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with benefits?
16/f
i'll just get to the point..
so pretty much exactly a year ago i went out with this boy named johnny, whos a grade higher than me. we went out for a while like two months, but we both kinda mutually realized we still liked our exes. Since then we had been great friends, but neither of us did end up going with our exes. durring the summer we were talking and he asked if i wanted to hook up some time, just for experience, because ive been kissed and everything but i dont really make out with just anyone, so i never have before. well then i was like , friends with benefits? and he was like yeah, i guess, so i said sure why not. a week later a boy named chris asked me out, and we went out for four months, but he was kinda an ass, so we broke up. then a couple weeks later johnny was like how are you and chris, and i was like ohhh, we broke up a while ago.. sorry i didnt tell you we never really talk any more :( and he was like i knoow we should hang out next weekend, and i was like deffinitly . then he was like so do you want to do that friends w/ benefits thing now :) and like i guess i want to for experience, but i told him i like someone else, and hes like thats deffintitly not a problem. lol, so we arent going to go past second , but can i have either some advice on what to do since we dont even like eachother like that, like how do i let him know to start making out with me? or like can i have advice on what else to do besides making out, like where to put my hands to tease him or other places to kiss :)
thanksss for advice, i apreciate anything
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Hookups= Disaster.
You didn't ask for my advice on the topic though, so I won't give it to you.
If you really want to do this, you shouldn't be nervous. You both obviously are comfortable enough to say yes to this, so just do it. If it happens it happens and if it don't it don't. He brought it up, so let him be the one to make the first move. You just show up and be prepared for whatever happens.
Let me know what happens.
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Ask him where he wants to be touched but if your horney enough it well just come naturally.
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I woudn't because you say you guys are just friends.It sounds like he just wants to just hook up with you.I think his horemones are jumbling up and he may like you too.But remember if you guys want to be just friends.
God bless
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