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i need something BIG to happen to change my life
ok this might sound silly, but i really need a life changing event to becoma a good person, like ive been really bad this past year, ive stolen and lied SOOO MUCCCH! and ive done so many bad things its not even funny! i want to becoma a good person! but it kinda feels like i have no reason for it, like its stupid i know, the reason is that i wanna becoma a good person, but it still feels like.. come on, im getting stuff for free, ikm finding out who my crush likes, im benefeting from it, you know? so i feel like i need this big thing to happen so i can start turning my life around! because i've tried and it doesnt work! there's nothing really to motivate me.. so what should i do? its not like i cant control some big life changing event, so what can i do??
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I know this is late...but meh.
Something big to happen in your life. Well I would say the biggest thing that can happen to you and turn your life around is to accept Jesus Christ as your saviour. Read the bible, dont give into temptation. I know that last one is tough, let me tell you. Just believe that Jesus died for your sins on the cross. That he forgave you by giving himself up. That he rose from the grave 3 days later to show that after death you will have life everlasting. Only Christ can turn your life around. So just give your life to Christ and let him sort it out. Hes the best one at that job I know of.
If you need help comming to Christ let me know. Im here for you.
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I went threw something just like but I did not steal.But I was mean and did alot of things that were bad,and I knew I had to change and I kept praying to God to change my life.Geuss what I kept praying and one day he changed my life.So pray start reading the bible more and try to do good deeds be christlike toward others.And pray to the lord to change your life.
God bless
P.s.I'll be praying for you
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just pray and pray for god forgive you and he dose and he love you.. maybe try meet a freind who help you get around someone be there for you and yet keep you out of troublt but i would do is ask god give you angel help you..
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Why not use this question as your life changing moment?
You have told us how you feel and what you've been doing and that you'd like to change it. That is one of the biggest steps over with. Admitting you've made mistakes is always hard, and you've just done it to a few thousand people! That's big.
You could start the next stage by thinking if what you are about to do is something you would like if someone else did it, along the lines of 'do as you would be done by'.
The motivation can come from monitoring yourself on a regular basis and seeing if you notice a change. If you have, the chances are that others have too. Compare decisions you take in the future with what you would have done, it should give you a great feeling when you have done something good, a natural high.
You could also send me progress reports if you like and if you think it would help. Everyone needs a little backup occasionally.
Hope that helps and the best of luck to you.
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you dont need a big event to happen you need you to happen you need to be willing to become a good person you have to show people that you really wanna cahnge and of course you have a reason to become a better person it will do you good you mite wannaa start by telling people the truth and saying sorry from the people you stole from Xx I wanna here back from you to see how everythings going thank you Good luck with everything XxX
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