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6 questions. [ for guys & girls ] i need too know im so conf
1. would you perfer a girl/male to make the 1st move & just like grab your head & kiss you OR you make the 1st move
2. how do you show your feelings towards a female/male [ like show them you like them ]
3. how do you become not shy [ like be open & show your feelings towards someone ]
4. what if you like someone, but you dont know them that well to hold a conversation, what do you talk about ?
5. how do you show your feelings towards someone that you arent sure likes you back ?
6. how do you know the person had enough with flirting. like when to stop ?
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1. I would much rather have the guy make the first move, but i've had guys tell me they think its hot when the girl makes the first move.
2. If you like them, just try and hang out w/them and smile when they talk to you. make eye contact for like 2 secouns straight, and then look away. talk to them, find like little ways to touch their arm or w/e
3. It takes a while to become comfortable with someone. But becoming friends first, always helps, for me at least. After a while you will b so comfortable that silences wont feel awkward or anything. -thats the best! cause then its sooo easy to talk- it might take a while to get to this stage, but give it time and just keep talking to them and over time it will happen.
4. Talk about stuff that you have in common. ANYTHING! school, sports, parents, just find something that u can talk abuot and try and keep the convo rolling with that
5. Flirt with them, drop slight hints(but not too obvious, keep em guessing) be nice to them, and try and hang out with them.
6. You can usually tell when someone doesnt want to flirt. Flirting takes two(to work best) whent he other person stops flirting, either A. they just dont want to flirt anymore. or B. they dont like you. But you should be able to tell, u'll be able to feel it
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1. I'm a girl, and I perfer the guy to make the move, unless we are really comfortable with each other. I mean what the heck, then I'll just do it.
2. If I like a guy, I flirt. A LOT. I always try and be around them, and try and get attention.
3. You have to learn how to be crazy, I'm insane and my friends and boyfriend love me. I dont care what people think of me, and i can do stupid stuff and dont care if people laugh at me.
4. Talk about random crazy stuff, or be funny. That always workds
5. Flirt with them a little, test them.
If they dont like you, promise me ... you'll know!
6. If they walk away, try and ignore you or dont flirt bacck!
hope i helped xoxo.
-LYSSAA
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1. I would want him to make the first move, but take it step by step!
2. me personally talk to him more and more and if people bring it up and are like "you like him huh?!" i just say yeah! then they usually ask if they can tell him and i say ... GO FOR IT!
3. Just talk to them naturally at first! and then each day step by step flirt a little! but dont be upset if they dont come to you the next day! they need space and dont be to agressive! thats a biggie
4. you ask them questions to get to know them! like example.... what ur favorite color? or do you like playing ( pick a sport) stuff like that!
5. Let loose a little but dont give out to much!
6. well dont be aggressive give off just a little each time! a hug before you leave! make small talk and kinda brush your hand on the arm once in awhile!
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1. i would prefer the guy to make the first move
2. im actually nice to them
3. remember that the world goes on
4. talk about general stuff and when you get back the answers you ask more specific questions
5. you aske them what they think about you
6. you never know, but you could asume them
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1) Its the guys job to make the first move.. all the way
2) You compliment them, flirt with them, call them, and ask them to hang out with them. Show that you care about them, ask them questions about them like how they're day went, what they did, and etc.
3) You can't just become "not shy" you have to feel comfortable, and its a trust level and comfort zone. You have to get to know people before you become less shy around them, its a hard thing to overcome I know but you can do it im sure!!
4) Talk aboutthings to get to know them. What music are they into? Do they play sports? Who are they friends with? Whats your favorite movie? Stuff like that.
5) Thats a tuffy you just gotta "go for the gold" you do what you can and if you don't succeed it just gives you more apt-ted-ness to do it next time. But if you show your a caring person im sure they'll like you back.
6) If they aren't flirting back, change the subject, laughing, or just aren't aknowleding you back anymore when you flirt.
We hope this helped you
<3 Trixi and Jeff
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1. Both have thier perks. It's nice to be pulled in for a kiss, but it's also nice to do it yourself. I prefer my partner to make the first move and I think that most others will agree. I enjoy making the first move sometimes though, because I know that my partner will like it as much as I like it when he does it.
2. Personally, I show my feelings by picking on the person and making stupid jokes. Kicking thier ass at everything is something else I do. It's very fun loving though, not malicious. My competitive side is working overtime, but I'm playful about it instead of serious. I spend as much time with the person as possible and make an effort to sit near them in class. Once I get into a relationship with them I obviously don't keep that up. I'm a lot nicer. My style of flirting works for me because it makes the guy pay full attention to me and it shows me whether or not he can handle me. ;) This style of flirting isn't very effective in getting a relationship, but it found me someone that's perfect for me in the end. Find your own style to help weed out people that you might not get along with right away.
3. I become not shy by forcing myself to. I put myself in situations where shy just isn't acceptable. Throughout high school I performed in plays and did public speaking. I'm still shy, but I can handle it now. Remember, that shy can be mysterious or cute to the opposite sex. It's okay to be shy! :)
4. If you don't know them well then there's tons of things you can talk about. Get to know them. Ask them questions about themselves and answer questions about yourself in return. I'll ask a question, you ask a question type thing. Start with favorites because that's easy. Once you get going, you'll be surprised at how much you learn.
5. Just show them! Flirt a lot. If they don't like you back they won't show it back. If they do, they will. My philosohpy is that you should just tell them. Skip all the wondering. Find out right away. Rejection will be easier to take if you haven't built up a ton of false hope.
6. You'll know by their body language. If they roll their eyes, look at the time, look bored, slump over, try to leave, try to walk away, try to change the subject, or something like that, it's time to stop.
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1: It's best when it's a mutual thing, but given the option, I would usually rather make the first move. That's probably a male thing. However, it is also extremely flattering when SHE makes the first move, so it's hard to say.
2: Listening is key. Pay attention when they talk and focus on them. Make an effort to learn something about them, and think about their interests and preferences when suggesting things to do and such. The best gift you can give someone is genuine, sincere interest.
3: Showing your feelings for someone is an act of trust, and it can be very difficult to do. There are always risks, but there are also rewards. Mostly, it takes self-confidence. Consider joining an activity such as debate, cheerleading, basketball, performing, or anything at all that puts in in front of a crowd. Once you're able to do that, it becomes a lot easier to face an individual person.
4: That's a tough one. All you can do is see if you can find anything, even the smallest detail, that you might have in common, and start with that. If you can't find anything you have in common, then you're probably attracted to that person for the wrong reasons.
5: All you can do is try to get to know that person a bit, and then take the chance. There are always risks!
6: If you're getting a positive response of any kind, flirt away. If you're getting a negative response or none at all, then you're being a pest and it's time to stop.
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1. I would like the guy to make the first move...
2. Oo...I dunno, I just flirt some and then if I know they like me I just tell them that I like them and hope for the best
3. Oo...You just keep telling yourself "don't be shy, flirt! Have fun!" I guess...that is really a hard question to answer...seeing as I can be a little shy myself...
4. Talk about anything, Music, Life, How they are feeling, umm..their fav subject in school, things like that I guess
5. Flirt with them! Best why to figure out! but if the person you like is a flirt...you might need to ask one of their friends that is friends with you to see if they like you
6. I guess they stop flirting back.
Hoped I helped!
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