ok my name is local_gurl91! i have problems! not serious problems. the typical high school/ drama problems that every teenager goes through so if anyone needs a perspective or opinion...... you can ask me and ill tell you what i think! you dont have to use it just keep it in mind with all the other advice you have!
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hey well i have my boyfriend(thomas) and we go to the same school and all but we like never talk. i feel like were just friends i havent kissed him or anything we've only hold hands once and we have been going out for a month and 8 days and i just dont know wat to do should i give it more time and maybe things will change or should i just break up wiht him and the worst thing is that we are going to christmas break today and i wont c him till three weeks so i dont know wat to do some one help me pls... (link)
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hey manda whats up? well me and thomas are going out asn tuff and we talk but not as much idk wat to do now we have been going out for a motn and 8 days and we have only hold hands once and we havent kiss and stuff but anyways idk wat to do anymore pls help me (link)
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GO UP TO HIM AND TALK TO HIM! U GO UP TO HIM AND TALK TO HIM! GO up and grab his hand .... and if you want something from the snacknbar ask him if he wants to come! and just talk DONT BE SILENT because then it becomes awkward. you guys are going out HAVE FUN!
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so u think i shoud talk to him more or something...yah i did hurt him he told me that he was sad and i felt really bad .....but hopefully things would work out (link)
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talk to him ....... flirt and dont hold back! have confidence.... he know he likes you so ..... have fun! but dont become a control freak!
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Can anyone help me and im a guy. (link)
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well .... coming from a girls perspective...... if she's into sports ask her how old she was when she started playing and what she enjoys about it. Find out what she's interested in. and flirt with her. dont hold back if u think its a good idea. and enjoy the night. if your nervous..... so is she so have confidence! GOOD LUCK!
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well okaii wat should i doo...well okaii i like this guy right and he says he likes me too....well he asked me out and i said yes but the day after i told him that i wasnt really ready for a realtionship and i hurt his feelings but like know were talking more and stuff wat should i tell him if he was to ask me back out or somthing? (link)
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well did you hurt his feelings by breaking up with him? well now just talk to him more and often. now like every hour just at least once a day or something or maybe once every 2 days. if you really like him keep him on the phone for awhile too. and then if u really wana be with him ask him if he still likes you alot and then .....U ASK HIM OUT! well it worked for me ttyl
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i have never been in cheerleading, but i heard its really fun, could you tell me what i should do to prepare for next years try-outs?plz!!! (link)
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well it depends on your school! if your school does stunts well then....... im not the best person to ask! but if they just cheer for your team and dance at half time.... the best advice is to not be shy! be loud when you have to perform a cheer, and HAVE CONFIDENCE! everything else will just fall in place! good luck!
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I am scared out of my mind. 16/f
On friday I gave up my virginity to my boyfriend. We used a condom and everything went well. But now, probably because it was my first time, i'm getting paranoid...
I have an irregular period cycle, sometimes going 3 months in a row with no period. I bled a little on friday and had some abdominal cramps on saturday. A friend told me that since it was my first time, it would probably make my period come. But it hasn't yet. I'm getting mild stomach cramps, but no blood. I know it's only tuesday, but I'm scared.
How likely is it that I'm preggers?
How soon can I take a take-home test and make sure it's accurate?? I'm so frightened I may be pg I don't know what to do... (link)
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Well keep this in mind..... you can only get pregnant during 2 days of the entire month! but the best thing to do to stop being paranoid is to go get a pregnancy test! and dont just get one get like 3 or 5 and get a different type of brand! then compare and i hope you arent sweetie! just relax and take the test! if you are ..... do whatever you feel is right..... but make sure you tell your mom! or dad! thats the best thing 2 do! and if your not preggars dont ever have sex again unless your married! save it for that special person and whatever you do DONT GIVE INTO ANY TEMPTATION! BE STRONG AND DONT LET HIM CONTROL YOU!
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15/f
okay well i know this guy let's call him "Dan". And we've made out and done some things but we weren't even in a real relationship and i told him that i wanted to be in one and that i wouldn't go any farther until we were in one. He tells me he wants to be friends with benifites and i'm all like no because i just can't stand those relationships. It's either you're with me or not. Then he tells "forget you then." And so i'm all like what ever i can find a better guy who'll respect me. Then when i was walking home he waited for me. The moment he saw me he walked towards me and was all like "sup?" I roll my eyes and walked past him like what ever. He was all like "you're just gonna walk away form me like that?" And i was all like yea.Then i just had to ask "why would you lie to me." because he said he'd never hurt me.The n he played stupid like what do you mean? and he asked if he could walk me home and i said i guess. but i was still mad. we talked and he said that he wasn't ready another girlfriend. So i'm all like ok that means we're not going to be anything. Then we went back to his house to talk somemore and he was all like we can kick it in the bathroom. and i'm all like wat? But we did and he said that his ex and him faught too much so he doesn't want commitment right now. Then i told him if we were in a F/B relationship i'm gonna get hurt again because he'll probably cheat on me. Then he tells me he swears he wouldn't and he hasn't ever since he's met me but i don't know if i can trust him.
So Please Help i don't know what to do, if i should drop him or stay with him.
Thanks! (link)
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OMG! you did such a good thing! standing up to him like that! im so proud of you! ANYWAYS....... if he isn't for a relationship and he just wants F/B , dont give in! your doing the right thing you really are! dont give into temptation whatever you do DONT GIVE INTO TEMPTATION IF HE'S NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP THEN HE ISN'T READY FOR FOOLING AROUND EITHER! HE JUST NEEDS TIME TO HIMSELF! THE BREAK UP ISN'T THAT HEARTBREAKING FOR HIM OBVIOUSLY IF HE'S LOOKING TO MAKE OUT!
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1. would you perfer a girl/male to make the 1st move & just like grab your head & kiss you OR you make the 1st move
2. how do you show your feelings towards a female/male [ like show them you like them ]
3. how do you become not shy [ like be open & show your feelings towards someone ]
4. what if you like someone, but you dont know them that well to hold a conversation, what do you talk about ?
5. how do you show your feelings towards someone that you arent sure likes you back ?
6. how do you know the person had enough with flirting. like when to stop ? (link)
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1. I would want him to make the first move, but take it step by step!
2. me personally talk to him more and more and if people bring it up and are like "you like him huh?!" i just say yeah! then they usually ask if they can tell him and i say ... GO FOR IT!
3. Just talk to them naturally at first! and then each day step by step flirt a little! but dont be upset if they dont come to you the next day! they need space and dont be to agressive! thats a biggie
4. you ask them questions to get to know them! like example.... what ur favorite color? or do you like playing ( pick a sport) stuff like that!
5. Let loose a little but dont give out to much!
6. well dont be aggressive give off just a little each time! a hug before you leave! make small talk and kinda brush your hand on the arm once in awhile!
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Can anyone give me a quick way to study for a test??
My test is tomorrow and i haven't had time to study for it.
JANE
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MY ADVICE....... get off the computer and go study for that test lol! dont try to cram... just study a few parts and then review then study then review take it slow and dont rush! COVER THE MOST IMPORTANT STUFF FIRST!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I have only been dating this guy for two weeks
i rlly like him
i have already kissed him and i have never done that before this soon anyway
we already tell each other i love you and all this
some of my freinds say im falling to hard to fast
what should i do ?
do you think it is true? (link)
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well.... the kissing is not that weird.....but the I LOVE YOU part is a little too soon. I think once you say i love you, you kinda fall into a trap! You should only say it if you truly mean it! now i dont know how old you are, or if kids at your school or whatever say it that early. BUt dont say it because he said and dont say it that soon! your friends could be right about this one! Besides there is really only one guy that deserves your "I LOVE YOU"
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