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heeey people
so this is a bit confusing and sorry if this is long. i'm 14/f
july 2005 we moved and i went to a new school.in that school they teach classes from 1-12 grade so its basicly elementary middle and high school together. it's the worst school E.V.E.R no 1 likes it.
i hated everyone there except this one guy. he was the only one i liked and felt comfortable around. that time i was in 7th grade and he was in 8th grade. i looked at him a lot and then he started liking/loving me.
february 2006 he fell into a deep conversation with me. i was so nervous that i said really weird things and he thought i meant it in a bad way.he also told me he loved me. (and i know he did but i dont wanna explain all the details) so in march i FINALLY got the courage to applogize to him. i called him and i think he was nervous cause he didn't say that much but he said it's okay again. but still after that we ignored eachother and tried to make us jealous.
sometimes he talked to me was really nice but the next day he gave me the feeling that he hates me. that really sucked cause i love him so much.
anyways he also hated the school so he left it and now he goes to a different school. on the last day of school he didn't say anything to me not even good bye.i have to admit i also actet like i dont care. i cried so much when i got home. it was the worst day of my life.
i'm in 8th grade now and he's in 9th grade
so now he is gone but i think about him soo often and i love him so much. i know i do. and since then i saw him once cause he went to our school to see his friends i quess. but he didn't see me.
and i really just wanna talk to him again and apologize for everything. i just have his phonenumber but i dont know where he lives i dont know his e-mail or sn. and i also know where he goes to school. but i just dont have the courage to call him after everything that happened. please help i love him soo much. please dont tell me to get over him i really just cant i tried but it doesn't work. what should i do this makes me really depressed
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Well it doesn't take an expert to say that you should call him. That's the only way you're either going to get things solved or get the closure that you need. Tell him the truth. It's not that you lied to him, but he doesn't know everything. Don't be embarassed that he makes you nervous. That's very normal. If you just apologize for things, he'll think that you meant to do them at the time and just felt sorry afterwards. Say that he makes you nervous because you like him so much and that sometimes because of this you say dumb things and regret them right away. So you'll be apologizing in advance in a way. Tell him how much you think about him and care about him. Ask for his screenname so you can talk to him more comfortably. If you are completely open and show him all of your feelings he will probably respond very well to the call. Don't tell him that you love him just yet. It may scare him. Most of all don't be discouraged, stuff like this happens all the time. Don't feel like you totally messed everything up. You didn't. It's easy to look back and say you should have done things differently, but at the time you did what you thought was right. Now, forget the past. Focus on the present and see if you can get this resolved. Be confident and optimistic, it'll help a lot. Good luck. :)
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boys are complicated especialy at the age he is now. being honest, if he wanted to talk to you he owuld make some kind of an effort. as painful as it is, maybe he has moved on. he probly wanted his space and once he had it didnt want it to be filled back up. im so sorry hunny. this has happened to me one only the boy didnt move away we just swithed classes but he acted like i was human. you'll get through it. good luck
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If i was you I would get over my nevers and call him. Tell him you are sorry for everything that has happened. Then before you two hang up ask him if you can call him again sometime and see what he says. If he says yes, then he forgives you. But if he says no...well i rather not get into that. Just call him. You'll reget it more if you don't trust me...I know. hoped I help.
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Well i know how you feel when you just can't get over someone its still happening to me...i think you should send a message to him saying...
hi its me i hope you remember me im really sorry for what i did i was just nervous i really like you and i need you to just talk to me...
i always use text message because if u call him he might put the phone down
hope u listen to my advice...
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