Hi my name is jade and i am here to help you with your questons i will do the best i can with the questons you need to ask...x
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13/f
OK, so there is this guy that I like. We are friends and we sit next to each other in almost every class because our last names are 1 letter apart. We are always partners on assignments and constantly talk and flirt. However, I cant tell if it is just playful flirting or if he wants something more. Can someone give me tips on how to make him like me/date me or signs on how to tell that he likes me? (link)
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signs-he will always look at you and talk to you if you have his number ask him who he likes and if its you then go for it if he wont tell you then it is you say that you wont tell anyone....x
if he asks why say just wondering...
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My best friend, well shes in love with her boyfriend so much..they're been together for about 7 months, and well a couple months ago he had sex with his ex girlfriend. they took a break then they went back out again, now all they do is fight, and he treats her liek shit.. like really bad. Thing is, she wants to break up with him.. but she knows she cant. She says when things are good nothign in the world could be better. Last night he went to the movies with this other girl, and yeah its ok if he does but if she even talks to another guy he gets so pissed off.. What should she do, shes tried talkin to him, and right now they arent toegtehr because of last night, but shes so in love with him. (link)
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Well i think you should tell your friend to stick up for herself and say she doesnt care about him i nkow it seems hard but when you finaly do it you think it was easy...
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Hello I am 13 years old and is going out with this really, really sweet guy. But now hes getting too attached and between us is getting a bit awkward now. I want to be just friends with him because whenever I hang around him we talk to each others like we were just mates. I mean now I love him but only in a friend way. And I tried breaking up with him and asked if we could just be friends but he didn't want it that way because he loves me a lot (which makes me feel HEAPS guilty). Besides I'm in love with this other guy. I don't want to break his heart but I just want to be friends. But he doesn't want to be friends. What should I do? (link)
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just say that you need some time alone and you need some time to think...:)
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I've tried many times to put a tampon in, but I have no success. It hurts SOOOO bad. Like, I'm not sure if I'm just being a wimp or soemthing but it really does hurt super bad. What can I do about this? Why is it doing this? Please help! I'm fully relaxed when I try so please don't tell me to just relax. I REALLY need to start using tampons so PLEASE help me out here! What's wrong with me?! HELP! THANKS! (link)
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All i can think of is that you are not ready wait 1 or 2 weeks then try it...
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f/19
This has never happened before but lately I've started to have real trouble recognising people - sometimes somebody i know will come up to me and it'll take me a minute to work out who they are (obviously embarrassing!). The other thing that's happening is I keep on thinking I see someone I know (sometimes it's someone who couldn't actually be there, like they live on the other side of the country) and I really think it's them, but then I realise after looking at their face for a while, that it's not them. Any idea what's going on? Am i going mad?? (link)
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You arent going mad it happens to me all the time i think that you probably miss this person who you see...thats the only explanation
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14/f
The other day, I posted something, about my friend hurting my feelings. But, I hardly went into ANY detail. So, now that I feel a little better, I'll go into some serious detail.
-I go to a rich snobby catholic school. Which means, every girl in there, is super mean.
-Even like the loser girls, arn't even nice, no one is.
-We don't do anything in our school, like dances & junk. [ another good reason to leave. i like schools that have activities & stuff, yeah i'm weird..]
-i may hang out with the popular group in school, but i'd rather have no friends at all.
If you were at my school, you'd understand. You can't walk away from your lunch table, without worrying their talking about you.
-Their all SUPER boring. The only way they have fun, is if their picking on someone else.
-None of the guys like us, because they think were all bitches. so, therefore you can't even have crushes on guys & stuff [ they may sound like a retarded reason to switch schools.. but come on, think about it.]
-Theirs only one girl who i actually like. But, sometimes.. she even gets on my nerves, because shes kinda a slut.
So, thats my school. I got in a big fight with my 'best friend' yesterday, I was saying how I was just thinking, only THINKING about switching schools. & shes like why? & i was like.. well its not like you talk to me alot anymore & stuff. [ Yeah, sounds like a stupid reason to leave.. not. Shes one of the few real friends i have.] & she got all defensive saying no im not, oh my god! & stuff.. so then, she got one of the MEANEST girls in the grade involved. & the girl ended up screaming at me & everything. So, i ended up leaving, & i cried myself for sleep, for two hours.
Give me one good reason why I should stay at that horrible school. (link)
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Well there isnt a reason but i can understand why you left but i cant understand why your best friend didnt stick up for you i guess she wasnt really your friend...
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Dear advicenators.
I'm a guy, 19 years old, and there's a girl (she's about one and a half years younger) I'm really close friends with. She always comes to me with stuff she would never tell anyone else. But recently, she takes offense in everything I say to her. Today was particularly bad. I would go watch her game (she plays a sport of which I'm not even sure if there is an english name for it) today, and tonight we would hit the town and go out with some friends. This morning I told her that I wasn't feeling very well (I suffer from migraine attacks regularly) and asked if she would really mind it if I would skip the game so I could let my headache pass and still go out with her tonight. She didn't take that very well. Her boyfriend sort of dumped her yesterday so I expected that she would be displeased, but I explained very carefully that I was really sorry and wished I could come to her game. But despite that she was very pissed and told me she didn't want me to come along tonight.
Stuff like this happens a lot recently, even when she and her boyfriend were still together with no problems. She is not the most reasonable type, so asking her what's the matter or why she acts this way doesn't really help. So I was hoping one of you might have the insight it takes to shed some light on this mystery. Why does she act, no, overreact like this all the time? (link)
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i guess she is just worried about something...
one day when she is not pissed take her out buy her something she likes and sit her down say that you are her friend and you are always there to share problems with eachother if she says something horrible just say u agree with her and make her feel welcome to you...x
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i have about $50 and 6 people in my family to buy gifts for. what s something i can buy for each of them that isnt food/candy. and please dont suggest for me to make homemade gifts, please. thanks! (link)
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Well i would suggest that you buy them cards and ask them what they would like for christmas pick out the cheapest one so that you have anough money for all of them and then but the gifts make sure u have enough money to buy something for you...
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heeey people
so this is a bit confusing and sorry if this is long. i'm 14/f
july 2005 we moved and i went to a new school.in that school they teach classes from 1-12 grade so its basicly elementary middle and high school together. it's the worst school E.V.E.R no 1 likes it.
i hated everyone there except this one guy. he was the only one i liked and felt comfortable around. that time i was in 7th grade and he was in 8th grade. i looked at him a lot and then he started liking/loving me.
february 2006 he fell into a deep conversation with me. i was so nervous that i said really weird things and he thought i meant it in a bad way.he also told me he loved me. (and i know he did but i dont wanna explain all the details) so in march i FINALLY got the courage to applogize to him. i called him and i think he was nervous cause he didn't say that much but he said it's okay again. but still after that we ignored eachother and tried to make us jealous.
sometimes he talked to me was really nice but the next day he gave me the feeling that he hates me. that really sucked cause i love him so much.
anyways he also hated the school so he left it and now he goes to a different school. on the last day of school he didn't say anything to me not even good bye.i have to admit i also actet like i dont care. i cried so much when i got home. it was the worst day of my life.
i'm in 8th grade now and he's in 9th grade
so now he is gone but i think about him soo often and i love him so much. i know i do. and since then i saw him once cause he went to our school to see his friends i quess. but he didn't see me.
and i really just wanna talk to him again and apologize for everything. i just have his phonenumber but i dont know where he lives i dont know his e-mail or sn. and i also know where he goes to school. but i just dont have the courage to call him after everything that happened. please help i love him soo much. please dont tell me to get over him i really just cant i tried but it doesn't work. what should i do this makes me really depressed (link)
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Well i know how you feel when you just can't get over someone its still happening to me...i think you should send a message to him saying...
hi its me i hope you remember me im really sorry for what i did i was just nervous i really like you and i need you to just talk to me...
i always use text message because if u call him he might put the phone down
hope u listen to my advice...
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