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should I?
Okay so I like this boy and I thought he liked me but all he wants to do is have sex. Should I or should'nt I? I always told myself I would never think of things like this I would always just say no, but for some reason I think this is the boy for me and i wouldnt wanna ruin anything by saying no. What should I do?
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If your saying no would ruin things, he not the guy for you. Period.
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If you really like him, still think about it. the person I lost my virginity to is a complete jerk. But at first I thought he was so sweet and he loved me. I hate his guts now. So just wait things out first.
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You do what you think is right. Don't do it because pressure. If the boy is right for you he'll understand. (i can't make decisions for you but there is no surefire way to keep yourself from getting pregnant if you do do it...so think about before you decide)
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never,ever,ever do anything you dont want to just because someone else wants you to.if he is gonna not like you because you wont sleep with him,then he isnt right for you.but if you want to and you feel you are ready,then go ahead.i dont mean to be rude,but if you are second guessing it,then idt he is the right one or it is the right time.good luck,i hope you make the right decision.=]
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Alright. Ground rule, for the rest of your life. Sex does not save relationships. It only prolongs the inevitable. You shouldnt.
First, he is not the boy for you. If you are young enough that this is even a question, I can promise you will date other guys, probably alot of other guys.
Second, he is not the boy for you. If he just wants sex, and saying no is ruining the relationship, then he obviously doesnt care much about you, he only cares about the open or closed status of your legs.
Take a lesson from this. At your age, boys desires generally arent that complex. If he wants sex, thats about all he wants and is willing to give up most everything else for sex. If he wants love, hes willing to give up pretty much everything else (including sex) for love. Guys who want love care about you more than about sex, and so thats what you should search for.
When youre older (think 20s and up) sex becomes a more expected part of a relationship because most people expect you to be used to intimacy and be comfy with it, through age and experience. Right now, sex should not be expected, and if it is you shouldnt be giving it out. Because this guy doesnt want to share an intimate moment with you. He wants to get laid, tell his friends hes getting laid, and he sees you as the easiest way to do things.
Dont make the mistake of becoming anyones sex toy.
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say no.
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say no, because obviously you don't want to have sex with him or you wouldn't be asking.
duh. =]
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If this guy only wants sex from you, why would you want to do it? Sex should be betweeen two people who really care for one another, and it's a very special thing. I wouldn't waste it on this guy. And most guys like these who just want sex with a girl, they'll do it and then never talk to the girl again and just ignore her basically like "you did your job, now you're done". I know this'll come off rude, but there's nothing TO ruin. Just let him know that "no means no". Having sex with this guy isn't going to make him like you or anything. This guy doesn't even deserve you because if he really DID like you, he'd respect your decision. If you're uncomfortable with having sex with him and feel you're not ready, then you shouldn't do it. Like I said, wait for a guy you really care about, and he feels the same way back, and are 100% pyshically and mentally ready to do it.
I hope I helped.
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If he only wants to have sex with you then he obvisouly isn't the boy for you. If you really wanted to have sex with him then you wouldn't be questioning yourself about it. If the only reason you want to have sex with him is to impress this guy then don't. If you're not ready then don't do it. You should never let any one pressure you into doing things you're not ready for or might regret after.
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If your questioning yourself, dont do it. you'll never regret not doing it. If all he wants to do is have sex, after you do, you'll probably be over. If he hasnt even made it clear he likes you why do it? Is he intrested in getting to no u? doubt it. He woulnt jump into having sex if he did. Hes a guy and guys want sex, so dont give it to him. I wouldnt if i were you.
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If you don't feel comfortable with it then don't do it. You shouldn't do anything you don't want to. If this guy is going to break up with you because you won't have sex with him, then hes not worth it. Whatever you end up doing, it's your choice. but remember to do what you think is right
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If you think you are ready, then you should go ahead. But if at the last second you are feeling uncomfortable, dont do it. If he truely likes you then he will respect your decision. And no boy is worth it if they just want to sleep with you. good luck
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Don't have sex because thats what he wants. Evidently, he's not a good guy for you if he only wants to have sex with you and doesnt want to have a relationship with you. What you should do is obvious, tell him to like you for your personality and that you don't just want to be with him because all he wants is sex. Its good that you say no, you shouldnt have to keep a guy around by having sex with him. usually I say follow your heart, but this isnt the guy for you. He isnt <i>Respecting</i> you, which is something nowadays that a lot of guys don't do for girls. Your not ruining anything by saying no, your doing what you feel is right! Good Luck hun,hope i helped!
-Brina
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this may not be good advice but im not gona tell you what you should and should'nt do im just gona say go with wat you hart tell's you x x x
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