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Question Posted Sunday August 12 2007, 6:43 am

My boyfriend and I are planning to have sex sometime soon.. within the month. We are both 16 + virgins and we are going out to buy condoms together. I'm also on birth control, have been for nearly 5 months and I'm excited for sex.

Is that strange of me? I'm actually looking forward to it and I feel really comfortable about it too. Most of my friends didn't feel like this before their first time.. so i feel out of place.
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ohmylanta answered Monday August 13 2007, 2:01 pm:
No this is not strange of you!
its your time, feel however you want.
dont just follow the crowd!
I would be excited too!

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mxpimpette26 answered Monday August 13 2007, 1:01 am:
your mature and your in love. its good that you feel this comfortable. but you might start to get shy when you get closer to the actual act. just like being excited and ready for a dance or something, and once you get to the school you get butterflys and start to get nervous. so if that does happen dont worry about it. you have been with him for awhile. so things are good between yall. but keep in mind, be safe everytime after your 1st, always have a condom. dont feel outta place, your being your self, they should just accept that. =]

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WittyUsernameHere answered Sunday August 12 2007, 6:21 pm:
Yeah, it is kind of strange. Very few people (especially on this website) seem ready when they have sex. Few seem to have thought it through.

Youre wierd in that you act more mature than the average person. At least thats what I think from the limited info here.

Nothing else to say really. Condoms + BC seems like youre being intelligent about this.

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Teza answered Sunday August 12 2007, 6:06 pm:
It's not strange at all. Be proud that you're doing this because you're actually ready for sex with someone that you trust. More people should wait until they're comftrable and ready.

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DepthofHeart answered Sunday August 12 2007, 6:03 pm:
You should be proud of yourself. You're not nervous and you're looking forward to it because you are actually ready to have sex.(You'll probably feel nevous when you're actually closer to having sex, but that's normal) Not just physically ready, but emotionally ready too. You're not second guessing your decision. Your being responsible and you are being safe, you have no reason to feel out of place.

::Jasmine::

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brilbril answered Sunday August 12 2007, 6:03 pm:
It's actually great that you are comfortable with the fact that you and your boyfriend will be having sex soon. Just because your friends didn't feel like that does not make you strange. This could just mean that maybe they were not as ready for the experience as you are.

You're also being safe about it. Which makes it even better.

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Luvsingin201 answered Sunday August 12 2007, 6:00 pm:
you must be in good vibe with him cause most ppl are nervous. So know you're protected, and in good hands. know he's someone you can trust. be careful, and be very careful, and enjoy the ride

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