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This women I used to date some time ago has recently asked me to basically show her attention again even though she has a boyfriend, I think she wants to make her current boyfriend jealous. It was recently her birthday and she had wanted to know if i was going to do what I had done before which is send her flowers, I have no clue what she wants from me seeing how she has a boyfriend atleast that's what she says
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It is either she has a boyfriend that has cheated on her, or she wants to make you s=think that you are trying to help her make somebody else jealous when she could be just try'na put you back in that relationship again. You need to find time when the both of you are alone. Let her know what's up, and get her to tell you what's up. Let her know you don't like to feel used or a last resort to her. She should understand. Good luck
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She probably either wants to make her boyfriend jealous and there is no reason for you to participate in that or she wants you back.
On both hands, you're not going to get anything out of it because she has a boyfriend. She needs to either break up with him or stop asking you to continue wooing her.
I know women like her, don't get mixed up in her games. Nothing good will come of it.
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I would trust your instincts, and leave well enough alone. Because she does have a boyfriend, and you do not want to step on anyone's toes. Also, she knows she has a boyfriend and is willing to play games with you, so that doesn't really say much about her. I would explain this to her, and then move on.
Good Luck!
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Smart thing would probably be to tell her that so long as she has a boyfriend you won't be sending her flowers.
You really don't want to get in the middle of her game playing, if that is what she is up to. You also don't want to be an excuse for her breaking up with a current boyfriend. She would only be using you and
you shouldn't allow that to happen. :)
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