Alright, so I really like this guy, and he is in two of my classes, and sometimes in my lunch, though I don't sit with him. I sit next to him in one class, and near him in another. What are some things I can do to be, I don't know, I guess flirty? Like, what do guys want/see in girls that they like? Or what can I do? Any advice would help. I'm not really an outgoing kind of person, and its not like I would just say "Hey! You want to hang out tomorrow night, or go to the movies some time?" Literally, there is nothing I can do about that, so don't say just get over your fears and go for it.
Thanks.
chicacaliente answered Thursday November 9 2006, 9:43 pm: In order to be flirty, i wouldnt really like curl the hair, and stuff like that but be you. I would maybe laugh at his jokes if hez trying to be funny, spend a few extra minutes in the morning with your hair, and be a little more picky with what you wear. Dont start wearing like rilly mini skirts, because guys dont like tramps...or girls who are easy. Guys like girls who are confident, who can laugh at themselves, and dont really care what people think about them. They dont want a regular girl, who is insecure and shy. I would also maybe get close to some of his friends, in order to get close to him, and get to know him, so you can learn some stuff about him. In the hall you can talk about a crazy teacher you have,homework(a good reason to call him, well it kinda corny, but still cute), you can talk about clubs, sports, a new movie opening(you can invite him)liek by saying "i am going to the movies this weekend with a few frens, u can come if u want", but more of you in it! And hey if you really want to talk to him, ask him if he knows a place to go to learn about whatever he is doing at church. I hoped i helped. :) Good Luck! [ chicacaliente's advice column | Ask chicacaliente A Question ]
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