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Should I break up with him??
Hello I am 13 years old and is going out with this really, really sweet guy. But now hes getting too attached and between us is getting a bit awkward now. I want to be just friends with him because whenever I hang around him we talk to each others like we were just mates. I mean now I love him but only in a friend way. And I tried breaking up with him and asked if we could just be friends but he didn't want it that way because he loves me a lot (which makes me feel HEAPS guilty). Besides I'm in love with this other guy. I don't want to break his heart but I just want to be friends. But he doesn't want to be friends. What should I do?
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break up with him. if he really still loves you.he wont want to lose you forever..youll eend up being friends...go with your heart and dont stick with some guy because you feel bad..you only live one life..and you dont want to waste it =]]
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Hey. First off, you unfortunatly should break up with him. Trust me from my own experiences, it's better to have him feeling upset for a while than leading him on then having him hate you forever. I know it will make you feel bad since hes so sweet, but it's the best thing for you. If you decide you don't want to break up with him, then you should tell him that all this closeness makes you feel uncomfortable and If he really loves you, which it sounds liek he does, then he will understand and lay off. I hope I helped!! ♥ Kathleen
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well, Tell him that you think he loves you in a sister-type-way and that you like him but not all that much ( don't say that- say it nicer) but that you can talk as much and hang out with you as muh as when you were bf-gf and also, dont mention the other guy unless he gets over his crush or something
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I think that you should find out if that other guy likes you first, if he does then go out with him instead but be nice about breaking up with the other guy you are going out with. Say "I would rather be bestfriens than be girlfriend and boyfriend,"
well see ya
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just say that you need some time alone and you need some time to think...:)
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Well you should nevr stay with a guy just because he doesnt want you to leave. YOU are the one that needs to be happy in the relationship. I agree that you shouldnt do it over anything but person. make sure he understands exactly the way you feel and that you really want to be friends, but when you do break up dont automatically jump over to the other guy, give it some time so that he knows that you are going through the same pain that he is going through. Then he will realize what you did was for the best and he will sooner or later be happy about it because hw will realize taht youa re happy too! hope i have helped! ♥KaThErInE♥
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Tell your boyfriend that you really just want to be friends. Because you obviously aren't that happy in that relationship if you are falling in love with this other guy. Since your boyfriend really cares about you if you do break up with him it will hurt him, that is kinda just a fact, im sorry, but if you really just want to be friends and you are not happy then you need to end the relationship. The same thing happend to me when i was in the 7th grade. I was dating my best friends but after like 3 months i saw it going no where so i broke up with him because all i could see him as was another one of my freinds. Sure he was upset after a while and you will be kinda upset to after because you know that you would have hurt him but it will all be ok. After my ex-bf and me weren't upset anymore we became great friends again. it will all work out, I really hope i helped =)
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hey okay umm... well i had the same problem okay well see i was going with this guy and i did love him but then he started changing and there was this other guy that i have liked since 5th grade and i thought he was starting to like me so i asked my boyfriend if it was okay if we could just be friends he was supa mad at me and it has been to weeks since we broke up but now he is like one of my best guy friends ( i think! ) but yeah so i still love him but we are just friends now and for the other guy that i have liked since 5th grade well i guess we are only friends now so yeah im single and i kind of actually like it and i bet you will to but what ever you do dont do any thing you will regret ok love ya bunches write me back and tell me how thing went okay buh-bye for now!!!
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Hey don't panace but what ever you do don't break up with him on the phone or anything. That type of talk should be inperson. talk to him tell him what's bothering you but if he's acting like thatthen he is way over his age. Tell him how you feel andifhe doen't understand then he was neverthe right guy.
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