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first of all. im 14/f

i've dated this boy billy for about 5 months. && we broke up about a week ago. and a few days ago i started dateing this boy john. well the problem is, my bestfriend liked john and she supposidly doesn't anymore because i do. she doesn't seem to care about it but now EVERYBODY hates me b/c of it. what should i do? (link)
if you don't like Billy- you don;t have to. If you like John- no one is stopping you. it's that simple. Maybe you should let them both go. You are 14 and you have plenty of guys to meet before you find the perfect one. :p


What are some good stocking stuffers for a 17 year old guy besides candy (I've got plenty)?
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get a Cd or movie he likes. If he needs socks (lol) thats cool too. maybe like gift cards or if anything comes for him in the mail put it in there. good luck :p


I have a really really important question. It's gonna be long,,sorry, but plz answer!! I will rate.

My best friend told me her deepest darkest secret. Her secret was that she was raped by her cousin as a child.(7 yrs old.) He actually had sex with her, but she doesn't think that he "popped her cherry". She didn't really know what was going on...and she told her parents about it and everything when it happend. (we are 14 now) My question is: is she a virgin? (link)
well, actually she really is. She didn't intend on it happening and it wasn't her fault and she couldn't have gotten pregnant so basically yes. :P


hey guys..know any good, fast, updos styles for shoulder-length hair? (link)
if You have straight hair you can do this:

1.Get you hair wet
2. braid it
3. let it sit for 4 hours or sleep with it braided (keep it wet!!!)
4. take it out and comb it and wala!!!!


:p hope it looks awesome!!!



I've recently started a madprofile.
If any of you have tried this...
you know its very difficult, I am doing a quote one which its hard to switch colors & or fonts and such. AND ITS HARD TO MAKE HEARTS !! and other objects. Does anyone know how to make it easier with out all the of crapp? Thanks anyway.
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:p,

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which part of a guy physically do you like the most.....eyes? abs? arm muscles? cheekbones? hair? lips?

thanks for reading (link)
ummmm.... isn't it obvious?


Okay im looking to go on a diet. like not one where you dont eat and stuff but like a programmed one like theres the atkins diet cranberry juice diet grapefruit diet. i love to eat fruit and i searched google for diferent diets and i didnt get any good ones i dont like that whole slimfast diet or south beach diet i like ones where i dont have to buy there food. can someone please tell me some or send links i rate high. =] (link)
I've never done that but weight watchers is good I think. But the key to dieting is EXERCIZE! I know that for sure!


I'm an aspiring broadway actress who is a teenager. My voice is very strong and pretty- but I have just one problem: I CAN'T BELT higher than my chest voice naturally would go. I mean- once I try to belt the higher notes such as in "Don't Rain on My Parade" I get this AWFUL sounding over-exerted nasal sound that is earsplitting. If I ever want to have a chance to actually audition for broadway productions I have to be able to belt. They don't write songs for voices like mine. HOW DO YOU TAKE YOUR CHEST VOICE HIGHER THAN IT NORMALLY WOULD GO WITHOUT BREAKING????? Any advice will be greatly appreciated. (link)
maybe you should just practice 4 beats for each note. remember: practice makes perfect!!! Although don't stress yourself out.
:p


I have only been dating this guy for two weeks
i rlly like him
i have already kissed him and i have never done that before this soon anyway
we already tell each other i love you and all this
some of my freinds say im falling to hard to fast
what should i do ?
do you think it is true? (link)
well, you might be having a first love kind of thing, you can do what you are doing but remember that you still have limits. :p


Sorry if this gets long... well for about 6 months now I've liked this guy, let's call him Joe. I had this party and he came, and my best friend (who knew I liked him) decided she did too. We have rules about these situations between us, and since I said it first I "get him" I guess. Well she talks about him like she knows him when she only met him once. Plus she acts like I don't like him anymore. Lastly, he likes me too. We MiGHT go out. Should I tell her? (link)
maybe shes a big flirt and you should jst let her talk because if she is, Joes not the only guy and she'll get over him.:)


I love a guy.
We used to be very close friends
now im pretty sure he hates me or is mad at me.
I miss him terribly
and he has a girlfriend.
We had a sexual past
I could give details but that would leave this question rather long
I cant get over him,no matter how hard i try.
Any suggestions on what I should do?

ps. I sent a message to him the other day, and he didnt reply immediatly, but like 40 minutes later he said "hey" to me.
So do you think he thought about what my letter said?

Ah i need help ..so much help! (link)
talk to him about if he's mad at you. Theres probably a reason why hes avoiding you. Try to become friends and you never know what will happen. :)


okk so heres the story..
14/f && i have a boyfriend
the problem is hes like really prude
&& ik that he really wants 2 do stuff cuz he keeps telling me he does & stuff
& i only see him like once a week becuz he goes 2 another school but he like never makes a move
so what should i do?
should i like make the move or what?
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i heard like 84% of guys wait for girls to make a move. If you guys are both waiting for each other you'll never go anywhere. Please tell me if this is good advice.


ok i failed 2 finals before & im afraid that will affect what colleges accept me. i'm just not a great test taker, but even with F's on the final, i still managed to get all A's and B's for all of my classes as my final grade & still have a 3.4 GPA. any opinions or experiences??

thanks!! (link)
ask your teachers if theres a way you can study. memorize,memorize,memorize! but pressure always lowers your grades. Maybe your just getting bad grades in a certain subject. let me know if this is good advice


ive liked this guy for about eight months and we dated in june to august. he broke up with me and i cant get over him. i need a way to either win him back or get over him. btw he likes one of my best friends who is dating one of his best friends( weird i know) (link)
well, you just need to keep his interests up and play hard-to-get. don't drool and give it time. Let me know if this advice was any good please.


i really like this guy and my friend has told me that i could get him but i would have to be making the moves first and flirting with him and stuff cause he most likely wont do it first, im kinda a shy person so i need some tips on like flirting and stuff. (link)
flirting always drives someone away. Play " I don't like you like that" and dont talk to him all the time. Or tell him you do like him, go out, and live happily ever after


Well im trying out for the play brigadoon and there was a tryout today and i had nothing to sing so i sang mary had a little lamb, well i thought i needed somthing better after today so theres one more auditon tomarrow and if anyone could please recommend songs that'd be great. (link)
haha. I like singing reflection from mulan or ummmmmm.......how about oh happy day? thats pretty cool. I got nothin


15/f. i have a very annoying body figure. i have no hips whatsoever so i have to buy a size 00 in jeans. but then i have a very square body with some flab on my stomach. this gets so annoying. like i have a small frame so i buy xs or small shirts but them you can see my stomach under the shirt. (its not sticking out the bottom or anthing like that it is just showing through the shirt. but if i buy a medium shirt then it is really baggy and drying it doesn't shrink it enough.

also when i try to buy sweatpants they never fit. if they actually fit in the waist then they are super long. so does anybody know of a good store that has small sizes in their sweatpants and jeans?

thanks =] (link)
Probably either Abercrombie(although there real expensive) It's close to Christmas so maybe you should try that. Also, because its winter time then maybe you should find some hoodies for that see through thing you have
~kentucky anominus


I want to dye my hair blonde. Right now, I'm a brunette, and I am SOO scared that I won't like it!!
I was wondering --> If I dye it blonde, and I don't like it, can I just ask the hair dressers to dye it back, or would I have to pay more? (link)
I don't know but i bet that any dye would not look nearly as good as the natural hair color. Maybe you should just get highlights.


13/f

OK, so there is this guy that I like. We are friends and we sit next to each other in almost every class because our last names are 1 letter apart. We are always partners on assignments and constantly talk and flirt. However, I cant tell if it is just playful flirting or if he wants something more. Can someone give me tips on how to make him like me/date me or signs on how to tell that he likes me? (link)
WEll, just figure out who he likes!!! If you can't do it get one of his friends to do it. Ask to do something outside of school with a group. If he jumps on the idea or if he says he'd like to and he'll have to see or if there is something rrreeeeeeaaaaaallllyyy important he has thats a possitive sign. Unless, he is one to be nervous and dosen't want to mess his chance with you up, then you'll have your answer!


i was wondering have you ever been pregnat and if you have...could you give me advice on mi situation (link)
nope! sry but im 13. lol well uuummm.... just talk to your friends or something. Your family & friends are usually the ones who are best to talk to.




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