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KINDA LONG BUT PLEASE BARE WITH ME!!! Okay, I've been with my bf Josh now for 11 months. Around the 9th month, we've been fighting quite more often... and sometimes he just takes it overboard, he dosent hit me or anything, but he practially cusses me out and call me a stupid b***h, and stuff like that, I mean I love him very very much, but I tell him he can't just talk to me like I'm some kind of puppy.... so I just got this new job and the person who trained me is named johnny. Something about him just attracts me too him... he's patient with me, he never once did ridicule me about making mistakes (cause I am sooo clumsy!), he knows how to make me smile, we share alot of interests... we just click very well. Like one night we had to close the store together and he was on the phone so while he was on the phone, I took off his drive-thru headset and put the till infront of him.... later he walked up to me and was like thank you for that, no ones really done anything like that for me (I know it was little but it was a big thing for him I guess) and I was like your welcome.... and then one morning we had to work together and he wanted breakfest and didn't have a car, so I loaned him my car and he ended up bringing both of us breakfest and I thought that was sweet. He mocks (jokingly) everything I say and teases me playfully, and I like that...but I don't know who to choose.....PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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Who do you trust more?
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Okay, I have a friend and we've been friends for six years. But I've been secretly in LOVE with him all this time. We used to flirt when we were younger, but now that we've been friends for so long, it's like we're more like brother and sister than we could be going out. It would be weird, but he's going off to college in May and I REALLY want my chance before he gets away. I know he'll be back for holidays and everything, but I'm literally in love and I just want to be with him, yet he's just a friend and I also don't want to ruin the friendship. What if he doesn't feel the same about me? (link)
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Tell him that you love him but if he doesn't feel the same way so we can just be friends.
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15/f. i'm sorry if this is confusing or long, but i feel so helpless and i have no idea what to do. every year my school has a 9th grade assessment. it is a really big project that takes about 2-3 monthes to complete, and you need to be in groups of 4 people ONLY. here is my problem. i had a group with two of my other friends. we all agreed, but then that day one of them texted me saying that they found two other people to work with. so i was stuck alone. i asked my other friend jenn if i could be with her and kelly, but they thought they were with two other people. it turns out that they thought that the two other girls that they were suppose to be with found other people, so i was in a group with jenn and kelly. we then found another member to make four. but then today jenn told me that her and kelly were going to be in a group with the two girls that they were suppose to be with in the first place. now i'm stuck again!
i've asked basically EVERYBODY, and everyone already has a group. the problem is that you need to sign up in groups by monday. i know i could go to the teacher that is organizing the project, but them he would put me with the losers that didn't have a group and i'll end up failing the project. i don't want to be in a group with just ANYBODY because this project and huge and if you fail it you have to go to summer school.
this is making me so upset to be ditched TWICE. i feel like i have no friends now. i feel like i'm about to cry. what am i suppose to do.
i know this was long, but it has really been bothering me so any adivice will really help me.
thanks. (link)
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Ask if you can work on your own or work with the losers and say to your friends you were forced to and they were going to give you the answers.
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Its slang what does "chop" mean.This boy went to ask my mate out and he said, when can i chop her? (link)
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Something sick and rude.
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Im kinda popular I guess.
Most boys are mean to me in school and then out of school all they wanna do is hookup with me.
Its weird, but they dont LIKE LIKE me.
I mean , no guys really like me for who i am , they just wanna hookup with me for some reason.
And I dont get it , im not even that pretty and im not that skinny.
Ive never had a boyfriend and I want a guy to actually like me.
Whats the deal here? (link)
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Flirt and smile more.
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yeah yeah yeah another one of those questions..
okay so theres this boy in one of my classes and i think he's really cute and i want to get to know him more..but how do you like "get to know someone" ...like if i just randomly went up to him and started talking he'd be like "um?" ..because we've never talked before..so how can i become his friend without being too weird about meeting him? if that makes sense?
today i added him as a friend on myspace though...(he hasnt been on though so he didnt accept me yet.) (link)
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Just smile at him and then start talking to him.
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I need help! I asked out this girl and now we go out. but she is always shy. i need advice to make her not so shy. Or things we can talk about in lunch or bus. (link)
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She needs to be comfortable around you and for her to feel comfortable she needs to trust you and for her to trust you she needs time.
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15/f
so i just found out the love of my life is goin away for 6 months. we were together for a month then we broke up but we still acted like we were together u know kissing and everything. he told me today that he was goin away. he wants to have sex and so do i but do you think this is rite?? so you think im gonna git my heart broken? all my friends think so but thats just because they dont know him. by the way im a virgin so this will be my first time. PLEASE HELP!!!! (link)
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Have a discussion with him about will he still love you when he comes back and ask him if he loves you now.
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ok me and my girl have been together for 4 months and 28 days and we are GREAT everything is great and we are really comfortable and well her dad is a peer prick i absolutly cant stand him. He used to beat her and stuff but now he will scream at her for nothin, And he thinks she spends to much time with me and we only get to actually spend time with each other one time a week and her dad dont trust us enough to even let us set in the car together at a store so that kinda shows how much he likes me. He also said that if her grades dont come up then she cant see me ATT ALL and i dont think eather one of us can handle that. Does anyone know what i can do to get him to leave her alone?...... (link)
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You need to tell someone otherwise one day he may just hit her to hard and when she hits the floor she may not stand up again.
God bless
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my bf said he wanted to take a break? what is that? I think it sounds like hes dumping me but he sed not exactly. whats going on? i tried asking him and he just says he kind of confused right now. (link)
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He needs some time to think about where his feelings for you stand, give him some time to think it through
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do guys think girls pube hair is gross? (link)
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Not all guys.
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16/f
i'll just get to the point..
so pretty much exactly a year ago i went out with this boy named johnny, whos a grade higher than me. we went out for a while like two months, but we both kinda mutually realized we still liked our exes. Since then we had been great friends, but neither of us did end up going with our exes. durring the summer we were talking and he asked if i wanted to hook up some time, just for experience, because ive been kissed and everything but i dont really make out with just anyone, so i never have before. well then i was like , friends with benefits? and he was like yeah, i guess, so i said sure why not. a week later a boy named chris asked me out, and we went out for four months, but he was kinda an ass, so we broke up. then a couple weeks later johnny was like how are you and chris, and i was like ohhh, we broke up a while ago.. sorry i didnt tell you we never really talk any more :( and he was like i knoow we should hang out next weekend, and i was like deffinitly . then he was like so do you want to do that friends w/ benefits thing now :) and like i guess i want to for experience, but i told him i like someone else, and hes like thats deffintitly not a problem. lol, so we arent going to go past second , but can i have either some advice on what to do since we dont even like eachother like that, like how do i let him know to start making out with me? or like can i have advice on what else to do besides making out, like where to put my hands to tease him or other places to kiss :)
thanksss for advice, i apreciate anything (link)
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Ask him where he wants to be touched but if your horney enough it well just come naturally.
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My best guy friend likes me (he told me) and I like him too. The problem is he is afraid of committment. I've been waiting about 3 months for him to ask me out, and I don't think I can take it any more. Any suggestions on what to do? Should I just give up on him, and find someone else? (link)
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Tell him you are prepared to take slow.
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i feel like i do so much for my boyfriend. he gets so stressed out because he works 40 hours a week and goes to school so i barely get any of his time. but when i am with him i try and do so much so he feels appreciated for what he does. but lets just face it guys arent like girls. you cant just pick up flowers and everything be okay. what do you do for a guy? i mean i give him full body massages all the time. i try and do anything i can. but what can you really do? weve been together for 9months and i love all of it. it does get hard. for the both of us. i kinda feel like im not respected either for the hard work i put into the relationship and i never feel like im worth any of it to him. so like next thursday is our 9months or whatever and i told him he has to show someway that he cares about anything i do or its done. because i cant stay in this without respect but just is that right? i just want to feel cared about. and also what can i do for him that basically says. I Love you so much and i appreciate everything you do. besides getting naked and saying put it in me. (link)
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Loving him and letting him know that is enough.
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that I have a crush on! Jeez, I've had crushes on guys since those kindergarten days.. anyway, I'm 13 and in 7th grade, and I want to know ways to get this guy I like to like me back. I didnt even know him to this year, and he's in like.. alot of my classes too. On the first day of school, right when I saw him, I was like instantly attracted to him, even though I said in the summer that I wouldnt fall for any more guys anymore, and would focus on my schoolwork, friends and such. Im not sure about going out with him or anything.. like he even has the feelings back for me, which I dont know yet. I tend to be kind of shy unless I just happen to be comfortable around you and then I open up, so I dont want him to just think "oh shes just that shy girl". but he hasnt been been to me so far, but i want to know a way to like.. discreetly (no way am i flirting like really openly! how embarassing!! well it depends..) flirt with him or whatever to get his attention.. but like subtle. lol what do guys like in a girl and stuff? hes pretty sporty.. and um.. nice too, lol. also kinda cocky and outgoing personality.. (but not in an annoying way.. he doesnt really call out and stuff.) so yeah. any helpful advice gets a 5!!!! thanksssss! (link)
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Guys like girls who are confrontational.
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about who i trust more... i think my bff cause he hasnt hurt me like my ex has (link)
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Then go with your bff.
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if you have sex. and you;re supposed to get your period about two weeks after...will it just be late or will you completly miss it? i never under stood that.. (link)
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You will still get your period that month
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Ok...so i'm a 15/f and I'm talking to my friend. She has liked me forever and she just told me she loved me. I just wasn't expecting it at all. Is it too soon for her to love me? Is it ok since we have been friends for about 2 years? I didn't say it back either, because I don't love her yet, but I eventually could. (link)
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You've known her a long time so there should be quite a good amount of trust, it's not to soon to love her because you have known her a long time.
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Alright, so I really like this guy, and he is in two of my classes, and sometimes in my lunch, though I don't sit with him. I sit next to him in one class, and near him in another. What are some things I can do to be, I don't know, I guess flirty? Like, what do guys want/see in girls that they like? Or what can I do? Any advice would help. I'm not really an outgoing kind of person, and its not like I would just say "Hey! You want to hang out tomorrow night, or go to the movies some time?" Literally, there is nothing I can do about that, so don't say just get over your fears and go for it.
Thanks.
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Give him a lot of sexy smiles and talk about when his next soccer match is also get closer to him by going to his soccer matches and stuff.
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ok so i have this boyfriend right? i like him alot and stuff... but in school i see him
before 1st
after 1st
after 2nd
after 4th
I HAVE 5TH WITH HIM
after 5th
after 6th
after advisory
and yeah...
how can i tell him... that i need space. and that hes being a little too .. "clingy"
xxx (link)
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Tell him you need some space to yourself and if he loves you enough then he give you space without fuss or say you are busy.
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