Hey I am Kathleen and I love cheerleading! I also like to shop and hang out with my friends. Ask me anything and I'll try to answer it as good as I can. ♥
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ok. so i bought black leggings to wear with my jean skirt. but i just dont know what to wear with them.
right now i have 2 choices.
choice 1.
black flats
black leggings
dark jean skirt
dark grey long sleeve shirt w/ white and greyish flowers on it
OR
choice 2
black flats
black leggings
dark jean skirt
light purple wife beater tank top
black jacket that has blue and purple on it
which one sounds better? tried them both on and i cant decide (link)
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Hey. Definatly choice one. lol
♥ Kathleen
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can my boyfriend go to jail for us datin even if we started datin befor he was 18 (link)
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Hey. No, he can't go to jail unless you to have liek sex and you get pregnant..then it's considered stagitory rape.
lol ♥ Kathleen
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Hello I am 13 years old and is going out with this really, really sweet guy. But now hes getting too attached and between us is getting a bit awkward now. I want to be just friends with him because whenever I hang around him we talk to each others like we were just mates. I mean now I love him but only in a friend way. And I tried breaking up with him and asked if we could just be friends but he didn't want it that way because he loves me a lot (which makes me feel HEAPS guilty). Besides I'm in love with this other guy. I don't want to break his heart but I just want to be friends. But he doesn't want to be friends. What should I do? (link)
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Hey. First off, you unfortunatly should break up with him. Trust me from my own experiences, it's better to have him feeling upset for a while than leading him on then having him hate you forever. I know it will make you feel bad since hes so sweet, but it's the best thing for you. If you decide you don't want to break up with him, then you should tell him that all this closeness makes you feel uncomfortable and If he really loves you, which it sounds liek he does, then he will understand and lay off. I hope I helped!! ♥ Kathleen
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I love my boyfriend. He is the greatest! We talk all the time like on the phone and in school. We both never really talk about like holding hand and kissing and stuff like that. We've been going out for 8 months and we've never kissed, held hands, hugged! I'm in 8th grade and he is repeating 7th. I think we're afraid to do that stuff because he is my 1st bf and i'm his 1st gf. If we kissed, it'd be both our first. I really want to but he's afraid to, and that's why i haven't kissed him yet. Why are we both so afraid to? We both want to, but we just can't! Wht???? (link)
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Hey. Uhm, you can't really kiss him If he won't let you or he doesn't want you to. I guess you have two choices: you can wait until he's ready wich you don't know how long that could take, or you could talk about it or talk him into it. Sorry, I'm not much help. I hope I at least did SOMETHING to help! ♥ Kathleen
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15/f
My school requires me to fulfill 24 community hours. I have only 3 and the hours are due by the end of January, but I don't know what to do for them. I got the three hours from camp, but it was from pulling weeds. PS it needs to be supervised like I can't go to the beach myself without anyone and clean it up and put that, it has to be through some function or organization
so basically what is a way to get more communtiy serivice hours I was thinking of an animal shelter but I'm too young for that.
PS. don't say babysitting please
thanks so much and I would love you if you could help. (link)
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Hey. You could always volunteer helping like sort out books at a library or something. You could also like work for a fmaily member or friend if they are a waitress/waitor, you may be able to hostess. You could also talk to a highway worker and liek pick up trash or something..Hope I helped you! ♥ Kathleen
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do you have to exercise every day to keep off the weight?? i want to eat what i want [only 3 meals], and exercise 4-5 days a week. would that be good doing that?? (link)
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Hey. Um, yeah, you could exercise 4-5 days a week and still lose weight. However, If you eat like Mcdonalds or wendys alot, you want to cut down on it just a tiny bit. Hope I helped! ♥Kathleen
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 and 1/2 months. We just got in an argument today. What happened was basically we went out last night and I slept over like usual and then this morning we woke up and started watching the PATS game. Now, my boyfriend started calling everyone in his phonebook as if he was bored like he can't just sit and chill on a sunday with me or something. Then he called one of his friends that is a girl however she is 40 and he is 26 they are just friends and was shooting the shit in front of me. I don't care but i blew up and said don't taslk to her in front of me I don't aprreciate that and i feel like he can't just chill with me and not drink. Do you think I have a reason to be mad? (link)
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Hey. First of all, I'm really sorry that happened to you. Honestly, I think you have a reason to be mad. He really shouldn't do that, it's just not something you do. I don't really have much advice for you, just that you should tell him calmly that when he does that it makes you feel out of place. I'm sorry I'm not a lot of help! ♥ Kathleen
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I want more guy friends. How do I talk to them more and bring up conversations and just like say stuff and be comfortable and flirt? Dont say like "be yourself" I want real advice . THx! (link)
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Hey. first off, you want to look as nice as you can lol. You want to find things that might interest both of you and bring them up in conversation, I know I'm not much help, but I hope you atleast go SOMETHING out of me..♥Kathleen
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ok, well tomorrow i think i'm going to the doctors cause i have problems with my knees.
my dad said that we just go there and she tells us where to go next to see whats wrong with them. will i get my height and weight checked? (link)
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Hey. I would think that you would becuase they probably want to make sure you don't get shorter and that you don't you know have like too much to support (not saying i think your fat) i just mean like they probably want to see if you'll need crutches or something. Anyway, good luck! I hope you're ok!! ♥Kathleen
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I have wooden floors in my bedroom and tile floors in my bathroom (the bedroom and bathroom are connected). I'm pretty much obsessed with organization and cleanliness. I vacuum the tile and wood once a week. How often should I scrub the floors down with Pine Sol and my Floor Mate? My room doesn't get much traffic except from me. (link)
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Hey. I know just how you feel, I'm obsessed with organization and stuff, My advice would be, sisnce thjose chemicals and things aren't exactly good for you, only do it once a week or less, if you get like a swiffer and you know like the carpet flick (even though there's no carpet) you can clean up between vacuming, and if you get a swiffer mop thing then you can mop up between moppings. Hope I helped♥ Kathleen
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Tonight, I'm going to the movies with my boyfriend but my parents are driving us. When we drop him off, do I walk him to the door? Or do I just stay in the car? I wasn't sure if the girl walks him up there too .. ?
Thanks!! (link)
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Hey, Lol I know I'm supposed to be giving you the advice, but I'm soo stuck on that one so If you get some good feedback on someone whos obviosly smarter than me..lol let me know!
aorry I couldn't help you ♥
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Well I want to get gifts for my friends.
Im 13, some of them are 12, some are 13. And i want to get them a little somehthing for christmas.
Any ideas? anything under 10 dollars that cute? there all girls =D
Thanks in advance! (link)
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Hey. Well, Im a thirteen year old girl so I know exactly what your talking about. I only have one word for you: CLAIRES!! It's the perfect place..if your friend's are into black or stripes and things like that, they have a section for that, or if they're the typical girly-girl, like me, there's everything you could imagine. I hope I helped you out even a tiny bit! ♥Kathleen
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So I've been friends with my guy friend for about more than a year now..and he's really awesome we have a lot in common. But ever since last year...i kinda have started having a crush on him...and i wanted to tell him so badly how i felt..but i never had the guts to. And we stopped talking in March and didnt' start talking until August again...and during that time..i thought i was going to get over him...but instead..i started liking him more...so im very confused now...and should i tell him?? or no? (link)
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Hey. I know how you feel, I like LOVED this kid since 5th grade and we went out last summer but broke up and I still can't get over him.. anyway lol..If you think that telling him won't affect your friendship in a bad way, I say go for it! However, if you think telling him will make him or you feel uncomfortable around eachother, I would hold off for a while, until your friendshiop is too strong to do anything but get stronger, I really hoped I helped you a little bit! ♥ Kathleen
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I need help! I asked out this girl and now we go out. but she is always shy. i need advice to make her not so shy. Or things we can talk about in lunch or bus. (link)
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Hey. The first thing you shoudl do is get to know her reeally well, you know ask her questions or find out from her friends. Find out what makes her feel uncomfortable, favorite sports, ect. In the meentime, you want to talk about simple things that don't require alot of explanation so she doesn't feel to uncomfortable talking. I really hope I helped, that's kind of a sticky situation..♥ Kathleen
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hey,i asked the question about the christmas presents.and i really appreciated the answer you gave me..can you please tell me your s/n or email so i can talk to you about something? (link)
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suree my screen name is FMF cheer06
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Not sure if this is the right place to put this..
I want to see how make up will look on me, because im 13 and the only make up thats really gone on me is lip gloss. like.. what do you need to do and get to like to the mascara, foundations, etc. Also, any tips on it? like what good colors would look on me and etc. I'm black, but not light or dark. like in the middle..
Also, my mom isnt too comfortable about me shaving or anything, but like my whole body is really hairy. could I get a wax at such a young age? idk.. and how much money will it be? or what else could I do that wont hurt me (razors? unless theres good ones or idk) or something.. and im pretty low on cash, so they cant be like more than 30 dollars..
Thanks! (link)
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Hey. Well first off you want to test all of this on the weekend so you can just shower and it has time to come off and like..yeah. As for shaving, if your mom doesnt want you to shave you can always get one of those cremes like nair or veet that remove hair without a razor. For makeup, you want too make it so that people can barely tell you have it on, do what you think looks good on you and get some opinions from friends. ♥ Kathleen
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Hey,theres this girl i like and i wanted to do something special to ask her out.There was two things i was thinking about and i was wondering if someone could help me decide.The first one was for christmas i was going to get her a card and get a pack of green and red gum (christmas colors) and a pack of her favorite gum and put them all on the card,and get her a bracelet and get one of them gift tags and out it on the bracelet saying i love you more then you can imagine .. will you go out with me?.
The 2nd idea is for valintines day i was going to make two big hearts and put them together with a opening in it and on them write "inside is all the things i love about you"on it then fill it up with little hearts saying all the things i like about her and put the bracelet in the heart.and put a bigger little heart in the middle of the bracelet tied to it by string saying "All the little hearts added together is how much i love you..will you go out with me?
I was also thinking since i really want to do the heart present...i could do the heart present and the card one .. put the card on top of the heart..because i think she'll really like the heart...but would the heart go ok with the other card and christmas?
i really like all ideas lol..can someone please help mee??
Thanks :)
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Hey. Well first of all, that is the CUTEST thing anyone could every do. In my school, they dont even ask anymore, the just decide lol. I think what you have is soooo cute and no one could ever do anything besides cry if they get somehting like that..the way i look at it, you dont need help you have it covered. ♥ Kathleen
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i just started high school this year, and its so hard for me, mainly because its so different from what I'm used to with junior high. all of my friends have adjusted and seem to go with the flow, but i just cant. I'm up till midnight every night doing homework, i have tests and reports every week, and i feel like i have no control over my life anymore. i cant figure out how to manage my time, because i get home from school from 4-4:30 everyday [i live pretty far away from my school]. Does anyone have any tips on what i can do, and some tips for relieving stress, or better yet stopping it? thank you i appreciate it soo much
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Hey. I know how you feel becuase I have cheerleading everyday right after school. Since your in highschool, you probably get a "study period," so you could do some of it then. Also, since you said you're on the bus for a while, you can do it on the bus. As for organization, you always want to be neat, I'm only in 7th grade so I probably get alot less homework then you, but It's still hard to stay ontoop of things. Also, you could complain to a parent or a guardian and they'll probably call the school and they might cut it down. Lastly, you could stay after school and get alot done, I don't know why, but that always helps me get stuff done. I hope i helped ♥ Kathleen
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this guy is really bothering mee. he always IMs me and says really nasty and perverted things to me. i tried blocking him, but he got my other screename and got mad at me for blocking him. i don't want to be really mean, but it's gross and he tells me he like wants to have sex with me and stuff. then, when i don't respond on IM (i usually don't really say anything) he messages me on myspace and stufff. i don't know what to do. how do i like show him i'm not interested? i already tried blocking him and not really talking to him but he doesn't stop.. it's been going on since the summer. (link)
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Hey. Um, if this kid goes to your school then you might be able to tell a teacher or a guidence counselor or something, if you want to. If that's not something you want to do, you need to ask yourself if he's a dangerous kid. The nicest way to tell him you're not interested is to just flat out telling him or have a friend tell him for you. I hope I helped ♥ Kathleen xox
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I really don't know how to match up clothes. I want to look cute.
Any ideas?
Like... [color] shirt, [color] jeans or skirt, flats/boots/vans ? accessories?
I just look at my clothes and I have no idea how to put it together.
Any pictures would be nice so I can try to copy the look.
NOTHING from Hollister, etc. (I'm not made of money) (link)
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A good place to shop would be target or walmart or limited too because they have cute clothes and they're cheap. Usually you can buy already put together outfits so you don't have to worry about matching. As for shoes I would say just get white sneakers. ♥ hope I helped
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