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Hey my name is Brittney Im 16 and im a sophmore at HHS I live in Georgia. All my friends say im wonderful at giving advice im honest and ill tell you straight up. Im an easy going person and im real easy to get along with. So if ne one needs me ask me a question and ill be here for you or you can IM me, at OoOnOiTzBiTbIt
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E-mail: bliverett@bellsouth.net
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Occupation: High School
Age: 16
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Member Since: November 18, 2006
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I have only been dating this guy for two weeks
i rlly like him
i have already kissed him and i have never done that before this soon anyway
we already tell each other i love you and all this
some of my freinds say im falling to hard to fast
what should i do ?
do you think it is true? (link)
Its your desicion no one can tell you how you rele fell but yourself you have to trust your instinks if you rele love him then yess tell him if your just saying it because he is saying it and you dont rele fell that you love him then that is bad but honestly its how you rele fell about this guy... do whatever your heart tells you to... even if your friends think your stupid.
hope i helped out :)


ok theres this kid and we really flirt alot and well sometimes we flirt flirt if you catch my drift you know and well if we were ever together my family would kill me and him but i cant help who i like plus well i dont know if he likes me i asked him and he yea as a friend but that was over the summer and weve come along way since than and well he also acts sometimes like he likes me more than just a friend but than sometimes he doesnt i dont know what to do maybe hes scared but my friends and his friends tell me he likes me but i dont know what to do with the whole just as friends thing when all he does and all his actions says otherwise we havent done anything sexual but weve talked about it help me please (link)
SORRY


ok i am in a really screwed up here... ok well my bestt friends are my sister, and one other girl. see we used to be friends with this other girl, but they dont like her anymore. andd i doo =/ i knoww that my sister and my other friend are way more important then her, but i miss being her friend. i mean we used to be so close!! and whenever i talk to her all my friends are like ewww why are you talking to her?.. do you like her.. how can you like her.. i know i shoould stand up for her and be like well i like her but i cant ruin anything with my family[my two bfffss] i mean everyone in my family and all my friends hate her. i dont know what to do? is it ok to be friends with her still? i mean i dont want to be best friends.. just friends...like i know its all you can be friends with whoever you want.. but this is my family i am giving up for her.. i just i feel like shes worth it, but idkk. i needd advice,, now! before something bad happens. thanks (link)
Hey, well i know exactly what you mean, my mom is like one of my rele good friends to but i mean she hates some of my friends and all but you shouldent care what other ppl think i mean if you rele want to be this girls friend then go for and when everyone talks about her and ask why are you friends with her, then i would use reverse sycoligy on them and ask them why they aint friends with her i mean tell them that everyone deserves a second chance and tell them that they need to get to know her... hun all im saying is that if you rele like this girl as a friend then dont worry what other ppl think i mean mabe she rele wants to be your friend to and just immagine if you were in her spot, you would want her to still be your friend right? well what ever it is i know youll do the right thing...
hope i helped :D
Love, Brittney


Sigh...ive been reviewing the answers to other peoples questions about what to get for their boyfriends....and i just cant find anything that clicks. ive also been researching alot...but im hoping just one of you can help me out! :-)

So my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year now...and hes given me the most romantic presents and like presented them in the cutest ways...and i just dont feel like i can compare.
Does anyone have ANY really romantic thing to give him that will finally even us up? (if it helps...hes a 16 year old basketball/soccer player..dresses preppy..board game player...romantic...uhm...idk what else)
Thanks to all answers! (link)
well yeah i dont know the answer to what to get him but yeah i know how to present it to him, you could do like stephen did to luran on lugana beach when he left her like stalking notes and then like make a little scavenger hunt and make it rele cute and then have the present at the last clue...but honestly im having a proplem with what to get my boyfriend to so sorry if i dident help out


i know this has nothing at all do do with relationships other than what should i get my boyfriend for christmas. Boys are so hard to shop for what is something creative i can get him other than shirts jeans or a watch some one help before black friday pleasee thanks..! (link)
whats your boyfriend intrested in? Me my boyfriend is 17 and he really is into 70-80's rock groups like kiss and iron maiden and stuff like that so im going to get him a kiss barstool. the best place to look for guys christmas gifts is spencer's if you dont want to give him jewry or nething ... well hope i helped.


ok so there is this guy i used to go with, but we broke up because his sister told me he said it was over and then like a week later he said he never told her to say that and for me to take him back but the problem was i was goin out with some one else and i didn't know what to do, so a couple days later i broke up with this other guy to get back with my ex but the problem is he isn't sure if he wants to go out with any one right now, what should i do ? please help ! (link)
well really wich one do you like the most do you like the guy that you just broke up with or your other x that your trying to go back out with, i mean its up to you who you like that most,if you like your x the most then do what ever it takes because its hard to find someone who cared about you, and if you like the one that you just broke up with then dont tell him that it was because of the other guy becase that may just make him a little mad lol... so listin to your heart...


I am 15 years old and I am really looking forward to christmas and everything but I hate being single during the holidays!! There is this one guy that always teases and talks to me during class! I know most of the advice everyone is gunna tell me is to go to a movie with him but I mean we have never hung out outside of school so i dont know how I would bring it up. I am pretty positive he likes me because he doesn't act the way he acts around other girls so i am pretty sure he is flirting. Most of my friends and guy friends arent really friends with his group of friends so it isnt like i would just "run" into him at the movies. how do i show him that i like him besides flirting back? Thanks i really need this advice!!!!!! (link)
well thats basically the only thing you can do is flirt back... or you could play hard to get i mean that always drives a guy insaine lol... but yeah the movies is really a quite thing if you dont want to talk you just want to watch the movie or suck faces with the guy. so ask him to the mall or like bowling.. i really hope i helped and if not then srry...


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there is this guy i like and we talk more and more everyday. his name is Greg. i think he is so cute. we talk more and more everyday. he starts so many more conversations with me. i think he likes me too and people are saying that too. he is a great listener too. we walk to some classes together but he is not in any of my classes. and when he talks to me its like he wants too. i really would like if he asked me out. what can i do to keep him talking to me? and by any chance is there a way to get him to ask me out?? that would be a dream cometrue!! he also flirts with me.please give me tips. i really like this guy alot!!and what are some signs to show that he likes me?
And when he walks with me its by his choice and he walks the same pace i go and its like WOW!! no guy has really done this before. so please help!!
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Okay hey my name is brittney, well yeah really all you can do to keep him talking to you is just be yourself and keep him interested, talk about stuff he likes as well as what you like.And well hun ya know it is the 22end century so its legal for girls to ask out guys ((lol)) but if not then just do like i said flirt a little and let him know that you like him, how you can flirt... you can play with your hair alot and laugh at all his jokes even if they arnt that funny, and lightly hit him everytime he tries to be a smart ass and or picks on you a little wich is a sign that he likes you to, another sighn that he ikes you is well the fact that he walks you to classes and he starts the convo. Well yeah all im saying is the boy is digging you form what i see that your telling me...

well i so hope i helped :D


Well there is this boy that i really like and think about 24/7! his name is Victor! But hes is really bad in school and he got in school suspention twice a month does that mean hes expeled from school???????

Oh yeah does Expelled mean that you cant ever go back to school for a certain time or forever????

Please help i really am in love with this hottie dude!!!!!!!

~deprested (link)
It depends on the school system that your in, about now does he get expelled. ussally thell just suspend him. Bt expelsion ussally means for 1 year you cant go to any school in that school district, and you have to go to a alternative school before you return... well thats how it ussally works in my school district... if i was you i would look it up in the school guild.


ok i have a friend her lets call her kristine and this guy lets call him rob now, kristine likes rob and already told him but ran away! I want to hook them up! should I just stay out of it or help her get to him!? (link)
I think you should proply just tell him that your friend likes him and then just leave it along i mean if he likes her the same way then i think that he will take care of the rest, i mean if not he may get unconfortable and get mad and not talk to her or you any more... so basically leave it along what happens happens...


ok i'm a little bit of a neat freak because i have to have everything organized. so, my mom is like the total opposite, but she keeps messing up my room after i've organized it, and also she tells me to fix it whenever she makes a mess of it. i have seriously had it! i'm about to put a lock on the door for whenever i go to school because she knows that she's doing it and thats what pisses me off the most. she's like a little girl and i really can't deal with this mess anymore. i've already told her. ? (link)
i think you should do just that. Put a lock on your door. and also they have those cool new spy kit things that way you can tell what sh eis doing in your room like a miniture security cam and stuff and a alarm to know when sh eis going in your room. Also keep on talking to her about this and mabe shell listin....
hope i helped :D


I am 15 and I live in the state of Florida. (Daytona Area) and I need a job badly. My parents are pressuring me about it and Im tired of not being able to buy things I need nor want. (like clothes or foods)Does anyone know anywhere who will hire me at the age of 15?? (link)
Try any food store, I knoe pizza places ussally hire at 15. Or a bus girl/ boy like at any resturant, i know you want get the best of job right now but still, its worth a chance and you get money for it, but hey if al else fails you can work at holister at 17 :D


alright, there's this junior at my school. we'll call him mark. mark liked me and another one of my friends and wanted to hook up with one of us. neither of us really cared so we both tried to get with him. we both started to like him a little. now mark likes me more, my friend is like madly in love with someone else and i realized i don't like him at all anymore. at all. he's a pervert, and he's cool, but he doesn't make me feel like other guys have made me feel. like i want to feel. actually, i don't feel anything for him, except guilt.

ANYWAY, TO SUM THIS UP:
mark likes me, I don't like him, i'm completely leading him on from when i DID like him, and now i feel like i should go out with him because seriously, i'm COMPLETELY leading him on, because i'm retarded, but i really don't want to, and i can't just be like "um no" after making him think it was all good.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DOO.
btw: "mark"'s a junior, & i'm a freshman. but he's only one year older than me because i transfered from iowa, where the cut-off's different. i'm 15 and he's 16.
ahhh, help me!! he wants to hang out this weekend, and he's cool and i'm down with that, but omg.....i don't want him to think it's a group date or something! (link)
No! dont fell guilty but dont go out with him, you dont lke him so theres no reason for you to date him, you shouldnt date someone just because they like you, but seriously you can be friends with him but dont lead him on to thinknig you like him... thats alittle mean dont you think... well i hope i helped :D


Does Trackzor really track myspace visitors? (link)
Hate to say it babe bt no all that is is things to keep you bussy and occupie your time...


I am 17, and my boyfriend is 18.My boyfriend and I have been together now for almost a year and we are promised to each other to get married, I love him so much and i have never felt like this about any guy before until now. The thing is that he and I have a guy best friend Jake and when my boyfriend moved away to TN our other friend Jake and i started hanging out and i had a slight infatuation with him but i still was in love with my boyfriedni had to be honest so i told my boyfriend about how i felt and i ended up secretely dating both of them for a week, i broke it off with Jake because i felt so guilty about cheating, and my boyfriend knows. He knows how i feel and that we will be together froever but he has a massive trust issue with me. What can i do to make this trust issue go by faster so we can be happy together again? (link)
I have had a boyfrined for 1 year and 3months now and i had cheated on him before (noy like haveing sex with the other boy but you know other stff) and well i told my boyfriend and he had a real bad trust issue with me for a while and he still has a little one every now and then... the best thing i can say is show him that you love him and care about him tell him that he is everythig to you and make him fell special... really the only thing you can do is give him time and just show him that you rele love him...

hope i helped :D


i run 5 days a week for 15-20 minutes each day. that may not seem like a lot, but coming off an ankle injury & asthma im trying to go slow. by the end of running, i am sweating, so i am trying, but does anyone think thats not enough?? i only eat 3 meals anyway, im just trying to not gain weight since i cant play a sport this year. is there any other exercises i can do?? i've been doing sit ups/6 inches & i use a stationary bike. what are your opinions??

thanks!! (link)
Hey yeah i think thats good enough... and another excellent exercise to do is swimming... join your local YMCA club there and go swimming trust me its a great work out and its easy... im 16 years old and iam soo unconcience about my weight and swimming helps me lose alot of weight and it keeps me in shape... Theres also a boy on my team that just got otu of a knee enjory to and his therapist dude said it was very good exercise for his knee so i think i would try that... hope i helped...


ok, so me and my girls six month is on thanksgiving, shes gonna be at her aunts, so when she comes home, shes gonna see me sitting at her front steps with 6 white roses and a necklace/ring(dont know which to get) for her. anyother ideas? (link)
If i was you i would chose the ring because i lose all my very expensive necklasses becuase i have to take it off all the time for swimming and i love rings and so does most every girl... and really it depends on what she hads most... and it is really sweet i love the idea of you being there when she pulls up how sweet... haha now you need to talk to my boyfriend for me :D haha jk... well yeah i hope i helped... much love, Brittney


ok. well in class my teacher who is kinda old droped some pop sickle sticks and i decided to pick them up for him and i pick them all up and give them to him. these stick were under an all guys table and they were all laughing for some reason and this guy ray grabed my arm and said my teacher was looking at my butt and stuff and the whole table of guys were laughing. now i didnt really believ it becuz 1. im not a **** and i dont wear the short short skirts. and 2 i was at an angle so i didnt think he saw anything but why were they laughing?? Now next question. im 13 years old and i know teens like me dont truly flirt yet but how do girls my age flirt. in our own way. im in the 8th grade by the way. and what do guys really like to see in girls?? also. we were on my felid trip. and my friend sat in one seat and i sat in the other next to her and we were by ourselves because we were trying to save seats for friends. then there were these guys nick and his friend collin who i like. and nick told me and my friend:he was talking to my friend and said scoot over so she did and then he told me to scoot over and he pulled collin by the arm and pushed him into my seat so he would be next to me. what does that mean and collin is a guy where sometimes he doesnt really want to talk to somepne or be by someone and im trying to talk to him more because most of the time he is just like stay away from me and he stands in the corner by himself and ill go over and talk to him but hes not a geek. he has tons of friends and all the gilrs talk to him. he talks to me more than he does with anybody but when nick pushed him into my seat he didnt say anything it was like he really didnt mind and then my friend was like how about i sit with Brianna and you guys can sit together and nick said fine but collin said nothing. so what does all of this mean?? thanx!!

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Okay about the whole teacher looking at your butt thing and the guys laughing, i think that guys are all immature and i really dont think that the teacher was looking at your butt, i mean he dident touch it or ne thing so its okay. And about how do you flirt... haha im an expert at that, dont put yourself out there but just mess with your hair alot and laugh at all there jokes and even hit not hard but a pat them, trust me it works... That guy collin sooo likes you from what you have said i think that he rele does bt i think he is waiting on you to make the first move, he is very shy oviously, so then agin flirt with him, and also talk to him about how you fell and mabe just mabe he will open up to you... you just dont know...


ok sorry in advance if this takes a while...
f/13

ok so i was best friend with this girl all thru 7th grade (now im in 8th)...like really really close. long story short, we spent a little 2 much time together over the summer, started getting in a lot of fites, and basicly 1 day she decided she didnt want to be as close ne more. we never stopped completely being friends cause A. we go to the same camp and skool and B. we are in the same "group" of friends. obviously, we got in a big fite about it at first, and some aftershocks for the next month or so, but after a while we calmed down into like just ok-friends mode. well a few weeks ago she told me she missed me and i told her i missd her 2 so now we stuck on the label "best friends" for a few days. but it felt like it was just a label cuz nuthin rele changed so we kinda demoted ourselves bak down. now lately, neither of us has said n e thing, and maybe im just over-reacting, but it feels like we mite b getting closer. we (plus her boyfriend and another of her close friends) went to the movies yesterday, and today i called her and we talked about nuthin for the first time in gosh knows how long. i mean it was only for like 10 minutes, and it was a little strained at times, but it still happened.
now i really miss her, and have for the past few weeks. i dont want to like talk to her about it (as u can see our relationship is complicated enough as it is) so what do i do?

any help appreciated! thanks! (link)
Omgsh me and ou are going throw basically the same thing, i dident know what to do either, i think that you should just talk to her and tell her how you fell, spend some along time with her, i mean yall are in the 8th grade mabe she is just wanting to experiment with other ppl after all highschool isent that far away and one thing i have regreded sence highschool is letting all my friends go that i have been friends with sence god knows how long, so yeah i think yall need to spend a day at the mall or the movies have a little slumber party, just you and her.. dont let go of her youll never let that down if you do... best friends are hard to find these day...


I need to find some quotes about broken hearts, any websites that have any? (link)
This website i use alot... http://www.xanga.com/Quotesx3forx3you

she has the best of the qutes i even have them under my favorite so i can just go back and look at all the awsome friendship/ breakup/ love qutes

hope this helped :)




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