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drunk hook up that ruined everything
16/f. okay, so i have a friend 'alexa' and she's liked 'marc' for a long time, but it's one of those guys that she's always kind of liked and wanted, but there's like five of those guys. so i was drunk, and we hooked up at a party. i regret it so much, and if i wasn't i wouldn't have ever done that. i've never done a bitchy thing to a friend. well i didn't tell anybody except for my best friend, so i was like okay nobody will find out, i just want to pretend it didn't happen. i didn't know if should tell alexa or not, so i just waited. i'm not good with confronting people and telling people things when i mess up because i hate getting in fights even though i know i should have, but she somehow found out because someone told someone and you know how that goes. then she flipped out on me. and i didn't even know what to say to her. i told her that i was sorry and i never meant to hurt her and i regret it so much and if i could take it back i could. we talked about it and she was saying how hurt she was and stuff. at the party, it was me, 'cassie', and 'nicole', and alexa was mad because none of us told her. i mean, i know seriously i'd be pissed too if my friend hooked up with a guy i liked for a long time and didn't tell me and i found out from someone else. i just don't even know what to do. we were such good friends, and i dont want to keep bugging her and saying liek i'm sorry, because i know that'll get annoying. i imed her yesterday and she said she's over it but things aren't okay. right now i feel like she hates me. and she probably does, but i really don't want her to. i don't know what to do. i haven't seen her in person since before she found out, and i'm seeing her tonight. what should i do. should i pretend nothing happened or should i appologize or kind of avoid her. or what? i just want things to be normal. it's been like a week since she found out, and i just wanted to give her time. but i don't want to avoid hanging out wtih all of my friends just because of this. i want things to be better. :( what do i do? sorry this is so long.
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you need to see her her and ask her are things cool, and ask if you can tell yo part of the story before she budds you out. Tell her how it all went down. it won't get off the chest until you completely fess up. trust me you're not the first one to do so. I've heard so much far worse things, believe me. Don't sway away cause that would give her the excuse to call you a stabbing pussy, u kno since she may think u afraid to talk. speak out.
so like EN Vogue said:
"free your mind and the rest will follow, be color- blind, don't be so shallow"
peace, homegirl
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