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Question Posted Sunday November 19 2006, 2:49 pm
ok. well in class my teacher who is kinda old droped some pop sickle sticks and i decided to pick them up for him and i pick them all up and give them to him. these stick were under an all guys table and they were all laughing for some reason and this guy ray grabed my arm and said my teacher was looking at my butt and stuff and the whole table of guys were laughing. now i didnt really believ it becuz 1. im not a **** and i dont wear the short short skirts. and 2 i was at an angle so i didnt think he saw anything but why were they laughing?? Now next question. im 13 years old and i know teens like me dont truly flirt yet but how do girls my age flirt. in our own way. im in the 8th grade by the way. and what do guys really like to see in girls?? also. we were on my felid trip. and my friend sat in one seat and i sat in the other next to her and we were by ourselves because we were trying to save seats for friends. then there were these guys nick and his friend collin who i like. and nick told me and my friend:he was talking to my friend and said scoot over so she did and then he told me to scoot over and he pulled collin by the arm and pushed him into my seat so he would be next to me. what does that mean and collin is a guy where sometimes he doesnt really want to talk to somepne or be by someone and im trying to talk to him more because most of the time he is just like stay away from me and he stands in the corner by himself and ill go over and talk to him but hes not a geek. he has tons of friends and all the gilrs talk to him. he talks to me more than he does with anybody but when nick pushed him into my seat he didnt say anything it was like he really didnt mind and then my friend was like how about i sit with Brianna and you guys can sit together and nick said fine but collin said nothing. so what does all of this mean?? thanx!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? XoXBrittneyXoX answered Sunday November 19 2006, 7:12 pm: Okay about the whole teacher looking at your butt thing and the guys laughing, i think that guys are all immature and i really dont think that the teacher was looking at your butt, i mean he dident touch it or ne thing so its okay. And about how do you flirt... haha im an expert at that, dont put yourself out there but just mess with your hair alot and laugh at all there jokes and even hit not hard but a pat them, trust me it works... That guy collin sooo likes you from what you have said i think that he rele does bt i think he is waiting on you to make the first move, he is very shy oviously, so then agin flirt with him, and also talk to him about how you fell and mabe just mabe he will open up to you... you just dont know... [ XoXBrittneyXoX's advice column | Ask XoXBrittneyXoX A Question ]
EBADVICEGIRL answered Sunday November 19 2006, 4:46 pm: good question! alright...i'm older than you and i know what your feeling because i've gone through it. everyone your age is still figuring out who they are(as dumb as that sounds)and a lot of time guys who are 13 think they have to act a certain way. now, i don't know who these guys are personally but i know what guys were like when i was 13. you want to know how to flirt?..try something like..for instance, when he said all that stuff about your teacher you could have replied with "Why are you so concerned about who looks at my butt? oh! its probably becasue no one looks at yours and you're jeleous..poor thing..keep hoping,someone might glance at it one day"..now i know you arn't a **** but thats a good way coming back and not sounding dirty. More than likley, the other guys at the table will side with you (and admire you for it) after a witty remark like that.sassy and not mean is the way to go at your age. now, about the other guy, if i had to guess..yeah, he prob. has a crush on you..weather he'll admit it or not. just remember, guys at that age are weird about relationships so don't be surprised if hes all over the place about this sort of stuff. just keep living life..sooner or later the guys will mature and everything will be a lot eaier.Hope i helped! [ EBADVICEGIRL's advice column | Ask EBADVICEGIRL A Question ]
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