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Best way to keep a relationship on the DL
This is something I've been wondering about...
My parents don't allow me to date until I'm well over the age of 16, and don't allow boys to call, or anything like that.
The only place I am safe from their constant watching is at school.
What is a good way to keep a relationship, in highschool, on the DL?
I was thinking "bathroom breaks", or taking a different way to class, etc etc.
15, female.
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Tell your parents that you are calling "a friends name" but actually call your boyfriend. Just you probly want to keep the conversation short just in case they come in and ask you and you accidently say his name.
As for bathroom breaks. It works but you dont want the teacher to think you have a really bad bladder problem. So just go like once a week in each class. And make sure you both go at the same time.
you can take a different way to class but dont be late for class. Or he can meet you at one of your classes and you can talk then he can head back to his class like a minute before the bell rings
Tell your parents that you need to be at school early Like (15 min or so) to talk to a teacher or make-up a quiz. And you can tell them that you need to stay after for about 30 min.
If he lives close to you then just tell your parents that you are going for a walk and go to his house. Or tell them you forgot a homework sheet at school and you need to get it from a friends house ( and you are willing to walk there ).
Thats all i can think of.
kim:)
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If you wanna go around your parents backs with a relationship, just say your going to a friends house and go to his or see if you two could meet up at a friends house. Also at lunch before school, after school ect. If you can get to school early and him that works out too. If you have a cell you can go somewhere else and talk to him. Hope it all works out for you
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Well usually when you want to keep a relationship a secret you tell your friends you are talking to a friend. Or have one of your friends call and then your fmaily thinks you are talking to your friend. So hurry up and hang up and call the guy. They assume that you are talking to your friend so they don't seem to concerned. You can hang out with the guy at school. As for going out in public just say you are going to movies or something with a friend. Or double date and have only your friend waiting outside the theater, that way they don't see the two guys.
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Bathroom breaks, etc. work, but what I used to do is tell my parents I was going to the library after school (my school library is open until 4). Or go somewhere with a group of friends, that way they're not suspicious. Also try coming to school early and staying late.
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