hey hey I'm duckie_I love giving people advice, because i have been through a lot! I love trying to make a difference. If you have a problem and you dont wanna put it up on the site, email me at duckiex324_@hotmail.com =] make the subject to the email : i need advice, so i know its not spam=]
so a little more about me, hmm im 14 and im addicted to my iPod, cell phone, lipgloss, and my black nailpolish! i love love softball and hanging out with my friends.
I am very open about everything and deffinately am not shy! if i think something, i'll say it! I will always tell you the truth, even if it is brutal, and most people respect that about me=]!
I'm diehard yankees=]
when in doubt... ask duckie!!
hugs and kisses,
duckie
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I need good answers for the following questions:
Why do people divorce?
How can you prevent divorce?
What are signs of divorce?
When should you get a divorce, like in what situations?
Lastly, what are some statistics on divorce in 2007.
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1) people get divorced for different reasons, sometimes you can see it coming sometimes you cant..sometimes one person just doesnt love the other person as much as they used to , just like when a boyfriend and girlfriend break up..sometimes theres an affair, or soemtimes the two just decide they are better appart
2)if a divorce is about to happen if youre oen of the 2 getting the divorce, ask why your partner wants a divorce and see if you can work on it, otherwise try marriage counciling, if its your mom or your dad getting a divorce, i dont really think taht theres much you can do, maybe suggest marriage counciling
3) sometiems there are no signs of divorce, i know my parents never ever fought. and they got a divorce just out of the blue, i never even saw it coming. but in other cases theres a lot of fighting or worse, a lot of silence in the household
4) i dont think i shoudl be the one to tell you that, but in my oppinion A)if youre spouse is abusive or B)if youre being cheated on.. but B still depends on different things
5) statistics :
1 in every 2 marriages end in divorce
i couldnt find anything about 2007 divorces, but i found that in the NY times in 2005 they stated that 60% of all marriages that result in divorce
if you have more details and want my help, send them to my inbox
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This is for a school project. Suggest me songs that represent happy optmisim...a positive "your life is beautiful, keep living!!" attitude. but not anything cheesy or corny please. i'll appreciate it even more if it incorporates going to heaven or something religious!
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every little thing she does is magic -the police
a lot of spice girl songs
bring it all back - s club 7
the happy song -jojo
play - JLO
lets get loud- JLO
why not -hilary duff (idk if that classifies as disney)
picture perfect- ashley parker angel
soundtrack to your life- ashley parker angel
love -ashlee simpson
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One of my best friends is going on tour with his band in a couple days. what is something i can give him? (link)
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give him a mix cd of songs
songs that maybe youve shared
or that you know he likes
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There is this guy, at my church and I also work with him,that I really like, and I think he likes me too. I don't know why I think this, but It's just a girls hunch. He and I skated together for like an hour one night at a church lock in. That isn't really a sign, but I wished it was. My friend bein retarted one day asked him if he would ever go out with me. I'm not sure how to take all this, but I'm gonna go crazy. Any one have any advice on what you think, or what you think I should do to find out. (link)
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what'd he say when she asked him??
if he said yea, go for it honey!!!
if not, look for some more signs,
maybe even go for it anyway!
hugs and kisses,
duckie
you just asked me how to go for it,
hon tell him you like him, or have
your friend do it, or if you are rly
outgoing like me just ask him out
yourself!!!
hugs and kisses,
duckie
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I have an eating disorder.. i keep throwing up i have been for a couple of yeears now....i dont know how to admit it and i dont want to get help from a professional i just dont know what to do .... (link)
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my sister, may she rest in peace, had an eating disorder, please dont make your family go through
what i am, do it for them, you are beautiful i guarantee hang in there
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this summer will be my "senior" year at a summer camp I go to. it's a theater camp and its full of talent and "stars" i want to make a mix cd for each of my friends, who are seniors, but I dont know many songs to put, and I also want to make some sort of t-shirt that says seniors oh sev or something... I'll be making the c.d and the shirt. IDEAS!!
The camp is called On Center Stage (link)
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i made one of these for my friends at theater camp! woah
graduation- vitamin c
good riddance- greenday
far away- nickelback
goodbye - spicegirls
i will remember you- sarah mclaughlin
photograph- nickelback
the scientist- coldplay
also, if you have any inside joke songs, put them on, like i know my theater camp we always sang barbie girl so i put that on it
hugs and kisses,
duckie
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Well, my best friend's mom just died today.
I don't know what to say or do?
I was going to make her a large card [although it might not help] to let her know I'm here.
Is there anything else I can do for her to keep her from falling apart? (link)
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be there thats the best
cry with her, hug her
let her know you are there
tell her your fone is on
all night (and make sure it is)
this is horrible, i am so sorry
hugs and kisses,
duckie
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hey does anyone know any good sites to learn the regular main notes of playing guitar and the cords and maybe a little like short song! lol thx! ♥ (link)
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www.ultimate-guitar.com
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i really want a pair of brown cable-knit clogs. but i can't find a pair anywhere! can somebody please tell me some stores that you know that have them?
this is what i'm talking about (but i don't like how it says sketchers on it and i don't like the fur):
http://www.famousfootwear.com/product.asp?product_id=1010450&variant_id=34030
omgsh thanks so much! this will be so helpful [= (link)
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steve madden has the best i hve them in tan brown and black :-p
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well in my school we're doing these things where you can make shoebox gifts for soldiers in iraq for this christmas but i cant think of anything!!
so far i have :
-crossword puzzle/pen
-some assorted nonperishable candy (jollyranchers, etc)
-and maybe a swimsuit magazine? haha
any further ideas would be GREAT!
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make them a card saying thank you
and prepaid phone cards-lots of them
they love to talk to their loved ones
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There is this teacher, and she teacher earth science at my school, and i cant stand her. SHe hates coming to work, and she can never smile. SHe said she doesnt care about us, she just wants to teach., When we ask a question, she makes you feel like an idiot. She thinks she is so smart, but she is just aroogant. ANd...she yelled at me, because i proved her wrong. Can someone giv me some advice on how to deal with her. Thanks , trust me if you have good advice, i will be so grateful. (link)
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we must go to the same school!!!
tell your counselour..trust me its awesome
the teacher gest in lotsa trouble=] but not fired
dnt wry.. i did this 2 ma spanish teacher last year=] good times good times, after that she was so nce to me=]
hugs and kisses,
duckie
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I had my period almost two years ago and I nevr developed. No size increase in my breasts, no curves, just growing hair and that's it. Other girls in my class had their period this year and they already developed (and I would be lying if I didn't say that boy's are starting to get attention form their breasts). I don't think it's the normal "you're just a slow developer" because that's way to long to not develope anything and I'm too scared to talk to my doctor about it because he's a guy. Do you think it's a serious problem and that it'll effect my body in a bad way like getting cancer or something? Yes, stupid question but I'm serious. (link)
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this is like my friend.. lets call her alexi...
i like that name! hahaa okay anyway, so yea, she is rly small, she doesnt even wear a bra half the time (we re 14) shes had her period since she was 11, and theres no problem with her, she asked her doctor
if your doctor thought there was a problem, hed say something...
try talking to your mom..ik awkward
hugs and kisses,
duckie
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on my cingular motorala razr, how much does it cost to be on the internet? like if it says 1000 bytes transfered (or another number) how much money does each byte cost? (link)
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a lotttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt
cingular keeps tricking me into extra money
my last bill was 578 $$
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15/f. Christmas is my all time FAVORITE holiday. i just love it! now that it is coming up, i've seen christmas commercials, and i've already started making my christmas list. now that is all i can think about. i'm just so excited! what are some things that i can do to take my mind off of christmas. because i sometimes get sad thinking about it because it is almost two months away.
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good to know someones as excited as me!
hugs and kisses,
duckie
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im in love with my best friend..
the only problem is, right now she is in a serious relationship.
But somtimes she acts like she likes me (which confuses me ALOT)
I would do anything to be with her.
She means the world to me, and i just want to see her happy.
What should i do?
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i was once in love with my best friend, and the worst part was, he was going out with my other best friend, and they had met through me! oh i was devestated, you really have to tell him how you feel, if you need advice on how to do it, drop a message in my inbox
hugs and kisses, duckie
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I have this really suicidal friend called jazz and she keeps cutting her wrists and trying to kill herself because she is depressed i have tryed to help her but she keeps making me feel depressed, i told her to go to the doctor she say no i say talk to school she say no so what do i do? (link)
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ok
true story (idk why i have so many depressing storys. my friend was cutting and i told their parents, they rushed her to the hospital, and it saved her life, please do the same for your friend, i know people who have committed suicide at my school, its not okay=[ rip
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i have been throwing up or starving myslef for a very lonf time...i do it in periods...one week im really good and healthy and then i let myslef slide and i eat all this junk and throw it up...it makes me feel very dpressed and i withdrawl from everything...is there any health ways ...like small things i can do to get better or make soem kinda of change (link)
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ive never met you but i swear to you that you are beautiful, please dont do this to yourself it could be fatal=[ ....please dont...my sister did... may she rest in peace
please get help
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whats a really good razor(not disposable) to use for your legs? and not too pricey. thanks (link)
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venus vibrance
is amazinggggggg
you can skip shaving for like a week after you use it
.. sometimes more=]
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There is this guy that i like, and um... i want to tell my firends because i am not good at keeping secrets(i am kind of a big mouth), and um...well the problem is that...i like a guy that they used to like, but now hate because he wasnt interested in them. And i think hes rilly hot, but i am afraid to say anything, because they call him ass hole and watever, and i dunno, if i shud tell them. I mean when my friend found out my other friend liked him she got pissed off. And i dont want to get into a fight. Does someone have advice they can give me, so i dont screw up anything. Thanks! Love ya :) (link)
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if i could count how many times this happened in my group of friends,well youd probly get like 15 but yea.
i remember this one time i liked this boy and cursed me out one day and the next day he asked out my best friend and she said yes, i was pissed. ohhh man, but i got over it because i saw how much my friend liked him and how nice he was to her and how cute they were
if your friendslove you
they'll get over it
go for it=]
leave me a message in my inbox to tell me how things turned out=]
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Alright one day in school we had a sub and there was no work givin so the teacher decided to show us this cool websit. On the website you type in the name of a band and then it will give you another band that is like that one, then you can rate them and stuff. It was a relaly cool website and helps you find lots of cool new bands, the only thing is i dont remeber what the site was. I really want to do it on my own at home. If anyones knows the site please help me out and tell me. Im pretty sure it began with a "p" or somthing but maybe not. any suggestions are thanked.
(i already tryed googleing it so please dont say that) (link)
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i think its pandora
www.pandora.com
if thats not it i know its similar
hope i helped=]
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