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A break?
How do you know when you need a break with your boyfriend? Because, part of me wants to and the other doesnt.
Any help?
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1ST off i dont believe that breaks are real because breaks are just a way of breaking up without really saying that you are broken up. If you want to go on a break any part of you 1st u need to look through all the posatives in the relationships then look at all the negatives. If the negatives over ride the goods then you need to get out of the relationship and look again because a relationship isnt good if you cant put 100% into it
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You may need a break if:
-you're fighting more than usual
-you find that every thing he does, no matter how small, seems to annoy you
-he would rather spend time away from you than with you
-both of you are really stressed out and cannot find comfort in one another
-you dread having to see him because you think you'll fight
-you catch yourself thinking about being with someone else and wondering if you'd be happier with someone else
Why don't you try this: draw a line down the middle of a piece of paper. Write on one side all the good things in your relationship, and on the other, write all the bad things about your relationship. If there is more bad than good, it's time for a break. If there's more good than bad, but the bad things are unfixable at this point, it's time for a break.
And I agree with the columnist below me: if you love something, let it go. If it comes back, you know it really is love. Good luck.
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if you love something youll let it go- if it comes back to you it means so much more
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Hey,
this is a tough question, what you need to do is think about this, if you break up the chances of you getting back together are slim to none, but if you want to see what its like to not be with him then this is a good sign. If he is doing things that arent right and just treating you badly, then its time for a break.
In the end its all up to you and him. Talk to him and tell him how your feeling and if you do decide to take a break outline the things that are okay and and the things that are unacceptable.
Find out if hes going to see other people or if hes going to wait the few weeks for you. Decide what kinds of things are things you both have to work on and why he makes you feel like you need this break. be gentle and no demanding. Dont turn this into a fight tell him you dont want to break up, but dont tell him its all on you if he needs to change something.
I hope I helped good luck, and don't feel bad, a lot of people have to go through this type of thing, love ya,
Angie91
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