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i just had a "lesbian" experiance..... i saw some pictures of girls in yano... n it turned me on i went furthur and masterbating... i was think of both girls && boys but it was the girl tht turned me on most.... am i lesbian?
im only 14
thanks X (link)
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I dont think you can honestly consider yourself a lesbian because of that chances are hat you are just curious and nothings wrong with that.
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15/f & boyfriend is 17/m. - sorry this is pretty long.
well i'm extremly confussed. my boyfriend matthew and i have been dating for almost 11 months. the beginning was AMAZING, seriously, great. now things are just falling appart. i [guess] you could say i have a temper, but hey, who doesn't? just sometimes small things annoy me. they do for him too. he's extremly demanding and a VERY jealous person. i am too, but oh well. for those reasons neither of us talk to the opposite sex. whatever. i'm fine with that. it's just that during the summer i'm gonna be so bored. i don't really talk to girls anymore, i don't care about that either because they ALL screwed me over. he recently just started wokring at a landscaping place & works REALLY long hours. it drives me crazy. 7:30-7:30 pm. [usually.] and whatever i guess i'll have to get over it. but those fights we get it [when we do,] are terrible. so much name calling, and so many things we don't mean are said. it's times like those that make me think. i mean i KNOW i love him, but sometimes i just wonder why i put up with it. i really wanna stay with him and everything, just things need to change. for instance he gets mad at me when i cry because of family reasons, doesn't really help me. i'm not trying to sound controlling and self centered i just i guess i expected him to be there for me. oh well. we see eachother EVERYDAY. we used to from 3-8 ; now it's like 7:30-8:30, and weekends constantly. i don't know but he's coming over today and i need advice on what to talk to him about. how do i explain that things aren't the same and things need to change.
sorry if this question didn't make a whole lot of sence. i just am extremly confussed and don't have anyone else to talk about this too.
thanks in advance. :] (link)
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OK first of all you def. arent self centered you have every rite to feel akward and upset my ex and i had the same problem when he was working double shifts over the summer. It really does get complicated and really the only hard part about explaining how you feel is the first 30 seconds. Because you dont know exatcly how to start but the most important thing is to be honest and calm. Just say how you feel in a real calm voice and let him know if he loves you he will understand and listen with no argument.
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Hi, there's this boy who i really like ive had a crush on him since 6th grade how do i get him to like me? (link)
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YOU CANT REALLY GET SOMEONE TO liKE YOU BUT YOU CAN FliRT AlOT AND JUST START TALKIN TO HIM ON A DIFFERENT LEVEL OTHER THEN JUST FRIENDS
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Im 14-female.
And theres this guy (call him James) and I liked him in the begining of the school year but i sort of stopped because i just got bored. and then the friday before last, something interesting happened. See, my friend jenna wasnt at school that day so i was hanging out with James and two other boys in my class and me and james were flirting a lot. and then everyone was like "oh you guys love eachother!" and they like...'married' us. lol i know its lame, but they just sortof did. and then we were talking at lunch, and he was like "are you serious about this?" and i was like "i dont know" and he said "yeah me neither" so we decided we were just fake going out to piss of this asshole that likes me.
so we flirt all the time. and act like a real couple and stuff. and then on friday, we went on a field trip, and we were flirting and acting like a couple and i was poking him in the side and he started holding my hand. and we just sat there for a while holding hands and then later, we were just sitting somewhere and he grabbed my hand.
and it FEEls like he REALLY LIKES ME. and he even said that he likes me but he says hes not looking for a gf right now. which makes me so sad because i really really likehim and i want to go further than holding hands but he...
errrrg.
what should i do? (link)
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LOL oh lord this looks like the whole friends with benifits deal.. it kinda suxx but not much you can do until he is ready for a commited relationship w/ you
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in your opinion, should sex wait until marriage or before? (if before, then what age is appropriate) just wondering, thank youu (link)
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it dependz on the situation if you are in love or not
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I'm looking for some new books to read. I go through like a book a week, and I'm running out of books. I'm 15/F. I like fantasy/romance type books. Does anybody have any suggestion for any books/authors that are good? (link)
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Try sharon draper
shes an amazing author and i love her books ive read them all
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Hey. Ok so I've been dating this guy for over a year and I'm crazy about him. The only problem is that he is very sheltered. I'm his first girlfriend, he won't kiss me, and we're freshmen! It's because his family is extremly religious and his mom doesn't like us dating (she basically hates me). Idk what to do. My friends say make the first move or dump him but I can't cuz I like him too much. What should I do?
Signed~ Clueless (link)
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i think you should talk to him about this. but not in a defensive way just talk to him and make him feel like he isnt betraying his parents or whutever. and if he feels comfortable enough then hopefully he'll make the 1st move. if you really like this guy then you shouldnt leave him, no matter what your friends say.
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ok my x bf broke up with me like 2 months ago and i started talking to this other guy and i like him but like a week ago i met this really kool and nice HOT guy and i really like him AND I HAVE Been like talking to all off them and telling them that i like them in stuff and i dont kno who to choose im such a whore plaese dont leave rude comments that stupid (link)
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your not a whore. your not even dating any of these guys its good to play the field until you find someone you really like
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hey so, we just got round tickets anywhere in the U.S. we live in NY, and go to FL & Cali all the time so those arent an option.
we really want to go to puerto rico, or any pther pleace tropical in the US, (not hawaii, bc jet blue doesnt fly there)
any suggestions? or commentary on PR? thanks. ;] (link)
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YEAH WEll im puerto rican and i go to puerto rico all the time because my fam. lives there it is gorgeous and there is alot of nice places to go. If you do go try to get a place in old san juan
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me and my boyfriend of 9 months, just broke up for good today i'm pretty sure. i can't take this. i love him so freaking much. i don't know what to do. i'm really thinking death, you don't understand. he means everything to me. he's mad cause i'm GROUNDED and can't do anything. omfg. i need help, sorry! please. (link)
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Death wont get you anywhere, it wont solve a thing. Trust me i was suicidal for 1 yr and i had to go to thereapy and everything. No guy is worth your life even if rite now he may seem like everything trust me. Nobody is worth taking you life, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. If you want to talk leave one in my inbox ok.
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So, i decided to ask my boyfriend of 5 months if he likes any one else. Well, at first he kinda wasnt answering me straight and then he went to get a drink at the water fountation and then hes like not really i was like its a yes or no question and he got another drink and i was like hello! answer me hes like i told you yes. When he kept saying not really. and so he told me and stuff. And i said something like why dont you go out with her then and hes like well because shes dating somebody and i was like what?? thats your only reason?? and hes like no and because shes half black and stuff but you would think he'd be like well no because i love you and stuff butt NO.
ugh.
what should i do?
Thanks (link)
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wow ! dumb his ass you deserve better then that. hes an asshole leave him and get someone better
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16/f. I'm still in love with my ex. We broke up at the beginning of June. The break-up wasn't entirly my fault, but I do take a lot of the blame. And I know that if we were to get back together, I would change so much and I would work so hard at it and try to make it last. One problem: the day we broke up he got a girlfriend and they are still together. And she is one of my friends, kind of. But I love him so much, and I want to tell him. I just don't know how to tell him, if I do. I don't know what to say or anything. And he is my best friend and I would hate to lose him if I do tell him. We have gone through a lot in the past and we are fine, it's just right now I don't know. I don't want to lose him. But this is driving me crazy, I just don't know what to do. (link)
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yeah i know exactly how you feel i am in a similar situation with my ex, its always best to say how you feel and to tell everythingnot just bits and pieces of your feelings everything. And if your ''friend'' went out with him the same day you guys broke up and she knows how you feel about him she isnt a real friend now is she? but anyways i think you need to sit him down look him in the eyes while alone and tell him exactly how you feel.
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how do people make their myspace pics like all cool and stuff, with writing and pictures in it.
sort of like this
http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi95.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fl141%2Faaron_xoxo%2Fangel.jpg&searchTerm=photoshop&pageOffset=13
ya knoww, stuff like that. do you need photoshop or something? how do you get it?
thanks (link)
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YEAH def. go to lunapic.com it is really cool and theres so much you can do on there.
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okay.. so theres this boy. hes like the star soccer player, and hes really cute.
hes been looking at me alot lately and smiling when he sees me, and casually is like hey.
what should i do?
start talking to him?
or like write him a note?
i dont wanna come off as a freak. (link)
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you needa talk to him girl. fa real just one day when hes alone in class or something just go up to him and start talking to him. Have a casual conversation so you can build up a good relationship
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So this guy we are basicly dating and he is really cute and really sweet. He like gives me lil kisses on my hand and on my cheek and tells me how beautiful i am but i`m sort of scared. There are other guys that like me including two of my exs that are going to be mad and never talk to me again. One of my exs I was inlove w/ but he hurt me really bad emotionaly. I mean i do like this guy that i`m going out w/ i just dont know what to do.. help please! (link)
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TRUST ME ! exsz are exsz for a reason, unless they are still your friend you shouldnt even be concerned with their opinion, i was in love w/ my ex and we went out 4 times but it never changed and if anything the relationship got worst i suggest you stay with the guy that makes you happy
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How do you know when you need a break with your boyfriend? Because, part of me wants to and the other doesnt.
Any help? (link)
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1ST off i dont believe that breaks are real because breaks are just a way of breaking up without really saying that you are broken up. If you want to go on a break any part of you 1st u need to look through all the posatives in the relationships then look at all the negatives. If the negatives over ride the goods then you need to get out of the relationship and look again because a relationship isnt good if you cant put 100% into it
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My boyfriend of 9 months, and I broke up a month ago. Ever since, we've been talking every other day for about 5 minutes each time. The only reason he talks to me is to make me happy. Honestly, I don't know WHY I want to talk to him.
I want to stop, but whenever I get home from school it's such a habit to just pick up the phone and dial his number. What can I do to stop it? I want to just end it, because it looks like I'm desperate and I want him to be running after me, not me running after him!! :[
Anyone whose been through this, just give me ideas, please! :] (link)
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HEY ive been through this and its really hard at first because when your with somone for a long time it just becomes natural to you to call him. But the easiest way for me to get off calling my ex was instead of calling him call a friend. It helps you take your mind off calling him while making yourself look like you dont need him. And wait for the magic of jealousy to come over him.
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okay, i've liked this guy since like the beggining of 6th grade. were in 9th grade now, so about 3 and a half years. we have gone out before and he told me i was the only girl he ever loved..but he has only gone out with one girl since we broke up. he knows i sitll love him b c i tell him all the time but like thursday? night he asked me if i would be mad if he got a girlfriend, i said no, because its his choice and not mine & even though he'll get a girlfriend, ill always love him he said alright. then i just bursted into tears. i have no iudea what to say. i love him with all myheart. what should ido (link)
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You should tell him how you really feel and you know ive been in a similar situation and trust me its so much better to say how you feel then just hold it all inside and if you guys love eachother you guys should be together.
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Okay well to make it short me and my boyfriend have been dating for a yr and 1/2. And a few months ago we started arguing alot. Im scared hes cheating on me and i dont know what to do. He seems annoyied with me all the time he never calls me he always yells and screams at me. And he never likes me looking through is phone he like has a fit if i ask to see it. And theres this girl that likes him. He wont admit she likes him but lets not state the obvious. So anyway i was looking at her myspace, she had a hat on and my boyfriend has the SAAAAME exact hat and they are both in the same lunch. They were sitting at the lunch table together with a few other people but sopposibly "He sits at a different table" I know its his hat he told me plenty of people have that hat. BUt i mean seriousily how many people in his lunch have that hat im sure not many. And when i looked at her comments on the pic soem girl was like haaa i wonder whose at that is.? Is it me or is he cheating on me i dont know? I know everyone says OHhh youll know when hes cheating on you BUT HELLO I DONT KNOW! some one please help.!! (link)
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Well actually what the girl under me said isnt entirly true. Many guys are shaallow enough to cheat, im not saying your bf is im just saying the truth. Guys arent the same emotionally as girls, so what mite look like signs of cheating to you are maybe just him hanging out with his friends. It is just a hat and the phone thing they just like their space. Guys just dont like it when girls take over the relationship, so i think you should look for other signs of cheating because i think the reason you guys are arguing so much is your paranoia calm down and enjoy your relationship just watch closely to the things he does.
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14/f
I have never been fingered in my life, only rubbed.
My boyfriend tried to finger me, and when he BEARLY pushed I asked him to stop because it stung...
Is this normal..i've yet to be fingered because I am afraid..
My question is this:
How bad does it hurt to get fingered..
Or anything along those lines for someone who has never done anything sexual..
:[ help, please. (link)
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When it 1st happens it hurts maybe a little bit depending on ho fast or hard the person is doing it. But it starts to feel good really fast.
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