Ok...so i'm a 15/f and I'm talking to my friend. She has liked me forever and she just told me she loved me. I just wasn't expecting it at all. Is it too soon for her to love me? Is it ok since we have been friends for about 2 years? I didn't say it back either, because I don't love her yet, but I eventually could.
People can fall in love with someone in two weeks, four weeks, four years. It all depends with each and every person.
It is perfectly okay. You guys have been friends for a very long amount of time.
And it's also perfectly okay not to say it back to her yet. You should say it whenever you're ready to say it to her. I'm sure she might've felt a little sad that you didn't say it back, who wouldn't, but I'm sure she'd rather you say it whenever do, then just lie and say you do to make her feel happy.
Rainbow23 answered Friday November 10 2006, 1:28 pm: You've known her a long time so there should be quite a good amount of trust, it's not to soon to love her because you have known her a long time. [ Rainbow23's advice column | Ask Rainbow23 A Question ]
croat answered Friday November 10 2006, 12:55 am: the important thing is that you talk to her about how you feel and ask her how she feels about it. you can never measure love and time because the two of them share nothing in common. time is the same all the ...time, but love is always a mystery and you can never know what it is really after or how things might end up. just one last thing and i guess it's the most important, when you do talk to her and i'm guessing that you'll tell her that you don't know if you love her (not trying to put words in your mouth) but make sure you mention, from what i'm getting from you, that you are unsure about the whole love thing and that you still need time to sort it out but until then you don't want anything to change. now you'll most likly not use that and i agree but it's the message that it gives that's important to follow. follow your heart, it always knows the true path, even if you don't.
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