Question Posted Saturday December 9 2006, 11:13 pm
ok so it goes like this...me and my bf were together for 3 months. we never said "i love you" because it was always a strong saying and we wanted to make sure we meant it. well, about a week ago he up and acts different...avoids me, won't talk much so i assume he's mad at something that happened. a few days later, he broke up with me saying that he didn't want to be in a relationship because he felt like things were getting too serious and he just wants to be single and whatever. so i'm crying but accept it because hey, what choice do i have...i figured if we stay good friends, eventually he'll want to be together again. well he says he still really likes me and wants to be friends. i talked to a mutal friend and he said that one of the reasons he broke up with me was because in a note i wrote i told him i loved him and that was too strong(which isn't entirely true, cuz i end all my notes with ANYBODY with "love you!") well, since then he's called and texted me pretty much everyday, he's still always asking to hang out, he leaves funny/nice messages on my cell, and when we talk, it's always about "us" like...how he loves the way i kiss him and how he wants me to be over there with him that very minute, how i'm the only person he can carry on an actual "non boring" conversation with especially over the phone, and all this stuff he's wanting to do with me. so my question is, is there a chance we could get back together? like, did he just get scared but will quickly recover from it, or is he just trying to be nice so he won't have another bitter break-up? i'm so confused because i still really like him, and this is only making me like him even more!
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