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Hello im piglet aka katie/kate

I though if i tell you abit about myself then you mite feel more comftable talking to me and asking me questions ........

im 18yr's of age i like to spend alot of time with my boyfriend he's like my best mate i can tell him anythink witch i think is important i live in the uk(england)dorset i live with my nan and grandad my mum beet me up and kicked me out iv not had it easy .......

ok so iv told you abit about me.......

if you ever need advice or just someone you can talk to about anythink i will try to help you can e-mail me of if you have live messenger then add me to you's and we can chat about what's bothering you.......

you should never keep your proble's or worry's locked up no matter how big or small you should alway's find someone to talk to wether it be a family member a friend or me don't lock thing's away talk about them.......

i will always answer any questions left for me and thats a promise .......

hope to here from some of you soon
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p.s i no it says my favorite categories but you guestion dose'nt have to be any of them im here to help and i will do my best


E-mail: katie.piglet804@hotmail.co.uk
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Location: pool in dorset uk
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Alright well this is an embarassing topic I chose to ask about but here goes....

Alright so I heard about people shaving their pubes and I thought I looked unattractive down there with pubic hair. So I shaved a little and within a few days I shaved almost all of it. I used a shaving cream that could be used for it. Now, all I feel is pain and irritation. It stings constantly where the hair used to be. However, I manage to sometimes discover temporary relief from this antagonizing agony such as a hot bath, or a hot water bottle. Any tips on what to avoid and what to use to help? After you shave repeatedly does it hurt less? Should I come to the conclusion I shouldn't shave there, and only trim? Please help me! How long will this pain last? (link)
hiya after a few times off shving the irritation gose away but it mite be because you used shaving cream try just useint normal soup like dove that works well because it helps with dry skin and stuff but just use the normal dark blue dove (the colour of the packets will be dark blue and white)


I'm 13/f. But my boyfriend was 16.

1. My step father had started sayig saying That if me and him had sex then that would be statitory rape, consensual or not.
Is it possible for him to get into trouble for having sex with me?

2. My parents put a restraing order against him. Once I'm not a minor anymore is it possible for that restraining order to count like would he get in trouble for being with me again?

--Sid (link)
im not shur but i think it can still be considerd as rape i think you mum and dad have gone a bit over the top puting a restraing order on him are they mad your gona grow up sometime and there will be nothink thaey can do about it good luck you will need it with a mum n dad luck dat


ok so it goes like this...me and my bf were together for 3 months. we never said "i love you" because it was always a strong saying and we wanted to make sure we meant it. well, about a week ago he up and acts different...avoids me, won't talk much so i assume he's mad at something that happened. a few days later, he broke up with me saying that he didn't want to be in a relationship because he felt like things were getting too serious and he just wants to be single and whatever. so i'm crying but accept it because hey, what choice do i have...i figured if we stay good friends, eventually he'll want to be together again. well he says he still really likes me and wants to be friends. i talked to a mutal friend and he said that one of the reasons he broke up with me was because in a note i wrote i told him i loved him and that was too strong(which isn't entirely true, cuz i end all my notes with ANYBODY with "love you!") well, since then he's called and texted me pretty much everyday, he's still always asking to hang out, he leaves funny/nice messages on my cell, and when we talk, it's always about "us" like...how he loves the way i kiss him and how he wants me to be over there with him that very minute, how i'm the only person he can carry on an actual "non boring" conversation with especially over the phone, and all this stuff he's wanting to do with me. so my question is, is there a chance we could get back together? like, did he just get scared but will quickly recover from it, or is he just trying to be nice so he won't have another bitter break-up? i'm so confused because i still really like him, and this is only making me like him even more! (link)
if you ask me i think there is a very good chance of you to getting back together and good luck to you but maybe you should talk to him about all of this or you will never no why u really broke up in the first place just talk and see how things go good luck i think you to will work this out and get back together


ok well christmas is coming up.4 of my closests friends told me they were gonna give me something&i think it would be nice if i got them something too....the question is what!
1 of my friends said she was gonna get me something "big" meaning something expensive and i dont really have alot of money so what will be pretty and look expensive at the same time?? any ideas?? (link)
well you could get them anythink from handbags to shoes/boots make-up or wat i wood do id by her a handbag and put little gifts in it like make-up a little handbag mirror ect good luck


Hi, there's this boy that I'm really attracted to, and have a crush on. He has a crush on me too, and we're seeing each other in a couple days. My question is, what are some REALLY good things I could do like, flirting wise? I really want to turn him on and just like, want me. So what are some really good ways I could tease him, or flirt with him? Things I could say or do? Please get back to me. =) Thanks. (link)
if i was you id just be myself you wouldnt want him to think you were comeing on 2 strong sorry if this wasnt much help but good luck


Okay for Christmas my dad wants to buy me 1 gift for $100. My problem is I have no clue what I should ask for? Any ideas? (link)
well maybe you should just ask him if you can have the money and save it till there is some think you want but if he dosent want to give you the cash then ask him to look after it because there isnt anythink you want right now xxxx have a good xmas


Well, I just got out of a 11 month relationship with my ex but were just friends now...but I'm attracted to this guy named johnny... we flirt a lot and everything.... I want to call him but I don't know what to say... I don't want to date him or anything....(yet)but I would like to get to know him better... but how do I get him to notice me, should I call him, what do I say...... (link)
just call him up girl ask him if he wants to hang out go see a film or somethink that the only way your goin to get to no him is if you ring him so get on the phone and ask him f he wants to do anythink go for it what have you got to lose good luck


i have a confusing situation, so this might be long. first of all, i have a boyfriend of almost two years and i love him a lot. things are great, and i could see myself with him forever. but i have a problem.. i've known this other guy for six years, and he was basically my first love. things happened, and we lost touch and grew apart. a few months ago, he came back into my life and we still love each other. now this might seem like every other love triangle, but the twist is that the other guy (not my boyfriend) knows me from the internet, and we've never met. so i need advice on who i should choose? should i stay with my boyfriend and leave it at that, or leave him and be with the other guy? don't say that the last idea is crazy just because i haven't met the guy, we've talked on the phone and we've had YEARS of history together. what do you guys think? (link)
well im not gona tell you what to do im gona tell you what i would do and i hope it helps first off the reason im not gona tell you wwhat to do is because only you can make up your mind and only you no how you feel about these to boys so this is what i would do ....................
i would stick with my boyfriend you say you love him and things are going great so why spolly it for someone eals but do stay in touch with the internet boy but just be shaw the boy on the internet is who he says he is ok good luck


ok......... i am 13 years old and i am in the 8th grade i like this 12 year old boy in the seventh i was going to 6th period and i seen him and i dont know what was wrong with me but somthing came over me and i grabbed his butt he started looking around and was saying all kinds of stuff i hurried to class but he figured out it was me and after the 7th period bell rung i got on the bus and i sat in the back he was in the last seat and he started to say i was a rapist and i had an std and all kinds of stuff he even got up and sat in the front and was going crazy and when the bus came to his stop he ran out of the door and down the street!!!! wow i really need him to trust me again plez help me i seriously dont kow what to do (link)
well its not you thas got the problem its him i think he needs to grow up ALOT going round calling people a rapist could get him in to very big troble i think maybe you should just forget about him and let him get on with his stupid little bad mouthing if his bad mouthing dose get worse then i think you should tell somone maybe a teacher or your mum or even a friends mum good luck hope it sorts its self out


i dont know what to get my bf [of 5-6 months at the time] for christmas. hes not into sports but he likes music and plays guitar.
soo i was thinking one of these 2 ideas:
1- ipod nano [which hes mentioned he wanted] and maybe some guitar strings if i can get them.
or 2 - Guitar Hero 2 [which he's also said he wanted] and a Fender hoodie or shirt.

im mostly thinking the 1st one but id like opinions. were both 16 hes fixin to be 17.

and as far as money is concerned, hes talkin about gettin me a $300-$400 ring, so yeah! were splurging. thx! :) (link)
i think you should go with the ipod nano my bf got 1 and heloves it and when ever i by my bf a birthday or christmas gift i alway by him a bottle of aftershave that gose down well good luck have a grate christmas


I resently gained like 20 pounds, i am 13/f 5 foot and 130 pound, i know thats fat.All my sisters make fun of me and call me fatty-mic-fat-fat beacuse they are all vary skinny and beautiful even my parents and friends make fun of me.So i started to eat less and run on the tredmeal every day for a hour but after a wile i desided i would way myself and see how much have lost but i only gained a pound,No matter what do i can't seem to lose weight and now the people at my shcool are tonting me.I don't think i am old anoff to buy eny dieting pills thoughs (how old do you have to be to do that?).What should i do i really whan to ose weight but no matter what i try i can't. (link)
you should keeep at it eat the good foods and keep going on the tredmeal for an hour a day like you have been and the reason i seems you gain more and not lose it is because musle ways more then fat so keep at it your doing well you wont see a change strait away but you will in the long run good luck keep going


my best friend may be pregnant; I have a really strong feeling that she is. The thing is, I know shes going to need a lot of comfort and support if that is the case. can someone please help me with that? I have no idea what to say to her, what to say to her when she says that she really is pregnant. Please, help.

[15/f; friend's 14] (link)
i dont no if this will be much help but all you can do is stand by and be there for you friend and just tell her no matter what happends you will be there for her thats all you can do reght now and you will no what to say when the time comes good luck hope everythink turns ot ok for you and your friend


I did something a couple of months ago that at the time I thought I did the right thing but now I'm regretting it. Well basically what happened is the man I was in love with who I thought loved me back dumped me very cruelly. I told him that I wouldn't have an affair; or get invovled sexually with him as long as he was married. Instead of respecting my decision he told me he wanted nothing to do with me. The reason I thought he did want to be with me is because he kept asking me if I wanted children and that I'd be a great mom and he had never had kids. I also knew he was really unhappy with his wife. I thought he loved me and he obviously was leading me on and just telling me what I wanted to hear so eventually I would sleep with him. I guess I just need someone to tell me that I did the right thing because I've been feeling so down about this. (link)
well whats done id done but i think this man just played on your feels witch was rong of him so your not the one to blame so i woodnt worry to much about it xxx


my breasts are still developing. i am a 34A. i have a question.

is it normal for your nipples to be swollen and for them to kinda stand out. i'm talking about the whole nipple. and will it go away after my boobs will finnish developing?

i always need to wear a padded bra, or a really tight shirt for my nipples not to show. theyre pretty big, and the actual "teat" (for lack of a better word)doesnt stand out as i understand it should.

i know that all breasts are different, but if you had this problem, did it go away after your breasts finnished developing?

thanks!!

(link)
i think its normal everyone grows in different ways but if you are still worried then ring your doctors and ask over the phone or go in and see your doctor but i really dont think its anythink to worry about ok x x x


ok it`s my boyfriends birthday on november 24th.i really wanna get him an awesome gift because he does so much for me and he means the world to me.im 13/f and ill prolly have about $20.thanks a ton.=] (link)
well you must no what sort of things her likes so try geting somethink on ebay you can get some really good bargins sorry if im not much help xxx


Ok im 14/m and im in grade 9. Theres a girl I like whos in my class i dont know if she likes me or not. She always walks over to me and starts a conversation with me and other people say that shes all over me. I dont think she likes me because she always changes the subject when I ask for her msn or number. If she liked me wouldnt she have given me it? Do you think she likes me? (link)
she mite be playing hard to get or maybe she likes you to but thinks you dont like her but then she nite just want to be firends the best thing to do is ask her if she wood like to meet up some time goo see a film or somethink or just hang out and see how things go and maybe tryto talk to her about it good luck


hey! thanks for answering my question about getting back togehter with my ex. bf. but i was just wondering...i did talk to him about how i felt and he said he still has feeling for me too...but things kinda got weird after that...we dont know what to do or how to get back together thats why i want to get him back and keep him, but i dont knw what to do first? any suggestions??? (link)
well youv talked thats good you should start going out places together and doing things together wether its just hanging out or going to watch a film go for a meal then see how things go and just make a move maybe a kiss good night would do for starters then see what he says about the kiss and just get back together but take things slow at first you dont want to rush things but dont let him walk over you your not a door mat no women is and dont you ever forget that no matter who your woith never let them walk over you if you do get back with the man you want after youv taken things slow and you feel things are goind good for you to then move then up a step maybe in the bedroom department if youv ever had sex befor but if you havent dont worry there are lots more you can do but dont be pushed into have sex if youv not had it befor but always make shaw you talk even when you get back together always talk about how your feeling my bf is not just my bf hes my best friend to u can tell him anythink good luck i think you will get back together i wish you all the best email me anytime if you want to chat or ask me anythink (katie.pglet804@hotmail.co.uk)


hey,
My name is Julie and iam 20. iam kinda hairry around my pubic area(u can say that i have a bush)since i had never trimmed before since puberty.i was just woundering if i should keep it or trim it or even shave it?.And iam asking girls and boys...I heard that many man men prefer bushes(they find it sexy and feminine while others not).So wat you think i shall do?
Thanks for your help. (link)
only do what you feel cofatble doing ok dont do it because you feel sould only do it if you want to


Ok ive made up my mind! i want to get back togehther with my b.f...he told me he still had feelings for me and i have them for him, but i dunno i want it to last this time....even if its not full proof....tell me what i should and not do to get him back...tell me the steps and things i should do to really get him back...THANKS! (link)
this may not be much help but all you can do is tell him how you feel there is step by step of things you should do or not do because everyone is different so just talk to about how you good luck hope it gose well for you


18/F

Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. I really want to lose my virginity to him. He is not a virgin but obviously I am.

I've talked to him about it and he says its my decision and he will stand behind which ever I make. (Wait or Not Wait)

Half of me wants to do something, then the other half is just like worried. I know I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with this man.

What do you guys thimk I should do?

Also, I heard you bleed a lot when you lose it. He has a rather large penis. So will I bleed heavy like on my period? Or just a little? And if I put my pants on afterwards, will I bleed threw my pants?

Thanks. (link)
i can only say do what you think feels right for you uv been together 2 and a half yrs he waited a long time there is no harm in him waiting abit long for you to do what feels right he seen a very nice man to wait fir you but abotu the bleeeding thing everyone is different some people bleed alot some bleed only a little thats all im going to say im not going to tell you what to do only you no whats right for you so go woth that good luck and all the best




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