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my boy
I have only been dating this guy for two weeks
i rlly like him
i have already kissed him and i have never done that before this soon anyway
we already tell each other i love you and all this
some of my freinds say im falling to hard to fast
what should i do ?
do you think it is true?
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i think you should listen to yuor friends cause you dont know him that much you have to take it nice and slow for now take.It slow while a few weeks pass and you both have that love feeling, then you can do the stuff you do now two weeks is way to early just take my advice, if this guy doesnt want to take it slow just talk to him and work it out
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I think youshould get to no him more but It can be a first love thing like some people dated sence like first grade are are out of school and still together it just really depends on who you are and and who he is just slow it down for I while but still stay with him and diffently dont have sex to soon.
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HeY,
You know wat i honestly from experiance think that you should take this a little slow beacuse in the long run you will end up getting hurt honestl from experiance again i know that wat he really wants is just to have sex with you yeah they may say no thats not me im different trust me they are all the same. your right one ist there yet it does indeed take a while to find your 1 and only.
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well, you might be having a first love kind of thing, you can do what you are doing but remember that you still have limits. :p
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well.... the kissing is not that weird.....but the I LOVE YOU part is a little too soon. I think once you say i love you, you kinda fall into a trap! You should only say it if you truly mean it! now i dont know how old you are, or if kids at your school or whatever say it that early. BUt dont say it because he said and dont say it that soon! your friends could be right about this one! Besides there is really only one guy that deserves your "I LOVE YOU"
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hey well my name is sonya. well i think you should just fallow your heart, but at the same time maybe your friends are right so just go ahead and do wat u want to do but remember your friends may be right
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you can never tell. Some guys are different then others, noone can tell you how you feel. There isnt much advice i can give to you rite now because im not sure exactly, the only thing I can really say for sure is that you should be carefull. Feelings are very special and fragile, and arent something that should be wasted im not goin to come on here and judge you and tell you that u feel a certain way all i can say is becarefull and think before you do certain things.
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Its okay to go fasts as long as you (AND HE!) feel comfortable 100% without any regrets or uncomfort. Its really important. But, kissing is pretty normal if youre going out with the person. If it was pressure to have sex it might be different. Just remember to go at YOUR pace with relationships and keep communication open with him.
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there's nothing wrong with kissing anyone too fast.. but the word 'love' shouldn't just be thrown at people unless you REALLY do love them. people have their own terms on how fast you can say 'i love you' to people. so if you think your falling to fast, then you're falling to fast. but if you don't...then..there's no problem.
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Its your desicion no one can tell you how you rele fell but yourself you have to trust your instinks if you rele love him then yess tell him if your just saying it because he is saying it and you dont rele fell that you love him then that is bad but honestly its how you rele fell about this guy... do whatever your heart tells you to... even if your friends think your stupid.
hope i helped out :)
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you need toslow down cause somthing bad can happen and yes your falling ot fast for him who knows he could be playing you just to get some from you.
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i highly doubt your falling in love, love is such an abused word these days. 2 weeks, and your already telling him you love him? i truly don't believe it. i think you should rethink about saying i love you again to him, you guys might be sending eachother mixed messages.
hope i helped
xo
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Well, yes, this could be true. However, only you know how you truly feel, do you feel as if you are? If you think so, then you probably are, but that's not always a bad thing. It depends on the guy, if you feel he's worth it, then I think that's great and do not worry about it. I would just be careful, about moving too fast in a relationship so soon -- just be caucious. Don't do anything that you may regret later on.
Good luck!
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