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Member Since: November 10, 2006
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Last Update: November 18, 2006
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heeey people

so this is a bit confusing and sorry if this is long. i'm 14/f

july 2005 we moved and i went to a new school.in that school they teach classes from 1-12 grade so its basicly elementary middle and high school together. it's the worst school E.V.E.R no 1 likes it.
i hated everyone there except this one guy. he was the only one i liked and felt comfortable around. that time i was in 7th grade and he was in 8th grade. i looked at him a lot and then he started liking/loving me.
february 2006 he fell into a deep conversation with me. i was so nervous that i said really weird things and he thought i meant it in a bad way.he also told me he loved me. (and i know he did but i dont wanna explain all the details) so in march i FINALLY got the courage to applogize to him. i called him and i think he was nervous cause he didn't say that much but he said it's okay again. but still after that we ignored eachother and tried to make us jealous.
sometimes he talked to me was really nice but the next day he gave me the feeling that he hates me. that really sucked cause i love him so much.
anyways he also hated the school so he left it and now he goes to a different school. on the last day of school he didn't say anything to me not even good bye.i have to admit i also actet like i dont care. i cried so much when i got home. it was the worst day of my life.
i'm in 8th grade now and he's in 9th grade
so now he is gone but i think about him soo often and i love him so much. i know i do. and since then i saw him once cause he went to our school to see his friends i quess. but he didn't see me.
and i really just wanna talk to him again and apologize for everything. i just have his phonenumber but i dont know where he lives i dont know his e-mail or sn. and i also know where he goes to school. but i just dont have the courage to call him after everything that happened. please help i love him soo much. please dont tell me to get over him i really just cant i tried but it doesn't work. what should i do this makes me really depressed (link)
boys are complicated especialy at the age he is now. being honest, if he wanted to talk to you he owuld make some kind of an effort. as painful as it is, maybe he has moved on. he probly wanted his space and once he had it didnt want it to be filled back up. im so sorry hunny. this has happened to me one only the boy didnt move away we just swithed classes but he acted like i was human. you'll get through it. good luck


Dear advicenators.
I'm a guy, 19 years old, and there's a girl (she's about one and a half years younger) I'm really close friends with. She always comes to me with stuff she would never tell anyone else. But recently, she takes offense in everything I say to her. Today was particularly bad. I would go watch her game (she plays a sport of which I'm not even sure if there is an english name for it) today, and tonight we would hit the town and go out with some friends. This morning I told her that I wasn't feeling very well (I suffer from migraine attacks regularly) and asked if she would really mind it if I would skip the game so I could let my headache pass and still go out with her tonight. She didn't take that very well. Her boyfriend sort of dumped her yesterday so I expected that she would be displeased, but I explained very carefully that I was really sorry and wished I could come to her game. But despite that she was very pissed and told me she didn't want me to come along tonight.

Stuff like this happens a lot recently, even when she and her boyfriend were still together with no problems. She is not the most reasonable type, so asking her what's the matter or why she acts this way doesn't really help. So I was hoping one of you might have the insight it takes to shed some light on this mystery. Why does she act, no, overreact like this all the time? (link)
Girl this girl that i dont care who you are sometime you just want to be left alone on certin subjects. some girls are'nt effected anyway when they have thier period that should'nt be a concern and i dont think ignoring her is the best thing to do either. if i were you id let her know i was there for her if she needed anything and ake conversation short and to the point. don't argue with her and dont tell her how she acting that will just make her even more pissed off than she is. if she ignores you shes acting childish and she needs to grow up. if you dont like the way shes acting then you'll just have to wait untill she growns up and see what a good friend you are. untill then its up to you.


I'm pregnant and due in just one month, and we still haven't agreed on a middle name for the baby. My husband and half our friends and family like Emma Lynn. I and the other half like Emma Linnora.

Linnora is a family name with a long story that has to do with a fort being attacked by native Americans and my ancestors, Linnora and her brother, being the only ones to survive.

Also, our last name is French , like Leblanc or Lecarte.

Please suggest some names OR some ideas for a way to reach a compromise and break this 6 month long deadlock. (link)
this is what i say.. if all else fails, Marie is the perfict middle name. it goes with almost any name you could pick and its a cute ne at that.




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