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It's been almost 10 months, and not over him
16/f. I'm still in love with my ex. We broke up at the beginning of June. The break-up wasn't entirly my fault, but I do take a lot of the blame. And I know that if we were to get back together, I would change so much and I would work so hard at it and try to make it last. One problem: the day we broke up he got a girlfriend and they are still together. And she is one of my friends, kind of. But I love him so much, and I want to tell him. I just don't know how to tell him, if I do. I don't know what to say or anything. And he is my best friend and I would hate to lose him if I do tell him. We have gone through a lot in the past and we are fine, it's just right now I don't know. I don't want to lose him. But this is driving me crazy, I just don't know what to do.
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If you want my advice just ignore him. The only way to get over him is try getting a new better boyfriend.
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hey, well i totally disagree with the advice below. i think that if you guys are basically best friends, you wouldnt want to ruin that by telling him. that would be putting him in a position to chose who he likes. im guessing he would pick his girlfriend. then he would get into the situation of not wanting to hurt you. i would wait it out. if hes still with his girlfriend now, then they must have something special. most of all, you love this guy. when you love someone, you want the best for them and want them to be happy. im pretty sure that he must be happy with his relationship with his girlfriend if hes still with her. if there relationship is ended, than you can tell him how you feel. also the same day you broke up with him, he got a new girlfriend? whats up with that? it seems like he was waiting for the breakup to be with her. you should look into that if your going to get back into a relationship with him.
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awee :/ woah he got a girlfriend the day you broke up? well sweetie TRUST me he's a jerk & dosen't seem like he really cares for you if he just got out of a relationship with you and then got a new girl friend. But on the otherhand he could have been trying to make you jealous by getting a girlfriend on the same exact day. I know its hard to get over a guy, but you are going to have to get over him because if he's with someone right now- forget him. Hun, no guy is worth the wait essp. 10 month's. The only way for you to get over him is by not talking to much. Everday try to talk to him less & less. +Before you know it you will be over him. Always remember no guy is worth the wait or tears or pain. & If you guys are meant to be together, it'll make its way back to you guys. but if its not meant to be; find some one who is meant to be with you- it`ll take time but you can do it! Good Luck*
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yeah i know exactly how you feel i am in a similar situation with my ex, its always best to say how you feel and to tell everythingnot just bits and pieces of your feelings everything. And if your ''friend'' went out with him the same day you guys broke up and she knows how you feel about him she isnt a real friend now is she? but anyways i think you need to sit him down look him in the eyes while alone and tell him exactly how you feel.
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this is realy sad...... I think that you should tell him how you feel. There are so many great outcomes if you do. 1. you would be able toknoew how he feels and 2. you would be able to let your feeling out. and if he is a TRUE friend he will appreciate your honesty! Let me knoe how it goes!
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