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ok well i like this guy in one of my classes. and well hes always staring at me and stuff and hes always passing by my desk and when he trys to talk to me the teacher tells him to sit down. so i really dont get to talk to him that much but now lately hes been talking to this 8th grader in my class(im in 7th) and there always talkign when i look at him and stuff. becuz i thought he liked me but i dont know what to do. and i like him alot so how should i tell him that i like him?
Hi first i'd like to say Im really sorry for not getting to your question that soon. I've been really busy lately. Chances are this guy does like you. Or he might have before but given up and went to someone else. You might want to try to talk to him more and if all goes well he should say something. You could still win him back if he has moved. After some good conversations if he still doesn't say anything maybe try asking him if he would like to do something sometime like go to a movie or invite him to some event your going to. Or just ask something small like if hes going to the next dance or something like that. Remember just be yourself and play along with it. Stay cool and don't get too nervous. Work up enough confidence and then just go up and start a conversation. Say hey what's up or how have you been? Just start talkin and maybe get a little list in your head of some things to talk about. Don't rush right into asking him out somwhere. I hope it all works out for you and good luck!!
there is a boy his name is sam and i like him how do i tell him that i like him without acually talkin to him
instead as telling him you like him. why not ask to go somewhere with him sometime. just talk about something with him, laugh and then if things are goin good ask him if he would like to go sumwhere with you sumtime. jsut get enough confidence and u should be fine. hope it all works out for you!! :)
say someone picks on you and such.. and makes rude comments, how do you stand up for yourself? because i dont have the confidence to go and say something if they were to say something to me or my friends? how do i gain the confidence to do this or what do i say? i dont want to sould like a prissy so any tips?
If someone tried to say crap to you just say crap back. Confidence is a lot to build but not too hard. just practice some things you might say to her with yourself and when it all happens use the best come backs you got. Next time she says something to you, say something bad about her back. of cource you could jsut ignore her but if it keeps goin on for a while then you should probably take a step up. Don't snitch though cause that would make everything worst for you. Maybe consider getting come backs off of google to use on her too. Don't take it too far though or she might take it an extra step up. Just through a couple comebacks and then backoff. Nothing to big, just to get her to leave you alone. Hope everything works out for you!
Okay so I like this boy and I thought he liked me but all he wants to do is have sex. Should I or should'nt I? I always told myself I would never think of things like this I would always just say no, but for some reason I think this is the boy for me and i wouldnt wanna ruin anything by saying no. What should I do?
If you don't feel comfortable with it then don't do it. You shouldn't do anything you don't want to. If this guy is going to break up with you because you won't have sex with him, then hes not worth it. Whatever you end up doing, it's your choice. but remember to do what you think is right
I'm going camping next weekend, and my brothers best friend is coming home from college for a visit as well. Well i've always had quite a crush on him, and I've missed him a lot over the time he's been at college, and i'm just wondering... should I tell him how I feel? I'm pretty sure he knows I like him, and everybody in my family thinks he likes me, but I don't know. I'm 14 by the way, and he's 18. I don't want to hear about the age difference thing, just about if I should tell him how I feel, and how.
Well if he likes you and hes fine with the age difference and you are too then go for it. Whatever happens its your choice. If your not comfortable with it then don't do it. if you want to and he does then im sure you can take it from there. good luck and have fun on your camping trip.
Ok so theres this guy i like. We talk all the time at school. I want to ask him to hang out without sounding too desperate or clingy. We have none of the same friends. Any advice? :)
I'd say go for it. Just build up your confidence and ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. Don't sound to scraed though. Just when your ready and maybe around him strike up a convo. Talk and laugh a lil and maybe just as one of you goes to leave or something be like "Hey do you wanna hang out sometime?" Just wait til your ready. Hope it all works out for you.
Okay, I know that every guy is different and it's difficult to tell whether they really like you or are just like that naturally. But I really need to know about this guy because I'm so confused on them and I'm afraid that he may break my heart later on.
Anywhos:
This guy who is a senior(i'm a junior)is really nice, funny, and friendly. I somtimes see him looking at me across the lunch table, but then I'm not sure if he was looking at me. Then at a little school thing (it's where some bands from the school come and perform and people come to watch and socialize and whatever) he came and I automatically began flirting with him although I don't mean to(I just act like myself and I guess my friends consider that flirting?) and he has this flirt radar on him so he probably knew. He picked me up once although he dropped me (but than I wasn't holding on as he started spinning) and he denied that I was heavy (although I think I am but then he told me not to say that) and we arm wrestled, played the hand game slide, and some other hand game and he (i think jokingly) looked at me like a boy with a crush on a girl when we were just sitting across the table and it was kind of akward so I think I looked away (I dont know why or if I even did). Anywhos and before he left, he gave me a hug and picked me up a little and left...does it sound like he likes me or not?
I know that it was really long but can you please help me out? And please don't say "Just ask him then you'll know" or any direct confrontation ooorr getting together alone since my mom thinks I'll get stoned or something. So whatever you guys say, remember that I will not do any direct confrontation & if you guys will say something about getting together alone, I can't and will have to have friends with me
Either your "flirting" led him on or he really does like you. Since he stares across the table at you and picks you up and hugs you, my guess would be he likes you. But still you can never really be sure. Also him not letting you believe your heavy makes him sound like he likes you. The rest is what you think. If you like hima nd you believe he likes you I'd say go for it. But if your not sure I'd say hold back and do what you thinks right. Good luck :)
This is something I've been wondering about...
My parents don't allow me to date until I'm well over the age of 16, and don't allow boys to call, or anything like that.
The only place I am safe from their constant watching is at school.
What is a good way to keep a relationship, in highschool, on the DL?
I was thinking "bathroom breaks", or taking a different way to class, etc etc.
15, female.
If you wanna go around your parents backs with a relationship, just say your going to a friends house and go to his or see if you two could meet up at a friends house. Also at lunch before school, after school ect. If you can get to school early and him that works out too. If you have a cell you can go somewhere else and talk to him. Hope it all works out for you
there is this guy who i am pretty sure likes me he tried to convince me to go to homecoming but i decided not to go because i chickened out and i don't know what to do on monday when i have to face him because i said i would go and now i am not. also i think i like him to. please help!!!
Just tell him the truth. Tell him you didn't want to go and we're kinda scraed about it. If you feel bad try to make it up to him. Ask him to go somewhere else instead. If you like him and he obviously likes you he should understand. He might be a little upset but it's nothing you can't make up for. Good luck and I hope everything works out :)
Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile now. We are both in the 9th grade and he is best friends with my brother. Well he gave me my first kiss and we always kiss but its only pop kissing. I want to make out with him but im too shy. i have never done it in my life and im very nervous. I dont know how to do it or if im bad. I know he wants to do it because he even said it but he knows im shy so hes not going to force me. But i dont want to make him wait and we know we both want it. So what should i do?
Your help is very apreciated..thanks!
Your boyfriend sounds like a great guy. Especially if hes not going to force you to do something. If you both want to make out then I'd say go ahead and do it. but if your that nervous then talk to him. He should understand. Tell him yeah you want to make out with him but have never before and not sure how it will turn out. If he really is a good boyfriend he'll understand. I'm sure it will be fine. Not everyone is perfect at these things. Also,since you want to heres your chance. If you keep passing every chance you got cuz u don't know how it will turn out, it'll never happen. you gotta try it sometime. But whatever you think is right, is right. I hope this advice helps you out and remember "Practice makes perfect!"