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Q: How long do you spend with god?
All the time ,plus your never alone even if you try to ignore it your still not spending time with because hes still their with you.


God bless April

Q: How do I control Clostraphobia ?



Clostraphobia is something that no one can control,but their are some ways where you can calm yourself down though.When you get in inclose spaces think of yourself in a feild of open space in the flowers and pray to the Lord he will help you in your time of need.
Hoped I helped

Be praying for you

God bless

Q: Ohmygod. Rawr. Right now, I have my period.
Its the worse one I have had in my life.
I have taken 2 midol, its not doing nothing..

My back is killing me, I havent aten in 1 day becasue I have absoutly no appitite, Everthing hurts. Even my legs.

help? What do you take for these things!? Midol used to work, now, it doesnt!


Thanks so much



I know it hurts doesn't it.What about you take a bendadrill or something else. You probably grew imunity to the Midol.Oh if you have a heating pad lay down and and put it on your back that kinda makes the go away alittle.
Hope this helps

I be praying for you
God bless

Q: Tonight, I'm going to the movies with my boyfriend but my parents are driving us. When we drop him off, do I walk him to the door? Or do I just stay in the car? I wasn't sure if the girl walks him up there too .. ?

Thanks!!



DO what you think is right,follow your heart.


God bless

Q: ok so i havent gotten my period yet but i keep getting this kinda...well...smelly crap in my underwear. what is it? is it a sign i might get my period? i havent had it yet and i dont know how i can see when i first get it



Hmmm.Actually that happen me to not to long ago to me.And it turned out it was my period it really suprised me cause it never happen to me like that.But if your sure thats not your period,it could mean its coming up soon.Congraluations.

P.s.Or ask your mom for some advice about his k.

God bless

Q: About a month ago I got out of a five month relationship and it didnt end on very good terms. I seem to keep falling for guys that will wreck my heart. my question is where are places I can take a fiew of my girl friends to hang out where I can meet a bunch of new guys. And how do i aproach them without seeming odd.



Hmmm tuffy.What bout going to a bowling ally
A arcade at the mall or the mall and even the quick mart.And how to greet them you could do a little cute wave and a smile with eye contact or ask them a little qeustion.And just remember God will send you the right man too.
Hope my advice helped

God bless

Q: I’m 14, and I’ve been having some serious issues lately.

First of all, ever since the beginning of September, I’ve been feeling drained and empty, and all of my energy has disappeared. The only way I can move is to force myself to move; my limbs feel numb, like they’re just filled with water. My period hasn’t come for 2 months. All of my emotions are gone. I never feel happy, I only feel relieved. I don’t feel any other emotion except for sadness and extreme loneliness. Whatmore, my sense of compassion is gone, and I can’t seem to know the difference between right and wrong. I hear about brutal murders, and I don’t feel that they are bad. I remember when I was taught the importance of being a good person, but I don’t see why I should anymore.

I can feel the evil taking over me, and there’s still a little bit left in me to fight against it. My mind is engaged in fighting the evil 24/7, and because of it, I can’t eat, sleep, or do work. If I relax, I know that the evil will completely take over my mind, and I will become a criminal/human monster. Whenever I hear of a murder, I picture myself as the murderer, but the good side of me fights the evil.

Sometimes, I have an urge to do very evil things. But that little bit of sanity holds me back. I have never done anything remotely evil, though.


I know that if I let the evil consume me completely, then my life will be ruined. I will turn into a criminal or something equal to that, and everything that I’ve worked for for the first 14 years of my life will be gone.

I am not a Christian, but I believe in evil. The only thing I want right now is to know the importance of being a good person…….I don’t see why I should be a moral person right now, but I know that if I become a good person like I was before, I will definitely live a better life and be a happier person.


Seriously, I’m not an emo or anything. But how can I protect myself from the evil and become a good person again? I don’t mean by doing good things….I already do good things for people to mask my evil, but I still have evil in my brain. How can I get rid of the evil and become a genuinely good, compassionate person again? How can I re-learn compassion? I will do anything to get back to the way I was before.










Pray and become Christian I believe you will be much better.And wanting to do evil that is the devil do not be scared.God is always with you.


Psalm 131

1 LORD,my heart is not haughty,
Nor my eyes lofty.
Neither do I concern myself with great matters,
Nor with things too profound for me


That is part of Psalm 131 and its a good scripture too.I think it would be good for you to look it up

I be praying for you

God bless you

Q: Ever since I was little my family hasnt celebrated Halloween because its an "Evil holiday" is that true? Where in the Bible does it say that? I feel like im missing out on Halloween. Ive only went trick or treeting like 5 times, and im getting old



To tell you the truth I don't know who made that up that halloween is evil.They say is the devil's Birthday when the devil does not have a birthday he was created by God and God banished him for trying to take over.But Halloween is noy bad

P.s.Passing out candy is alot more fun then trick or treating I tried it it was alot of fun

God bless

Q: ok this might sound silly, but i really need a life changing event to becoma a good person, like ive been really bad this past year, ive stolen and lied SOOO MUCCCH! and ive done so many bad things its not even funny! i want to becoma a good person! but it kinda feels like i have no reason for it, like its stupid i know, the reason is that i wanna becoma a good person, but it still feels like.. come on, im getting stuff for free, ikm finding out who my crush likes, im benefeting from it, you know? so i feel like i need this big thing to happen so i can start turning my life around! because i've tried and it doesnt work! there's nothing really to motivate me.. so what should i do? its not like i cant control some big life changing event, so what can i do??


I went threw something just like but I did not steal.But I was mean and did alot of things that were bad,and I knew I had to change and I kept praying to God to change my life.Geuss what I kept praying and one day he changed my life.So pray start reading the bible more and try to do good deeds be christlike toward others.And pray to the lord to change your life.

God bless

P.s.I'll be praying for you

Q: Why do many non-Christians celebrate Christmas? Christmas is a celebration of the birth of Jesus, so I just don't understand how anyone who doesn't believe in Jesus could celebrate his birth just for presents. And why do nonreligious people have to celebrate Christmas? Why not Hannukah or Kwanza?

Also, why do people who only celebrate Christmas and Easter consider themselves Christian? (people who don't pray or go to church, but still celebrate Christian holidays)

Well hannukah is for jews who believe in God but do Believe in Jesus Christ but don't believe that he is the messiah.(Sorry I really don't know that much about Kwanzah)But if you are talking about Ethusis their celebrating Christmas for the stuff even for Easter.I know its sad isn't.We just have to keep praying for these people.And the church is in us.Oh and Hannukah is celebrations of light or someting like that

God bless

Q: Okay I'm not sure whether I'm a B cup or a C cup.

I'm used to my bras being tight (B cup)
And I have a C cup bra.. and it's.. like I can breathe.I fill up the cups so it's not loose.

So does that mean I'm a C cup?



I went threw something like this once.You are probably both of those cups.But if you want to you can just stay in the b cup or c cup


God bless

Q: ok me and my girl have been together for 4 months and 28 days and we are GREAT everything is great and we are really comfortable and well her dad is a peer prick i absolutly cant stand him. He used to beat her and stuff but now he will scream at her for nothin, And he thinks she spends to much time with me and we only get to actually spend time with each other one time a week and her dad dont trust us enough to even let us set in the car together at a store so that kinda shows how much he likes me. He also said that if her grades dont come up then she cant see me ATT ALL and i dont think eather one of us can handle that. Does anyone know what i can do to get him to leave her alone?......


Hmmmm...Tuffy.It sounds like you should tell an adult or go to the authority.Oh heres a hotline that will hopefully come in handy

1-800-safeyouth


I'll pray for you guys k

God bless

Q: There's this guy in a couple of my classes, we talk and stuff. He's one of the "popular" kids, but everyone makes fun of him for being ugly. He is kinda..... But, I don't really care. I don't like him like that I don't think but I still want to flirt with him and stuff. I don't know why, I just have an urge to even though he's not attractive. Any advice?
Who knows probably deep down you like him,but I could be wrong but don't worry alot of friends do that no matter how they look act its inside that counts the person you know and love that God created him for



Hoped I helped

God bless

Q: alright well firstly, i need some real good black eyeliner because mine always smears or fades and makes me look creapy like some kind of goth/emo (i have nothing against goths/emos-just not my style)i also have blue eyes and i want something that will make them pop.
and i need some like ideas on what good hair styles are (im blonde) and like what colors i should wear =]

thanksss



Ohhh...You sound like you got good features.
Ok first about the eyeliner I really don't know any brands but heres a trick.Get some powder and gently pat the powder on the eyeliner once you put your eyeliner on. But your hair sounds like it would be ok like it is.And colors you have blue eyes so you can wear like brown,red,blue,hot pink,and probably some black(black can look very sophisicated sometimes).I hope these tips help.



If these don't help ask a family member or a close friend

God bless

Q: I feel like I'm more spiritual than Religious. My family is of the Christian faith. I'm not sure that I'm that religious. I believe in horoscopes (don't judge me) and the power of herbal healing and I feel like I'm more intouch with my spiritual side. Then again, I feel bad for being like that because I'm afraid I'm going to go to hell for not being that religious. I just feel guilty.

What are y'alls opinions on this?
What should I do?

Hmmmm...Pray to God he will give you a suggestion what to do and probably start reading the bible more.Oh I forgot your never alone Jesus Christ an God are always with you.Also don't give up faith ok.Plus keep fighting the devil promise


God bless

I'll be praying for you

Q: I am 13 years old. I am in grade 8 and life is getting somplicated. Almost all my friends are guys and now the most popular girl in school say I flirt a lot with all the guys. She spread a nickname for me called "Boy Toy" and now I cant talk to a guy without anyone making a big deal about it. One of my most trustworthy friends is a guy and ill admit I kind of like him now but its just too weird. But now shes got even my best friend believing I flirt with him all the time and hes starting to avoid me some more. What I mean is usually when we see eachother he gives me a giant smile and stuff and stops and talks to me. Now he like looks away. I dont know what to do. Its not like im a huge flirt (I think) Ive never even truely gone out with a guy. What should I do?
Hmmm.I believe everything will be ok so just try to talk to your guy friends and explain to them what this girl is doing,or go talk to a teacher a parent or any adult or do both



If you need to talk to this is my e-mail
christiangal1993@yahoo.com

Q: How can I become a better writer? I have trouble starting sentences. I usually use "I, It, the, He/She". I really want to improve my grammar. I want to know how to remember new words easy.

I'm in 10th grade and I don't feel like I'm up to it, even though when I take those tests.. I get above average for english/grammar.

I really like to write but it's no good because I don't know how to describe something well.

Is there any books for me? Any tips?

Oh I love writing stories too.But I had trouble with grammer too ,but I practice,practice and I got better.Maybe you just need to practice


sorry if this didn't help

Q: Riiight...

I'm 14. My girlfriend is 16. We both love each other very much.

Recently, after a night of passion (basically lots of making out and holding one another), she offered to take me to third base. I am simply not sure I'm ready for this, for a couple reasons...

The major one is it's simply incredibly daunting. I've never made it that far with any girl, and this is the kind of thing I've heard about in health class. I feel a little young and unprepared... I just get rather nervous when I consider it.

The other is simply the original idea I had when I first heard of it. I remember back years ago, when I first heard of the whole idea, I remember thinking "Wow, that sounds really disgusting for her. I would never make ANY girl do that for me". She says it doesn't bother me, but I don't know...

What you have to understand is that it's not her, it's me. I love and trust her indefinitely, it's issues I just have with myself. I think I also feel a little insecure about my body... I'm also afraid, however, that if I continuously pass something like this up, I'll just never be ready no matter how old I get.

Please don't answer this from a religious standpoint, and don't just say "talk to her" because I'm already doing that. She'd like an answer by Saturday.

Does anyone have any advice?

Sorry Kinda got carried away :)

Your welcome

God bless

Q: for one night not long ago i had a dream, really bad...but then only two nights ago i had like .. a continuation of that dream .. along with other bad ones.the night i had the continuation of the dream i woke up too something with a woman voice i have never heard shushing me. i woke up immediately. then last night basically early this morning i had bad dreams again that i cant remember but werent as bad as the ones the other night but i woke up to the same voice saying something like go back to sleep or something and shushing me again but talking a little then i just fell back asleep i was a little scared but i was comforted enough to go to sleep. it wasnt my mom cause she is still alive..but i cant think of any change in my life of which would cause this...please i am really curious...help???



I went threw something like that.But it said my name I didn't have a dream.But you know what when I got up the next morning I felt like a bad person and empty(but not depressed)feeling.A few minutes we went to this christian bookstore I started reading something and started crying I found out that day that I was a christian cause God told me and changed my life I finaly find out who I am.The only thing I can tell you is pray to God and have faith that will gat a better sleep and be happy.


Be praying for you

God bless
April

Contact me if you want my e-mail is christiangal1993@yahoo.com

Q: Do you think horoscopes are true in any way?



Not at all their just something someone made up a long time ago.Just live life don't let no horoscope control your life.

God bless

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Psalmgal126
I'm really nice with a touch of a mean streak.But I'm the advise giver with my friends
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God bless
April

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