ok well i'm gonna have sex w/ this guy, but i'm a little worried that his penis might be too thick for me to take. is this a stupid fear? will my vagina be able to stretch to accomodate it? ...and will it hurt a lot?
MADLYxINxLOVE answered Sunday August 12 2007, 9:49 pm: It's not a stupid fear. It's completely normal. You'd be surprised to how many girls around your age get that fear. Usually when you're a virgin and you're going to have sex, your vagina stretches and rips some skin inside of your vagina cause you to bleed (AKA getting your cherry popped.)
Will it hurt? Yes and it just depends on how your partner is doing the work. To make is less painful, make sure your vagina is wet, by letting him eat you out [etc..], that way it can slip in easily.
DepthofHeart answered Sunday August 12 2007, 5:19 pm: You'll be fine, if your vagina can stretch enough to have a baby then sex will be no problem. If you're a virgin, then yes, it will hurt the first time. It may even hurt first couple of times, but after that you'll be fine. It will hurt less if you're relaxed and not really scared and tense.
Make sure you're safe also, and that you're ready to have sex. Your first time having sex shouldn't be casual.
gateway01 answered Sunday August 12 2007, 5:17 pm: If you think thats its too thick try putting a little bit of lubricant on it and take it a little bit at a time. The body is made to have babies and stretches like an elastic band, it will hurt if its your first time after a while it'll all go away.
Luvsingin201 answered Sunday August 12 2007, 5:15 pm: If this isn't your first time, you should be alright, you might want to worry about the length rather than thickness. If this is something you concerned about you need to be able to talk to yo man. he man try to act tough andshit and say he all good, but you need to be careful bout it [ Luvsingin201's advice column | Ask Luvsingin201 A Question ]
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