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Can giving your number lead a guy on..
Theres some guy who likes me and i only want to be friends. he asked for my number and I didn't want to be rude so i did and he texts me everyday and it kinda annoying since i don't like him. and he told me that he wished for me and yeah its sweet but I don't have those feeling for him.
Any advice?
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Oh I've been in situations like that. You could either lie and tell him that you cant use your cellphone anymore because your parents took it away or you could just tell him the truth and say that he is coming on a little to strong and you dont feel the same way.
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I think you need to talk to him, explain to him you like him very much... but only as a friend. I'm sure he will understand, although, you should know that there is no way of escaping him getting at least a little hurt.
Good Luck!
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Well, if you don't like him in that way, I'd tell him. Tell him that the texts need to stop. Maybe like one a day or whatever saying hi or what's up, but to tell you that he's wished for you, it sounds kinda obsessive. Anyways, just tell him you only like him as a friend, but his messages were sweet. Just, don't be a bitch about it, because then he'll get offended. Tell him you're sorry after too, it won't make him feel as bad that you don't see him in that way.
♥TiNA
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Giving him your number isn't leading him on. If you txt back and flirt etc, then yes, it is.
There's nothing wrong with genereal chit chat/friendship with this person, but you do need to make it clear you don't feel for him in <i>that</i> way. Perhaps next time if he says something a little forward, either don't respond or tell him thankyou, but *....*
If you don't say anything to make him think you like him back, then he will eventually get the hint.
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Ok tell him that you dont like him like that cuz you are definately leading him on. He may even think you guys are in a relationship. Tell him, so he wont get the wron idea, and so he wont get hurt. Good luck! :)
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