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I am a teen who has been through tough break ups all the way to being threatened about my life. I just love helping erebody else. Its one thing if an adult trys to understand a teen. But it is another thing if a teen trys to understand the Teen. (us teens lay it down like it is, you feel me?)
You got anything on yo mind let it out, even if its embarassing, cause I have people asking the same type of Whateva, u kno what I'm sayin?
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do you know were i can buy those really big heart earings that say love on the inside from??
I live in north london by theway so no were too far
thanx xx
Oh you want them ghjetto ghetto earrings. i would go to www.claire's.com, or Icings for earring accessories, those are linmited though they had them and had run out eventually
my parents found out i had friends over and that we drank. she threatened me to tell who was here, so i told her, after about a half an hour. now she won't ever let me see those friends again. i am going off to college in a week so it's not the end of the world, but still i feel bad that i told which friends were here. i don't know what to do. should i tell these friends? they are not my friends from school...they are from work. i feel like i betrayed them (my mom won't call their parents, she said she wouldn't) but i still feel bad & don't know how to explain to these girls i can't ever see them again. also how do i earn my parents trust back?
you should tell em, explain how your mother is on things, and try to tell them because of the drinks she she's them that way instead of this way, yea she said that, but since you are going to college, you're 18 right so shouldn't you be able to choose who you hangout with? Does your mother accept it? you need to try talking to your mother on an adult to adult level with respect to show maturity and gain....some respect back. you made a mistake, that you should learn from let her know that. I feel the same with my mother sometimes, its like we don't see eye to eye, but i'll catch her when she's in a good mood and free my mind. cause its better out then in. and to cool your self out...... get this song and listen to it
2Pac- Dear Mama
it's the ultimate mama song that makes you just think about the good times
peace, homegirl
17/f
I was dating my boyfriend for about a year and half when he cheated on me. He didn't just kiss another girl or hang out with her but he had sex with her at a party after we had had a fight. He didn't even tell me and i had to find out from the girl herself. She didn't even know i was hius girlfriend and she asked me to give him his ring back.( the ring was a promise ring we gave to eachother awhile ago) up until this happened i thought i could spend the rest of my life with him. I haven't talked to him since but he is always with my brothers. I just don't know if he went so far that i should throw away everything we had. Where is the line of going to far to be forgiven? Do i just give up and say let's be friends?
first off did you even talk to him about it? If so its one thing if he dates someone, but when he gives somebody else what he gave you that's the limit. He found something new.He cheated on you now,u keep him, in a while he'll cheat again. I can tell you still care about him by you talking to me. You can forgive him, but not what he did and move on. If you think he's not the type to take it personally, then go ahead and take it to the friends level.
I ain't gonna lie, but tell you the truth. Maybe you and him were not meant. Has he been callin' with the sorry's lately? as usual.
And another thing Are you sure the girl didn't know cause girls will try to snitch to the girlfriend, act innocent, so they can't be rumored as a slut, girls think smart, just as smart as you are questioning his truth to you.
Peace, homegirl
16/f. okay, so i have a friend 'alexa' and she's liked 'marc' for a long time, but it's one of those guys that she's always kind of liked and wanted, but there's like five of those guys. so i was drunk, and we hooked up at a party. i regret it so much, and if i wasn't i wouldn't have ever done that. i've never done a bitchy thing to a friend. well i didn't tell anybody except for my best friend, so i was like okay nobody will find out, i just want to pretend it didn't happen. i didn't know if should tell alexa or not, so i just waited. i'm not good with confronting people and telling people things when i mess up because i hate getting in fights even though i know i should have, but she somehow found out because someone told someone and you know how that goes. then she flipped out on me. and i didn't even know what to say to her. i told her that i was sorry and i never meant to hurt her and i regret it so much and if i could take it back i could. we talked about it and she was saying how hurt she was and stuff. at the party, it was me, 'cassie', and 'nicole', and alexa was mad because none of us told her. i mean, i know seriously i'd be pissed too if my friend hooked up with a guy i liked for a long time and didn't tell me and i found out from someone else. i just don't even know what to do. we were such good friends, and i dont want to keep bugging her and saying liek i'm sorry, because i know that'll get annoying. i imed her yesterday and she said she's over it but things aren't okay. right now i feel like she hates me. and she probably does, but i really don't want her to. i don't know what to do. i haven't seen her in person since before she found out, and i'm seeing her tonight. what should i do. should i pretend nothing happened or should i appologize or kind of avoid her. or what? i just want things to be normal. it's been like a week since she found out, and i just wanted to give her time. but i don't want to avoid hanging out wtih all of my friends just because of this. i want things to be better. :( what do i do? sorry this is so long.
you need to see her her and ask her are things cool, and ask if you can tell yo part of the story before she budds you out. Tell her how it all went down. it won't get off the chest until you completely fess up. trust me you're not the first one to do so. I've heard so much far worse things, believe me. Don't sway away cause that would give her the excuse to call you a stabbing pussy, u kno since she may think u afraid to talk. speak out.
so like EN Vogue said:
"free your mind and the rest will follow, be color- blind, don't be so shallow"
peace, homegirl
What's so great about getting eatn out by a dude?
its like he's sustituting his dick with his tounge, usually cause they what something in return, like hand or blow job
I am a 13 year old male. I cant go 1 day without counting the words that people say or what the tv says. It has to go up to groups of 40, four times, then start all over. I also have to do things double that I do daily. I always thought I was the only one in the world that did that, until I watched mtv's true life about ocd, then I discovered I was'nt the only one with that problem. I know that alot of people with ocd clean alot, I sure as hack dont clean, but thats the only thing that is difrent about my problem. I try to tell my mom, she says it's just a habbit, but I know it's not. Is it ocd, and I will have to tell my mom that it is a serious problem and to get help, or is it just a habbit that I suffer from, and will get over it. Sorry for this being so long, and if you know, please help!!
i was just watching that episode on the tyra banks show. Counting things cannot be ocd, cause I do that sometimes, when i eat one color of m&m's I have to eat two, and all things have to be doubled. I would browse online and try to take quizzes like this one:
http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/ocdaction/index.asp?id=302
ps. don't panic, everything will be alright :)
Alright, so this summer I spent it with my family that I haven't seen in 8 years since we all live so far apart. My cousin in my age and I was totally attracted to him and it felt that he was to me as well. I mean yeah it's weird.. no doubt but I couldn't help it. He's stunning. It kind of seemed like we flirted and all but nothing happened and I would never allow that. Now, I miss him like crazy and it just makes me sad because I probablly won't see him in another couple of years.
Am I weird for feeling like this? Thanks for the advice.
- Xoxo
no you two just clashed when you try putting something like that in sentences yea it can sound a little odd, but who cares, that's how you feel. try calling him, so you don't loose in touch, send pics to him have him send sum back, and try to keep it on a cousin type level
ok. I really don't want to sound like your average 14 year old. But I really like this guy. I think he likes me but he's 3 years older than me and he's almost four. I really don't like the fact that he's in 12th grade and I'm just a tiny stupid lowerclass freshmen. Which sucks. I know. He's really beautiful. He's eyes are soo amazing. Wow! I sound kinda corny. Well anyways it's probably never gonna work out because his friends all hate me for a little stunt I pulled with his best friend. but I can't tell if he likes me likes me or if he doesn't want anything but SEX. I'm a virgin and I'm not ready for that. I've told him repeatly that it's not me to do that. He still talks to me even though he knows I'm not down with losing it to a guy I really don't love. I feel strongly about staying a virgin until I'm in love. Sorry if my morals offend you but it's just me. Okay back to the guy. He talks and askes about me. He asked my friend about what I like and stuff. But I'm not sure he likes me. On myspace he askes me questions and then I'll ask him one and he just doesnt answer. So I really feel like he just wants to have sex. I was at his house making out with him. He started to take my clothes off and I said no because it's not right for me to do that. He didn't seem to happy about that he doesn't talk to me at all anymore. So does he really like me or am I a booty call to him? Sorry this was long... I really am truly sorry about that.
gurl how could you not figure this out already he wants your pussy that's all, you're lucky cause most girls in that situation don't make it out of the bedroom. you were just a booty call to him. get ova a skank like that you can do better
My boyfriend and I are planning to have sex sometime soon.. within the month. We are both 16 + virgins and we are going out to buy condoms together. I'm also on birth control, have been for nearly 5 months and I'm excited for sex.
Is that strange of me? I'm actually looking forward to it and I feel really comfortable about it too. Most of my friends didn't feel like this before their first time.. so i feel out of place.
:/
you must be in good vibe with him cause most ppl are nervous. So know you're protected, and in good hands. know he's someone you can trust. be careful, and be very careful, and enjoy the ride
so i'm 15/f almost 16. i've had one boyfriend, and that didn't work out. i've had a lot of boys ask me out, but i don't want relationships with them. i'm very picky when it comes to guys. so i found this guy i like a lot, except that he lives like 4 hours away. (my best friends, best friend) he's really awesome and i can actually see myself with him. we're always flirting like crazy and he's always saying stuff like "you want my body" and just stuff to flirt. but then he goes off saying that he's going on some date with some girl that he wants to go out with. and i don't know what to do because i like him and he has apparently been leading me on if he's going to date someone else. and i don't know how to handle this situation...
help?
he wants you take it to the next level. he wants to get you just or or just o know, how you feel about him. flirt on girl, he's yours and you know it :) don't you even deny it aight missy, lol
good luck
Firstly, I should say that I really, really like my boyfriend. [Even if I can't remember why, like right now]. But I am really, really upset with him because he's been bailing on me for the last few nights when he promised me he'd see me. The problem is, we can't see each other on weekdays due to conflicting schedules so we try to see each other on weekends, even if it's just for lunch or something. But lately it just seems like he doesn't even remember me. And this is all at a horrible time, too, because I just met another guy who wants me to just ignore the fact that I have a boyfriend and get with him. I don't want to get with him. All I want is for my boyfriend to care, or even be jealous of this other guy, but he isn't even around. In fact, I talk to the other guy more than I talk to my boyfriend, because he actually makes the "effort" to talk to me, even if it's just a text message. My boyfriend just seems to think that he doesn't need to.
I guess my main question is how do I get my boyfriend to care? I don't want the other guy, I only want him. I just want him to make an effort. I want him to know that he isn't the only one who wants me, and I want him to stop taking me for granted, but I don't want to tell him straight up because he might think I'm overreacting and that would only make things worse. Even if I have to tell him, what should I say?
well considering the fact you found someone new, that should answer your question. he may have found someone else . or did you evr stop to think that maybe you're to busy for him. when guys find busy girls, they feel pushed away and move on. especially when the boys tell them the same thing. it somebody else or its just you. Talk to him about it. and don't worry yo self. he should answer you if he don't you got somebody else
Can using a vibrator cause bladder infections? cause i got one and i suspect that it might be the cause?
appreciate it
then you're right, you should put it away and try a real dick out, your pussy might not be right for a vibrator. so i know masterbation can be just a big temptation but you need to knock it off once in a while
okay well i got my haircut about half a month ago.
it pretty much in the cut that i wanted, but its sooo much shorter than i hoped it would turn out! =(
im kind of thinking about getting extensions.
not the glue on ones, the clip on ones.
how much do they usually cost? i know some can be really cheap, but are they good?
and is it noticable that they're clip on extensions? my hair doesn't ever straighten pin straight. and i thought it might look noticable?
can they fall out easily?
also, where can i get some good not too pricey ones?
i live in missouri & i dont know of any gooood places. websites would be highly appreciated as well as places.
if it helps im kind of going for this look:
http://i78.photobucket.com/albums/j90/alyssal1366/audrey44.jpg
ignore the box.
please and thank you so so much
I am a black chick so don't get offended when i say this:
y do you need them, and second of all you're smart not taking the glue on those damage the hair, and second, you won't find a nice clip on for less than $30 a nice one, then can go from $30- $500 almost so choose wisely
go to a beauty supply shop. You need to look in the more urban areas if you want the good stuff
when you hook up, do you start it with kissing? I've never hooked up before, and i tell people i do, i don't wanna seem prude! So when you hook up, if its not weird or anything for you, whats some personal experiences?
any would be great, like how you started, and what you said when you finished.
thanks for any help!
xx
i don't want to be rude, but i know somany people like you who lie to be cool. if you people won't like you cause you ain't hook up then why you with them
to answer yo question yes kissing would be a start, then hugging and oral sex. i don't know if ya ready for the blows, and the anal sex, u kno since you are under pressure and what not, but be yo self. Most girl who rush end up with the wrong thing. if you know what i mean, good luck though
Hey!
okay are THIN condoms more likely to break then just normal condoms?
yes they do, and they can also be dangerous, they can pop while you're into to it
My friends always say, if a guy fingers you, you do something in return (hand job/blow job)
so my question is; is that why guys finger girls, or does it turn them on.. im not really sure
fingering does nothing he only does it so that you feel satisfied to give back, before you give him a hand or blowjob, he has to be willing to give you a pussy lick. so you two are on the same level. If you feel uncomfortable with any of this just be creative with sex but staying away from all that, hope this helps.
i'm a virgin and i'm gonna have sex w/ my boyfriend and i'm really afraid it's gonna hurt. and what if he can't get in me because i'm too tight?! can that even happen? and i know to tell him to go slow blahblahblah. im just mainly concerned he cant .. get in me lol
he should be able to get in you, but it'll hurt a little, you might even bleed. when a membrane strip (some girls have it) pops when he goes in. So you a condom, make sure its lubricated and you'll be fine. good luck ;)
what does it mean when guys say your tight?
& is it a bad thing?
if he does says it outside the bedroom, he probably into your body aka booty or ya personality. If he sayin' this in the bedroom, he can tell you haven't done it too much when he slip in he tryna fit into a small keyhole. It can be both good or bad, good cause guys like fresh pussy, bad cause otha guys are afraid to be around virgins , they feel they losin the membership to the playa club. ask him, be like:
"u think I'm too tight or you in the bedroom or what"
see where it goes from there
Let's say I met this guy. Through mutual friends. But I only ever talked to him online. Let's call him Bob. From the first picture that I saw of him, I noticed that Bob was repulsive (to me, at least. in my opinion) but he was extremely nice. he always gives the best advice...always listens, shows that he genuinely does care. And even though I know I will NEVER want to be with him (through meeting somewhere other than MSN) I still fell in love with his personality. Not his face. And now I'm attached. Whenever he mentions his girlfriend, I get jealous. But then I tell myself "why are you jealous? he's not your bf and he'll never be. so what's the point?" But I just love him for his personality. And it bugs me. Because I know he's not my type. Yet I still react with jealousy and other close and emotional feelings toward him. Is this okay? What should I do? How can I move on? I've been talking to him for one year now. I know that the best advice would be "Just stop talking to him before you get yourself in trouble" BUT ITS SO HARD! It's so hard to let go of someone you've gotten so close with. Advice? :( am I being shallow?!
in a way yes, it's shallow, you feel for him, but you got to remember that you can be falling in love with just anotha professional liar on the net, you need to tell him how feel about and see what he says... BUT
1. do not send him money for any reason at all
2. do not agree to meet him
3. don't give away too much of your personality, because that's how he gets to your heart. If he says he's committed, find a new friend online, but still confess the jealousy part to him, and nothing else ;) good luck
ok well i'm gonna have sex w/ this guy, but i'm a little worried that his penis might be too thick for me to take. is this a stupid fear? will my vagina be able to stretch to accomodate it? ...and will it hurt a lot?
If this isn't your first time, you should be alright, you might want to worry about the length rather than thickness. If this is something you concerned about you need to be able to talk to yo man. he man try to act tough andshit and say he all good, but you need to be careful bout it