Question Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 11:26 pm
I am scared out of my mind. 16/f
On friday I gave up my virginity to my boyfriend. We used a condom and everything went well. But now, probably because it was my first time, i'm getting paranoid...
I have an irregular period cycle, sometimes going 3 months in a row with no period. I bled a little on friday and had some abdominal cramps on saturday. A friend told me that since it was my first time, it would probably make my period come. But it hasn't yet. I'm getting mild stomach cramps, but no blood. I know it's only tuesday, but I'm scared.
How likely is it that I'm preggers?
How soon can I take a take-home test and make sure it's accurate?? I'm so frightened I may be pg I don't know what to do...
kaylasaysso answered Wednesday December 13 2006, 7:12 pm: your friend doesn't know what she's talking about, having sex delays your period a little bit more than usual. if you used a condom it's very unlikely that you are pregnant. if you really think that you are, maybe you should take the test to calm yourself down a bit. but i really don't think that theres much to worry about here. [ kaylasaysso's advice column | Ask kaylasaysso A Question ]
local_gurl91 answered Wednesday December 13 2006, 5:50 pm: Well keep this in mind..... you can only get pregnant during 2 days of the entire month! but the best thing to do to stop being paranoid is to go get a pregnancy test! and dont just get one get like 3 or 5 and get a different type of brand! then compare and i hope you arent sweetie! just relax and take the test! if you are ..... do whatever you feel is right..... but make sure you tell your mom! or dad! thats the best thing 2 do! and if your not preggars dont ever have sex again unless your married! save it for that special person and whatever you do DONT GIVE INTO ANY TEMPTATION! BE STRONG AND DONT LET HIM CONTROL YOU! [ local_gurl91's advice column | Ask local_gurl91 A Question ]
x0advice4y3w answered Wednesday December 13 2006, 11:27 am: aw you shouldn't worry. :) if you used a condom you're probably deffinitly not pregant! you don't have to get your period right after your first time. if you're still worried get a pregnancy test at a drug store. there usually always right. i hope you're okay. :) [ x0advice4y3w's advice column | Ask x0advice4y3w A Question ]
keepinitreal108 answered Wednesday December 13 2006, 10:04 am: well it takes one day fro you to concieve. adn since your period is irregular, it might come later than usual.but yep u rae paranoid ove your frist time. but just calm down adn relax. adn maybe just don't have sex for a while until u get yourself staightened out [ keepinitreal108's advice column | Ask keepinitreal108 A Question ]
PunkieFreak4690 answered Wednesday December 13 2006, 8:19 am: Well foremost, don't freak out because it can make the worry worse. In a lot of cases, after having sex you can probably get irregular periods, whether little or no bleeding. Whether pregnant or not, it happens. It would make all the difference if you took a pregnancy test. Take one ASAP. If you are pregnant, you can always take birth control, or get an abortion. Have you been getting morning sickness? Any kind of other nausea? Maybe rapid mood swings? These are signs of pregnancy. If it's just irregular periods, then you are most likely not pregnant. However, go the safe path and take the test now. Whichever result you get, there are always ways to fix it and get your period regular again. It's common. So don't worry! [ PunkieFreak4690's advice column | Ask PunkieFreak4690 A Question ]
etnies40210 answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 11:36 pm: breath in, breath out. you used a condom right? then you probibly are not pregnate. you are suffering from a rare desise called xtreama para noiace. it comes from being overly cautios about little things. the only way to cure this desies it to take a 99 cent preg. test, u can get 1 at like any pharmacy.
hope it helped
nathan [ etnies40210's advice column | Ask etnies40210 A Question ]
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