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i want to stop but i couldn't help myself, now i'm screwed!!
alright, there's this junior at my school. we'll call him mark. mark liked me and another one of my friends and wanted to hook up with one of us. neither of us really cared so we both tried to get with him. we both started to like him a little. now mark likes me more, my friend is like madly in love with someone else and i realized i don't like him at all anymore. at all. he's a pervert, and he's cool, but he doesn't make me feel like other guys have made me feel. like i want to feel. actually, i don't feel anything for him, except guilt.
ANYWAY, TO SUM THIS UP:
mark likes me, I don't like him, i'm completely leading him on from when i DID like him, and now i feel like i should go out with him because seriously, i'm COMPLETELY leading him on, because i'm retarded, but i really don't want to, and i can't just be like "um no" after making him think it was all good.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DOO.
btw: "mark"'s a junior, & i'm a freshman. but he's only one year older than me because i transfered from iowa, where the cut-off's different. i'm 15 and he's 16.
ahhh, help me!! he wants to hang out this weekend, and he's cool and i'm down with that, but omg.....i don't want him to think it's a group date or something!
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You should definatly tell him how you feel! You guys can hang out and be friends that's cool! Don't lead him on that will only cause hurt not only for him but also for you as well as you have already mentioned. Be honest- it might not be comfortable at first but if he falls for you then he really won't be happy! Don't ever ever date someone out of guilt or any other reason other than the most acceptable one- You care for the person. If you care for this guy at all in the slightest way you'll talk to him! Don't just use the crap - let's be just friends he's a human being and he'll get over it just be honest with him. But don't word it like you did in this column. :) Life is too short to be doing things you don't want to do!
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First of all calm down. You shouldn't stress yourself over a little thing like this that can easily be fixed.
Sit him down and explain to him that you thought you liked him but the feelings aren't there and you can't help it. You can't force yourself to like someone when you really don't. You can still hang out with him as friends just make sure he knows it. Don't lead him on anymore because it will just hurt him even more at the end.
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No! dont fell guilty but dont go out with him, you dont lke him so theres no reason for you to date him, you shouldnt date someone just because they like you, but seriously you can be friends with him but dont lead him on to thinknig you like him... thats alittle mean dont you think... well i hope i helped :D
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