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I am kinda siily, but thatz wat people lyk about me! I am kinda loud, but i am kinda smart. Isnt dat funny. Music is my boyfriend, and people say i am random, but i am concentrated sometimes. I lyk 2 speak spanish, because you can yell at people in spanish and it sounds so cool!I lyk dis guy in my skool, so i may dump music , you never know. And i am as cute as a button! Supoosedly...i am boy krazy, but i just think i am boy crazy. Oh yea i love to dance. I can dance for like ever. And i love pizza!I hope i help you with your problems! Enjoy! Oh yea, i love cartoons, especially donald duck as a baby.

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We start a cross country run tomorrow...it's around 2 nad a bit miles. But i have no stamina what so ever. I am probably one of the fastest people in our year, but i can't run for ages.
What are ways to improve stamina ?

Continue practicing! That will help, but time yout self, and then do it over and over again, and you will notice a comepetitive streak in you, and you will push, and your endurance will increase. As well, when your running, picture something you really want at the end of the race(like a boy, ice cream, etc.). Hope i helped! Good luck 2morrow!

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how do you get rid of cellulite? cause like i'm 14 and hate having it! and.. whats it from? cause i'm about 135 & 5,1 -- fat i know! but like i had it when i was skinnier too? ahh. thanks. :)

Ok i went online about this, and it says their is no miracle treatment, or and surgery, will only make a temporary decrease in cellulite. If you decide that you want to try to reduce the amount of cellulite you have, the best thing to do is to reduce body fat. Eat fewer calories and exercise more, if you are over weightIn the meantime, if you want to conceal your cellulite, try using a self-tanning product. Cellulite tends to be a little bit less noticeable on darker skin.Many things influence whether a person has cellulite and how much they have. Your genes, your gender, the amount of fat on your body, your age, and the thickness of your skin are all associated with the amount of cellulite you have or how visible it is. Hope i helped! And if you want more info go to http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_body/beautiful/cellulite.html



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this iPod commercial ->>> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SF0cO29dHP4
whats the name of the song and who sings it?
thanksss!!

I like that song too. It is called Cubicle by Rinocerose. My friend has that song on her ipod!
Hop i helped! Love ya and good luck! :)

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Hello, I am 6'4 295 pounds and 19 years old.
I really have just been sitting for the past few years gaining weight without really paying attention.. But as I realize how terrible it is for me to be 295 pounds at 19.
I need some good advice to take off the weight.

Also, what would be a target weight for someone of my height?

A little background :
I used to drink 12 packs of mountaindew every other day, have regular flavored taco chips at least 3 times a week and eat lots of white flour products. I stopped drinking soda about 7 months ago and have a can once or twice a month now.
I have cut out white flour within the last two months.
I have been a vegetarion all my life up until recently, Now I don't eat any animal products except for omega3 free range eggs.

I have freetime up the yinyang and am ready to do ANYTHING you have to suggest, I have a treadmill capable of upto 10MPH and a weight set with upto 300Lbs of weight already.

Hi i am sammy and i know what your going through. I am also on the heavy side and just last year, was when i started to do something about it. I used to be gaining about 20 pounds a year, but last year, i was determined. Anyways the average weight of a person your height is about 181 to 207. This may seems like a long way to go, but dont worry, take it baby steps. I need to lose about 70 pounds, but i am taking baby steps.
It sounds you like you have been doing a great job so far, but you may want to take advantage of the treadmill. Go on every day for about 30 minutes, and no more than that. You dont want to over do it. As well try to replace some fattty foods with fruits and veggies. Once you start, you will start craving fruits and veggies.
It may be hard at first, but dont worry it will become easier. This routing usually is alot less pain ful when you do with somebody. I am doing it with my mom, because she is also overweight.
When you have some one to do it with, you can explain yourself, and they will understand what your going through. Plus, drink about 10 cupz of water everyday.
And if you want you can ask your doctor to take diet pills. MOst doctors will say yes, if you larger than most people, i used to take Dexatrim Maxx, and with the excersize, diet, no snacks, and all the water, i lost 5 punds in the first week.
Once you get past the first week, it becomes easier. If you want to talk anymore about this, feel free to leave some stuff in my inbox.
Oh, you can also go to a weight loss program, like Weight Watchers. In this program i lost 10 pounds. But in this program, you have to stick with it, because when i left, i gianed the weighth back.
I hop i helped. DOnt give up no matter how hard it may seem. Sum weeks you may lose weight, some weeks you may gein, and some weeks you will plateau(stay the same). Keep working at it, because you feel much better after.

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Ok, 13/F. All my friends have had a minumum of 3 boyfriends before and I havent had any. Now, I really like this one guy and some of my friends says he likes me but I cant tell. Like Ill say simple things and theyll be like thats a good sign and Id be confused. Like, everytime I wait outside his class (cause we are in practically the same classes and all my classes are right after his so im always standing there outside the doors) hed spot me and give me this huge smile and playfully stick out his toungue and id act all shocked and he'd laugh a little. Whenever hes around us during recess we always talk and stuff privatley also we always like joke around. Hes put his arm around me a few times and defends me whenever someone calls me a flirt or a looser. We email eachother and stuff. I think were good friends but my friends say its something more is it? Im very confused!

I dont want to sound negative, but it just sounds like he is a really close friend. There is always a possibiblity that he likes you. Y not have a friend ask him or one of his friends if he does. Dont get caught up in all that stuff about not having a boyfrined, cuz this stuff takes time. There is nothing wrong with being flirty, it wont hurt your relationship. But you can drop some hints, around him to let him know. Dont rush things! JUst figure out if he is interested or not. Hope i helped!~ Love ya! :)

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ok i failed 2 finals before & im afraid that will affect what colleges accept me. i'm just not a great test taker, but even with F's on the final, i still managed to get all A's and B's for all of my classes as my final grade & still have a 3.4 GPA. any opinions or experiences??

thanks!!

This happened to my friend all the time. She was a straight A student since kindergarden, but when it came to FInals, she would tank. And she didnt know what to do. So,she went to the school counselor(because they know what to do, they have had situations like this before) ands they gave her some good tips. They said to try different techniques of studying for tests like
1. write your notes more than twice
2. make it fun, and sudy like your in a jeopardy game
3. study with a group of friends(who are REALLY trying to study)
4. study with a parent
5. Problay the best one, study with your teacher
My friend, stududed with her teachers and she ended up getting A's and B's.
By the way let your teacher know, that you are not a good test taker, if they havent noticed.
I hope i helped! Love ya and good luck!
Oh,dont stress cuz that doesnt help either! :)

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I've tried many times to put a tampon in, but I have no success. It hurts SOOOO bad. Like, I'm not sure if I'm just being a wimp or soemthing but it really does hurt super bad. What can I do about this? Why is it doing this? Please help! I'm fully relaxed when I try so please don't tell me to just relax. I REALLY need to start using tampons so PLEASE help me out here! What's wrong with me?! HELP! THANKS!

i dont use tampons, but if it is uncomfortable, then maybe you should get a different type, brand, or size. But if it doesnt work, you can use a pad. They are usually fine, and they work. I dont think they are uncomfortable, but good luck!

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Theres some guy who likes me and i only want to be friends. he asked for my number and I didn't want to be rude so i did and he texts me everyday and it kinda annoying since i don't like him. and he told me that he wished for me and yeah its sweet but I don't have those feeling for him.

Any advice?

Ok tell him that you dont like him like that cuz you are definately leading him on. He may even think you guys are in a relationship. Tell him, so he wont get the wron idea, and so he wont get hurt. Good luck! :)

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I want to lose some weight and go down to Hilary and Lindsay's weight because I am not comfortable with my body.. does anyone know how i can do this?

Sure you can be their weight if you are like 8 years old. You dont want to be their weight. THeri weight is unhealthy. They are anorexic. They are a bad influence on kids, because no one should want to be that skinny. You can lose a few pounds by going on a HEALTHY diet, not starvation or carsh diets. Eat carbs in the mornin, fruits and veggies in the noon, and protein in the nite, and have fruits and veggies for snacks. Excersize for about 30 minutes with a 5 or 10 minute strectch then, you should shed a few pounds. But if you want to be sick, and be scarily skinny, having your family worried about your weight, and you being as fragile as a leaf in a hurricane, then dont come to me for advice. Cuz no one should be that thin. :) Good luck!

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What is the best possible way to get over someone? I got dumped MONTHS ago by my first boyfriend and I'm still not over it. He's somehow always on my mind and being pathetic, I still cry over him. My friends and family are even sick of hearing about it. Does anyone have good ways that you got over someone that hurt you badly? I just want him out of my mind & heart!

OK, this can be very hard to deal with, and you shouldnt rush it. It can take a day, a week, a month, or even a few months, but you will finally face the fact, that you guys are over. And that if he dumped you, he is an indiiot, and should be lucky to be with you. And trust me when you get over him, you will finally notice the amount of guys who would love to be with you, and you will find that special person...eventually. So dont fret, because hez not worth it. YOu will get over him soon enough! :)

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Ok so like i used to cut because of all the emotions i was going through, but now im not depressed and im fine and im just cutting for no reason, and i have no idea why im cutting just for no reason. its not like im upset about something. its like im cutting because im used to it and i feel i need to keep doing it. can someone please help me and try to figure out why im cutting just because.

You need to stop cutting your self. It is not good for you, and it does not help you. It is not to your advantage. You do not need to keep doing it, and you never should have started. IF you cant stop on your own, then go and see a doctor, or talk to some one, becasue trust me, nothing good will come out of, with the exception of many scars, which isnt attractive. I dont want to seem mean, but itz just not good for you. Please dont do that to your self. Talk to any body, whether it is a friend, or a school therapuist. :|

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help! here the thing. I liked this boy who has a crush on one of my friends. He asked her out but then before she could say anything he went with me! I was so happy but then the next day the girl he asked out heard a rumor that we were going out. so she said yes. Then i get asked out by boy 2. He'snice but i still like boy 1! My plan was to make boy 1 jelous. i think it's working but should i dump boy 2 and wait for boy 1?

from,
Boy crazed

Ok, it is not really nice to use some one just to get a guy to like you, even though it can be fun, and to your advantage. But if you really want to be with Boy 1, then i would dump boy 2. I hope Boy 1 he asks you out, like you wanted! And make sure when you break up with boy 2, you hav a reason, whether it is the REAL reason, or the bending the truth reason. Good luck! :P

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13/f

me and my bestfriends has been friends for a long time ! i would totally be a different person without her.. but for some odd reason.. she stopped talking to me, and i aimed her after i called her cause she didn't pick up.. and she never answered on aim. she was typing.. but she didn't enter anything, she js backspaced and didn't say anything.. then my older sister got mad and aimed her up saying why is she ignoring me and stuff.. but i told my sister that shes gonna get more mad.. so she said "don't tell mary that im aiming you, she doesn't know." and etc. finally when i commented her myspace.. i told her i was sorry for whatever i did that i got her mad at me.. and she put "............" and i said "are you mad?" and she said "should'nt you know if im mad or not?" and i said "okay, your mad.. can we talk about it?" and she said "i don't know HOW to talk about it." and i said "tell me what happened?" and she said she doesn't really wanna talk about it right now. idk what to do.. i didn't talk bad about her.. she treats me so well.. theres nothing bad to talk about.

my friend says that i should js give her some time and ask her again later.. and i told her when shes ready to talk about it.. aim me.. but she hasn't yet..

SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE !

Be patient. Giv it some time., It seems your friend is going through a hard time, and she will need some one to talk to , and that is you. SO when the time is right, she will spill. And she wont feel awkward, because you are willling to help. Snd let her know, that you will always be there for her, becasue she is your best friend too. :) Good luck!

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so theres this boy.... i havent met him but all my friends are friends w/ him. just to start outt hes a player and every girl wants him. i just finally got over this one guy and then me and the playerr started talking on myspace then aim and now we like always talk on aim and text like every day.. he started out flirting w/ me like he does w/ like every other girl but then after a while he started implying that he thinks that we'll probably end up going out... which he doesnt do to every other girl.. well we've been trying to make plans for a while now but i keep fucking things upp and i fucked things up for the like 6th time and now hes mad at me.. he wont answer my texts.. i dunno what to do. help me out.

It kinda sound like you wanna go out with this guy, so since you kinda screwed up, then just go to him, and ask if he wants to hang out with you this weekend. And you can say you sorry fir messing everything up. Hopefully, he will say yes. Good luck!

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ok soo im a girl and im on my period and im getting sick of it because im allergic to a lot of stuff in medicines so i really cant take anything for bloating or cramps. so as far as cramps go i try to use the heating pad and sometimes that helps but like when im at school i cant. and as far as bloating? i have no idea any ideas?

Um... i usually take advil or aleve. I dont think itz possible to be allergic to that. It takes away like the cramps, and wherever it hurts. I think itz good. It works for me. And you can do what my grandma does, drinik herbal tea with no sugar or splenda. I hope i helped! Good luck!

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Hello, my name is Beth! I am 15, and I really need help!

Ok! So, I guess I should start at the beginning.

A year ago I started dating this guy, Logan. Well, a couple months after we started going out, this other guy, William, kissed me. Well, I didn't like William that way. I only saw him as a friend. So I told Logan, Logan got mad at Will, pretty soon the problem died down, and it wasn't anything bad anymore. Logan was even comfortable with me being around William alone. So, me and William become really good friends, but he starts crying all the time because I didn't love him back. And I tried to explain it to him that I don't love him. Well, he respected it, but he didn't understand. So, he got alittle depressed, and he wouldn't come near me. Well, I was ok with it. I didn't love him, so no big deal. But, me and Logan started having sex, and my mom caught us, so I wasn't allowed to see Logan anymore, and she started shoving William on me. Well, I didn't love William. So, me and Logan started having problems. We start to go to Missouri on vacation, and my mom invites Will. Will agrees, and so we're on our way. And me and William start having alot of fun! Like, we start dunking each other underwater, flirting alot, having loads of personal fun. Nothing like sex, or anything. But, I call Logan later telling him how great my day is, and he get's pissed and hangs up on me. Well, I can completely understand why he hung up on me, I would be mad if he was wrestling with a girl who loved him. So, something happened. Like snapped inside me, and I didn't want Logan anymore, I wanted William. So I told William that I thought I had fallen in love with him, and of course he was happy as could be. But we couldn't date or anything because I was with Logan. But i've been with Logan so long, and I gave him my virginity. Like, that was the most important thing to me. So it got really hard for me to just let Logan go. Well, William is headed to boot camp in a few weeks, so I decide i'll finaly do it. So I do. And I get alittle depressed, but I have William to tell me it's ok. So me and Will start going out, and I couldn't get any letters the first 2 weeks he's gone. And I really start to get lonely, but i'm determined. Well, we finaly are able to start writing letters to each other, and about a month and a half I get a letter that says,"I can't say I love you enough." Well, I thought he meant he didn't love me enough, but he meant he couldn't say it enough. So, as soon as I misunderstand the letter, I call Logan and ask him to forgive me, because I still don't wanna be alone. Logan forgives, and takes me back like a hero, but later I get a letter from Will that says he DIDN'T break up with me. So I start freaking out, and I don't know what to do. Back at square one. So I dump Logan, and tell William about everything that went wrong, he calls me a few days before he's ready to come home, and we agree that we are still together. Well, 3 days later my MOM gets a break up letter from him that I can't misunderstand. It said he didn't have the patience for me, and that he can't forgive me for the misunderstanding. So, AGAIN i'm back with Logan wondering how Logan could take me back after all that, and William comes home, and he COMPLETELY ignores me. Utterly. I didn't see him the first 3 days he was home, and he finaly sends me a message saying,"You can ignore me like I have been ignoring you, or you can tell me how I screwed up." I told him I was sorry about everything, and that I understood if he didn't love me anymore, but I wanted our friendship back atleast. Well, he agreed, and he came out to see my mom, but he didn't treat me like a friend. He didn't talk to me at all. Well, 2 weeks go by, and I guess he starts trying to make me jealous with my twin sister, which works, but a few days before he leaves to go BACK to Cali he tells Emily, my sister, that he loves her. William wouldn't say something he didn't mean. And, basicaly...

I guess I want William to be happy. And i want to be the one to make him happy. Do I ignore it, talk to him about it, or what?! What do I do to maybe make him like me again...?

As for Logan. He's a great guy, and I regret hurting him. And he's been a part of my life for so long, I don't know how I could bare to keep hurting him. And I think he deserves better than me. I feel bad, but what can I say?...I just don't love him anymore. It would be easier if I did.

WOW, that was long! Anyways, i would talk to him about how he used to love you, and just lyk dat you go after your sister. Ask if he is saying he loves her, just to be with some one, or to make you jealous. I would talk the WHOLE ENTIRE SITUATION with him. And i am not giving you advice, on how to make him like you again, because you hurt him once, and no one deserves to be hurt like that. YOU should think about that. As for logan, you should apologize for what you did, and hope he forgives you. USING PEOPLE IS WRONG! I kno you may not rate me high, becuase this advice huts, but it is true!

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Okay,my friends mom has breast cancer for the second time.She is now on full time oxyegen. How can i help my friend cope with the fact that her mom might not survive? Please Help!!! She is very scared!!!

Well let her know that you will always be there for her, whenever she needs some one tot talk to. If you want to tell her, her mom would not want her crying over her, even though it is hard. You can tell her to think of all the great memories. And even if her mom does passs away, doesnt mean she is out of her life, she will alwyas take up a space in her heart. But keep hope! I hope she feels better. :\

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I need some help, i have herd alot that starveing yourself to lose weight doesn't work, but i have also herd that thats how the celeberties stay so skinny.I already know that starving yourself is vary bad for your body, so don't bother telling how dangerouse it is.I just want a yes, or no answer on wether or not it works, also i have been dieting for a wile, i run of the tredmeal every day for a hour and i have been eating healthy foods.But i haven't lost eny weight and i still look the same, i have been doing this for 3 weeks, what am i doing wrong?

Ok first of all, starving yourslf, of course it works, but you wont be llosing just fat, you will lose alot of muscle too. This is not good for your body. You shouldnt starve yourself to lose weight! You will becone weak and feeble, and that is UNATTRACCTIVE. It may work ...for a while, but the second you go back to eating normally, you will put back on the weight., If you want to shed some pounds, do it the right way. The right way is the healthy way. Excersize daily, but dont over do it. Est carbs in the morning and mid afternoon, fruits and veggies at lunce, and proteins at dinner, even if you eat late. MAke sure you are not eating carbs latea t night. Continue running. It can be that you are at a plateau. Be positive, because u sound very negative. If you believe in yuro self the pounds will come off. Eat 5 to 6 times a day in small portions. Do not starve urself! Good luck! :)

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Hey, ive been going out with this guy for a lil over 2 months, and he is awesome..i love him soo much. He's 15 but with christmas coming up i have no idea what to get him!! Please HelP!

BEcause the gift came from you, i am sure it will be special but you can get him like a football(if hez ajock), a CD of his favorite band(if hez a musician)a sketchbook and art suppiles(if he musician) or maybe acessories(if he likez earings and bracelets, like goth). Um...but you can never go wrong with a home made gift. Hope i helped! Good luck! :)

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I hurt my pinky but its not broken. It is just very hard to bend and really hurts. I think I sprained it. Is there anything I could do to help heal it quickly?

Place some ice on the pinky, and it should be okay, and if it is serius, have a doctor check it out! Good Luck! :)Feel Better!

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