I"m 18.my boyfriend and me have been having fights abouth some particular guy for about five months now. I met this other guy last summer and we didn't work out because he lives in England and I live in America, but me and this other guy had fun and enjoyed what we had while it lasted. I came back and this other guy moved on and started dating another girl, and so I went ahead and moved on, It was painful especially because I started hearing he said I didn't mean anything to him. Now this other guy, broke up with his girlfriend and wants me back but my friends keep telling me he say's this and that about me.(and honestly this friends aren't reliable sources).
Thing is i stil have a little feelings for this guy so i can't just tell him to back off like my boyfriend wants me too, but i've tried to tell him and he gets that we are just friends. I told my boyfriend this and he text me that.
What do i do now?
I really love my boyfriend, he's been there for me through everything, and I really want him to stay and have everything back to the way it was!
truthfully you just have to let go of the past. believe me i know its hard but you cant let the past get in the way of the present or the future or you will regret it. trust me.
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16/m.
K to start off, my girlfriend of two weeks broke up with me about three weeks ago this friday (aka the week after homecoming..). I took it as a low blow because the monday after she broke up with me she had a new boyfriend (WTF?!) I was infuriated, and he isn't the nicest of guys (pot head). ANYWAYS, I got over it and I started to like this girl who has liked me for a while now. And I asked her out and we're currently dating. Im just wondering if it was too early for me to get back into a relationship? I mean the girl Im dating now is amazing and I wouldn't give her up for anyone, but was me rushing into another relationship a bad decision?
not at all. i did the same thing once. i had a bf and it was okay and all but we broke up and a week later i had got another bf that i am with to this day...we have been together for almost two years. its fine. love is love.
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13 yr old
female
like i think guyz are intimadated by me cause im pretty and nice and fun. Like, i know tons of guyz who like me (or show signs that they do) and then neva ask me out. I like this guy and me and him became really close as friends and i heard him talkin about taking me to the dance and then he neva asked me to the dance and he didnt ask me to dance at the dance! But, when i saw him at the dance he was all depressed and stared out the window the WHOLE time! So, idk what to do and yah. SO how do i get guyz not to be imtimadated by me and how do i get this guy to ask me out cause i am SOO not asking him out! But one more question: Should the guy or the girl always make the first move? and should the guy always ask out the girl?
PLEASE ANSWER ALL OF MY QUESTIONS!!! THANKS!
ok your 13 you dont need to be worrying bout this
but no its not wrong for girls to ask guy
sometimes you just have to do things urself
guys are clueless
trust me on that one
you could be so obvious that you l ike them
and in the end they still dont get it
so you need to come out and say it
tell this guy you like him and want to go out with him
then see what he does
no guys dont always need to make the first move
sometime the girl has to be the ine to do that
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okay well ive only had my new boyfriend for a week today, we decided to not exchange gifts till sometime over break (which starts officially tomorrow) so i know hes getting me a necklace and a teddy bear (my friend told me) ha so like i was thinking about getting him these 2 movies that i know he wants so i dont know if thats like a good match for ya know like would it look bad? what should i get him?
i think its a good gift. i mean you know he wants them and it is pretty equal to what he is getting you. so dont worry :) i am sure he will love it!!! hope all goes well.....
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theres this guy in my school who i liked last year, and he liked me back but we never went out. I like him again this year but idk if he still likes me. hes pretty shy so i know he wont just ask me out unless he knew for sure i liked him. He always IMs me and one time his friend kept asking me if i liked him. I dont him to feel awkward if i liek him, but i cant tell if he likes me. hes not friends with any of my friends because hes in 11th grade and im in 10th. I really wanna find out if he still likes me but i dont want things to be awkward if he doesnt. How can i find out?
well what you could do is if you talk to him on IM then ask him on IM just say like do you like me because i like u...ya its very strait forward but its better to know the truth then just sit around waiting...
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My little neice "Sally" well call her, is turning eigh next staurday. Great! But me and my bff are in charge in planning the activities (its a sleepover) But Sallys being really bossy about everything and she "wants an enterance" and shes entering and dancing to that song 'fabulous' from HSM2. Shes acting like one of those girls on "My Super Sweet Sixteen". She really thinks shes hot stuff. "I want this and that NOW!" Its so crazy and selfish its actually funny. Me and my bff are doing this out of the kindness of our hearts. Any ideas on how to please Sally?
ok she is only 8 you dont need to listen to her. tell her that you are gonna do what you can but that she will get what she gets. besides she is only 8 she doesnt need a huge party i mean she wont even remeber it within the next 10 years
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My dog is bringing up blood. What do I do?
you need to go get her checked. my dog was doing the same thing and it turned out she had stones which was like poop or something that she couldnt digest....im not saying thats what your dog has cause im not a doctor but its not a good thing that he is doing that... hope i helped and good luck with your doggie !!! :)
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so the last couple of days i have felt really sad and i dnt understadn why, i think it may have something to do with, something that i honestly shouldnnt care about, and its her life so.... anyways so my bestfriend basically fell in love with this guy for like a year straight she basically obsessed over him the ywent out for like a month but didnt do anything they looked like they were just friends i mean i have a relationship better with my friends the nthey did going out you couldnt even tell they liked eachother.....so she broke up with him, after a while she forgot about him but that was after a year and a half, and she moved on you know everything was good the entire summer last couple months of school first couple months of school this year and now she tells me she lieks him again!!!!!! and it makes me mad because i watched for a straigh year get hurt and it hurt me to watch this happen i love her to death she is my bestfriend and i just cant stand to be around and watch her do this to her self again. she doesnt understan where im coming from when i tell her to, and thing is ive talked to her baout it before so i need other advise instead of tell her how you feel.........she even wrote down things she wanted in a boy and none of those are him even she knows it cause she has said it to me before. pleaseeeee help me
i think you should let her make her own decisions. maybe she feels that this time is right. she knows you are here for her and thats all that matters, you cant help who you fall in love with naye. and im not going to let myself get hurt again. you need to stop trying to protect me. i will be fine.
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Okay, so i've liked this guy for quite sometime and have always been too nervous to tell him. We've only hungout a few times, and we always chat on msn. A few months ago, his friend said that he liked me, but now, he has a girlfriend. He keeps on flirting with me, and i really want to tell him i like him, without scaring him or causing something between him and his gf... im so confused, because i've never liked anyone as much as i like him.
you might not want to tell him but you have to...you cant worry about his gf or anything else...if you keep it hidden as time goes on it will bother you more and more...trust me i was in the same situation...there is just relief once he knows...
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For the last few days, I've been having a hard time going to sleep. It takes me at least 1-2 hours to finally rest my mind. The cause is I have a restless mind. I think about too much such as School, Burglury and My schedule for tomorrow.
What can I do to get my mind off all these ideas so I can be able to sleep.
P.S. If I can avoid it, please don't say pills!
Age: 14/F
-Thanks!
i have the same exact problem...yeh you have to much on your mind...what you can do is put music on like headphones or something if you have it and turn it up kind of loud you will concentrate on that it wil help you to sleep...trust me...hope it helps you
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ive already asked for help and noone responded, here it is again.
im in my 40's/male. i was married for about 20 years with the most amazing women known to man.
i have cheated on her with about; 10 different girls, but only had 3 actuall girlfreinds. we have been seperated for about 1 year; im now with my girlfriend she caught me cheating on her with. she doesnt know about the others.
also my 2kids (wife) basically hate me and i never see one of them.
since no one resoponded back to me before im going to make this short.
basically, i still love my wife and im now cheating on my girlfriend with her friend. i want my wife back!!! p.s we are going through divorce. help!!
ok your stupid you dont cheat on your wife regardless...you have a problem you need to get help...and now you are cheating on your girlfriend who you were caught cheating with in the first place??????!!!!!! and you wonder why your kids dont talk to you...my dad did the same..so i agree with what they are doing...get your act together and maybe your kids will talk to you
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What are ways other than flirting to tell boys you like them without actually telling them?
well guys are stupidddddddddd and oblivious and dont get it that you like them...and if they are shy you are screwed trust me i have this prblem...all the time..flirting is really the only way but even then they dont get it...you have to just plain out tell them have a friend do it if you are to afraid...write and email letter..call him or something...and if you dont have there number then u need to ask them for it. hope we helped you in the crazy world of boys!!!!
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so me and my best friend are super close, alot closer then most friendsare, but recently she has become friends with this girl. and the yare like super close, she tells me all the time your my bestfriend she is just my good friend, but recently it seems like she chooses this girl over me all the time. and i dnt know what to do. its not like im neccissarily getting mad but i dnt know if its jealousy its joust kind of annoyence. i suppose. so what can i do?
f/16
well i think the best thing that you can do is talk to your best friend. i am sure that she isnt trying to replace you she probably just wants to meet new people. i wouldnt take it personally and if it really bothers you then just talk to your friend about it. i am sure she will understand. hope i helped shenaye!!! i love you (i reallly hope this is you)lol
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Ok umm what do girls mean when they say that a guy has a cute butt?
Cuz I always see guys wear loose jeans so there's really no butt TO be seen.
Please don't send me pictures or I'll get grossed out, jsut describe it to me, thanks.
I'm a girl but i kinda feel stupid that i don't know what other girls mean when they say that lol
well you see there is just some guys that you see that have nice buts...usually when guys where tight pants you can see it more...but i guess its based on your opinion...you just might not like to look at there butts ar just dont see guys for there butts
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does anyone have tips on how you can try and make a guy like you?
or start seeing you as a girlfriend figure?
well boys are naturally oblivious to clues so you have to really show him that you like him. there isnt any realy way you first have to get the guy to notice you and after you do that talk to him alt and find out some of his interests. after awhile you have to see if he is flirting back or not. you cant make a guy like you but you can show him that you are interested. hope i helped! good luck
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Theres these 3 guys who all really like me. The bad part is I don't like any of them. I like one of their friends. The cool part is that all 3 hav completely different personalities. I don't know how I should tell them. One of them stands out the most to me and I was close to saying yes but changed my mind. I can't handle hurting them.
it might hurt them...but you need to let them know the truth...if you dont like them then let them know that
just say you like someone else so you cant like them...its better then leading them on because the more you wait when you finally do tell them they are going to be hurt more
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I have mono. I was told that if your spleen is enlarged, you should be very careful while exercising and avoid contact sports. Since I'm not in a sport, that isn't a problem. I used to run daily and I haven't ran for over a week because I'm afraid to. I'm not sure if my spleen is enlarged. My back feels swollen and it feels like I'm laying on something when I lay down. Also, I get stomach pains randomly. Is there any other symptoms that your spleen is enlarged? If it is, how will I know when I can begin running again? I really don't want any complications. Would it be better to let the mono run its course, watch what I eat, and start running when the eight weeks is up? Thanks!!
you should talk to a doctor...now unless any people on this site have a medical degree there advice would be worthless...you need to ask a profesional so u dont get even more sick....
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is there anything i can do to fix it faster
your stupid ty , go get it checked by the doctor
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i have this friend, and she is really cool, but she dosnt ever call me??? :(
hi shenaye....i love you????
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So tell me,, did he ask you out or not????
um who are you and wgat guy are you talking about????
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