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did I do the right thing?
I did something a couple of months ago that at the time I thought I did the right thing but now I'm regretting it. Well basically what happened is the man I was in love with who I thought loved me back dumped me very cruelly. I told him that I wouldn't have an affair; or get invovled sexually with him as long as he was married. Instead of respecting my decision he told me he wanted nothing to do with me. The reason I thought he did want to be with me is because he kept asking me if I wanted children and that I'd be a great mom and he had never had kids. I also knew he was really unhappy with his wife. I thought he loved me and he obviously was leading me on and just telling me what I wanted to hear so eventually I would sleep with him. I guess I just need someone to tell me that I did the right thing because I've been feeling so down about this.
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Hi,
You KNOW you did the right thing. You were honest with him - telling him you wouldn't have an affair or become sexually involved with him while he remained married - and he decided not to talk to you anymore.
Sure, you loved him, but it's better to be in a relationship where you get the respect you deserve - and you won't find that with a cheating husband. Imagine if you'd slept with him after which he would have *dumped* you - you got out just in time!
Empathically,
Cavatica
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well you did the wrong thing entertaining the thought of a relationship with a married man. Then you wised up. How he broke up with you doesnt matter. it is good that he did. find a single guy. Regret that you dated a married man not that you got dumped by one. He was leading his wife on.....not you.
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You are right you were lead on, its not your fault a man like that is a disgrace.
Don't worry about it though because you made the right descison.
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I'll tell you and any other teen who reads this story that your dicision was 100,000,000% correct. You did the right thing. Learn what i am about to tell you right now
- Neer get involved with a married man!! I mean it
-Some men know all the right things to say, but have only one thing on their mind!!
-If your not ready to do it, don't do it!!
need any other help??
email me or im me
aim-xomegtothean
Email: Meganp1194@aol.com
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well whats done id done but i think this man just played on your feels witch was rong of him so your not the one to blame so i woodnt worry to much about it xxx
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You did the right thing. It sounds to me like all he wanted to do was to get into your pants. Like grandma said - if he really cared about you, he'd still be there.
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You did the right thing. If he cared he would still be with you. :)
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