered by only guys around my age.
What are the top 5 things you look for in a girl?? Or the top 5 things you'd like your dream girl to have...??
Thanks
xox
16/m
well the top things i look for are
1 presonallity
2 how we get along
3 looks
4 brains
5 friends/family
the basics i gess just be your self most guys hate fakes
i plan on proposing to my girlfriend, but i want it to be special. like romantic & everything. do you have any ideas?
well taking her out just the two of you to a fancy place eating and then get on one knee and asking her if she would be your bride or would you marry me something like this while you hold up the ring what i have always herd of.
15/Male
my girlfriend & i have been together for about a year now & shes grate. but i get jealous so easy. she flirts quite often and i never really say anything to her. shes really strict over everything i do, but she should be able to trust me. i trust her, which is why i let her do more things, but i still get jealous. how do you keep from getting jealous, if you are?
well there is no set was it just happens over a while the only prob with it is she is eigther hanging on to you for someone to date or fall back on and will leave you as soon as she finds someone else so else you too are really not that much in love.
this might not be the case though. you can try being more strict to her or confrinting her. or a mixture of both like when she askes to go out tell her what she tells you. just try to keep calm and a clean head over all is the best way of getting her to see.
recently my boyfriend has been acting bored of me. not sexually, just in general.
he never wants to touch me in public (i.e. hold hands, put his arm around me) & when i try, he says i'm being to clingy.
when we talk on the phone he never says anything & when i ask for him to talk to me, he says he has nothing to say. he's my boyfriend, shouldn't he always have stuff to say?
& on the internet, he only im's me back, when i ask him a question?
i don't know what to do.?
well it looks like he might need a little space and believe it or not no guys don't always have something to say even to their friends. you can always try to start conversations. the internet guys are usually playing games or something and don't message very much this is kinda normal.
my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now, and i love his family dearly.
he has an older brother, and no sister, so me & his mom get along so well.
just recently his older brother got a girlfriend, and now his mom & i don't talk as much as we used to. she's always talking to his brothers girlfriend.
i dont understand why this is, she's known me way longer.
what can i do?
well its like a new friend you talk to them more but its not a compition over his mum its him just keep that in mind
what are some good ideas to buy my boyfriend for christmas?
he skates/ hes 16/ he plays the guitar/ & he basically has everything in the world? & what he doesn't have, his parents usually get him what he wants.
&& what could i buy his parents? they always get me gifts, so i feel like i should buy them some,
any ideas?? i wud be greatful
well for him try things like picks and such for the guitar or something like hats ect will also be good
parents like just about everything except grandchildren when their son is 16 but try asking him or gift cards
is it possoble for a guy to get tired of sex?
sometimes when i want to have sex, my boyfriend doesn't. & i don't understand why not?
and even when i try to do certain things to turn him on, he kinda pushes me away. why?
well if you mix it up most of the time not they will always like it
is an ipod nano "too fancy" or "too much" of a gift to get my bf [of 5 months when it comes] for christmas?
im not rich i mean im pretty average-class i guess but i dont have a job yet although i may have one by then.. but i dont want to get it for him if it seems like too big of a deal.. i hope that makes sense!
Its a bit high if you ask me a smaller less expencive gift will go a long was in a relationship
how do you make a girl feel special??????
well it is different for every but most like to be complimented and just be really nice try stuff and see what works
i don't really eat that much food but i'm gaining weight like crazy and am now like 25 lbs over weight. i play sports like softball, and ultimate frisbee i get swamped with school work easily and i have a huge paper that i have to work on almost constanly. i ahve a gym membership but i almost never have the time to get to the gym. what can i do to stop this. try to eat as healthily as possible and i even tried eating only fruits and veggitables for like a month but nothing seems to work. what can i do. i feel ugly all the time because of this.
weight varies on person and there is no ideal weight most everyone would like to lose a pound or two because of s but this is not the only look and many guys don't like this look
Weight and BMI is good to go by BUT they do not take account for body type or muscle mass
Through out the scale and go on how you look and don't be as harsh on your self, little is not always the best.
my boyfriend just recently gave me my first big 'o' you know, an orgasm? it was my first one given to me by a guy. (no, a girl has never given me one, weirdo.) but i didn't really know how to react to it. i know my face was humiliating, because he kept laughing. it was quite embarrassing. now im afraid my boyfriend won't want to give me another one, because of my facial expressions & such. so my question is, like since you are a guy, when you give your girlfriend an orgasm, do you feel accomplished & want to give her more, or like, do you feel weird, because of the way she expresses it?
well it is the best feeling and yes he will like to give you more expression just look at a guy during it LOL (only what i have herd)
do most guys like having sex with a girl who shaves her whole "area" bald, leaves a little hair in the middle, or has a normal amount of hair and only trims once in a while?
well it will just depend on the guy most do not care but a few do. You can always ask him after talking to him little while afte. the few that do will usually ask or will mention it to you. ask before you plan to let the guy venture to the 0? is usually the best and if it just happens it does. If you are single do as you wish though
i really want my boyfriend to be more open with me. i want him to tell me what he wants from me & how he feels about me.
i just dont know how to get him to ? any advice?
Well from what i have herd and seen guys are even open, closed or in the middle. the easy ones to spot are the open ones who spill their selves to everyone the other two are more difficult if he is closed that is just the way he is and he might open up a little but prob not
the middle is the one who seems to be open but is really not he will open up a little also but prob not as much as you would like (maybe because there is not much there or not much to tell though)
These everyone will be a little different though
(well to open up liking hugging and kissing just do it try in private then move on and eventally it will just not be strange to do )
i wasn't sure of a subject so i just put blah. i hope you dont ignore this question.
my boyfriend(b/f) & i have been together for a while & we have sex quite often, but i want it to be better.
i want to do different things. but what? we foreplay, we've 69'd, doggie style, missionary & cowgurl.
but im afraid hes going to get bored. do guys get bored easily? shew, help please?
Well the answer is NO he should be a happy camper with these and if he starts he will tell you and/or just do it just let him know if he would like to try something just let me know. Also their are charts out there expecally on the internet. % CHART)
this question may seem a little weird but i figured you could at least try? if you can't, just let me know.
i was searching random columns, and i came across coomersx3, well i was planning on asking her this question first, but she blocks private questions, or something & it wouldn't let me. so then i found out that you are her boyfriend & you could contact her for me.
on her column she has her photobucket as her website & i was looking at some pictures of her, & i came across this one;
http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a344/__karixsue/Pictures%20Of%20Me/100_5682.jpg
which is absolutely gorgeous & i would really like to know where she got her outfit, plus how she took this picture & like with what camera & all. i love photography & by looking through her photos i can tell she does too & she is really really good at taking them. so can you ask her for me how she takes these, where she got that outfit, and what camera she uses? i would appreciate it so much!
well i cannot tell you this you will have to ask her try again tomarrow.
Sorry=(
how can you tell if a guy loves you?
Well there is no consistent black or white answer but if he tells he does that adds up to alot because relationship is off of trust
How he acts or how he is when he is around you
Just how he is and most of the time you can just tell if you are in love with someone and they are with you
Things from my noticing are like being arround you and liking to just be with you. (another thing would be if he can go without IT* if he is getting it)
16/F
i love my boyfriend i really do. and i know he loves me but sometimes he's sort of mean to me, like he ignores me or smacks me when i do something that gets on his nerves, i mean he's not abusive he's never hit me like that, just sort of a playful smack, a warning sort of.
he's really sweet though & he tells me i'm beautiful all the time, but sometimes he's just plain out mean & rude, it's like hes almost bipolar. i don't want to break up with him because when we are together its amazing, and everythings great, i just don't like his attitude sometimes. so what do i do?
Well this seems like a guy thing expecally at this age some will grow out and others will not
Sometimes this is used as a way of flirting
If it really bugs you, you should tell him to stop or to be nice somehing like that
Break-up might be the last option though if he keeps getting meaner and meaner
19/F
This weekend I'm going to be meeting my boyfriend's parents. We've been dating for a month, and I'm going to be staying there for the entire weekend!
Does anyone have any tips? I really want to make a good impression.
just use your manners and they will go a long way be really respectful call them mr. or Ms. unless they tell you other whys and be yourself