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HI! My name is Jamie. I am 16. I am in 10th grade. I am very loud and some people might classify me as a spaz. Not in a crazy Im going to chop your head into a million little peices kinda way but in a very hyper...sorta out there...kinda way. lol. I am almost always happy and love to give people advise!
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when you hook up, do you start it with kissing? I've never hooked up before, and i tell people i do, i don't wanna seem prude! So when you hook up, if its not weird or anything for you, whats some personal experiences?

any would be great, like how you started, and what you said when you finished.

thanks for any help!
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who the hell in their right mind would tell you experiences of "hooking up" so that you can lie to everyone so you dont seem like a prude. That is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard! Oh my gosh! Actually "hook up" with someone or be honest about who you are and stop lying to sound cool. Thats just stupid!


where have you been dead?????
well lsince i can't get ahold of you maybe by some chance you will see this ttyl love
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well love ya
Frosty (link)
yo yo yo


ok,i really need to build up my confidence,personality,and stuff like that. i feel like i want to change,for me,to feel better about myself. i want to be able to yell and scream and have fun,not care. what i need help is, how can i do all this***? how can i break down my wall i've had up for so long? (link)
it helps if you aren't known for being the shy person. If you are getting ready to start a new school or even a new grade, then you might be able to do it easier. You can just let loose and have fun. Im not saying go do crazy stupid things, im just saying that you should do something spontaneous. I do that all the time and I feel that i have a wonderful social life. People know me for being outgoing and spunky. You just need to forget about what peopole might think of you and have fun. You are only young once. Live it up. :D


me and my mom are really close were like best friends. But shes way to protective of me. Like she will let me go anywhere within my town or to a friends house but whenever i wanna go out she says no or she wants to know if parents are gonna be there. And even when i do go places she calls me every night and talks to me forever! Im 16 and almost 17 what can i do to make her let go.

thanks. (link)
wow... your life is like... EXACTLY like my life. Does she also question you when you talk on the phone in private or say things like...why do you have to go into your room and talk on the phone. Sorry...i know that this isn't an answer to your problem but I just find it crazy that we basically have the same life style. Im 16 also. wow...weird.


Hi,
My sisters 13th birthday is coming up, and i really have no idea what to get her. She likes shopping, those weird sayings like, "Brown eyed girl meets Blue eyed boy" and stuff like that. We have a pool but I dont think that she would want a raft..... e already have 2. I REALLY dont know!!! Please help!
THANKS :) :) :) :) (link)
Odd sayings are becoming more and more popular. The store "sidecca" has clothes that are super adorable and shirts that are definitly not seen everyday. They carry hello kitty stuff and johnny depp stuff. NInja turtles, old cartoons, things like that. A lot of sayings and stuff like that too. It is a cool store and the prices aren't too outrageous. I love sidecca. You will too and so will your little sister. Hope this helps. :)

I told you what you should give her. CLOTHES! Thats what I was talking about up there.


I've been trying to get nice legs for a month,and I admit taht my usual 1.5 hour a day jog is helping.
But now I'm getting worried that my calves are going to get like really big and muscular.

Is there anyway to make them smaller
Or just tone my upper theighs?

Thanks a ton. (link)
Beginner
1. Bent-Knee Extension




Targets hamstrings (back of thigh)
Lie faceup on floor with arms at sides, knees bent 90 degrees and heels shoulder-width apart on a stability ball. Lift hips toward the ceiling, being careful not to overarch back. Hold for 3 counts and lower. Repeat for 8 to 10 reps.


2. Seated Leg Raise




Targets quads (front of thigh)
Sit on floor with your back pressed into a wall, legs extended in front of you with feet flexed. Raise right leg off floor as high as you comfortably can, keeping foot flexed. Lower to floor without touching; do 20 continuous reps. Repeat with left leg.


3. Scissor Kick




Targets adductors (inner thigh)
Lie faceup on floor with arms at sides, palms down and legs extended. Lift legs about 45 degrees, pointing toes. Quickly open and close your legs, crossing the right thigh over the left and then reversing the movement. Continue scissoring legs; do 12 to 15 reps per side.


Man....I need to do this too!


Okay, so I know everyone asks tips on how to lose weight, and I'm sorry, but I am another one.

In three weeks, I am going to live at a beach for about a month. I would really like to be confortable with my body in a bathing suit.

I am not like obsese. I am about 5'4, probally a little less. I have fat thighs, and a not flat/kinda chubby stomach/hip area, everything else I'm okay with.

So please, just tips on more things I could do [I don't have access to a gym] Would just running/eating right be enough? but then how often/for how long should I run? Also how could I motivate myself? (link)
Eat a lot of salad and drink tons of water. Salad just breaks down into water anyways so that is good for you. Dont put fattening dressing on it either. Just put balsamic viniger mixed woth water. Eat fat free cottage cheese and fat free yogurt sweetened only by fruit juice. Dont eat carbs at night and dont eat past 6 o'clock at night. Limit your sugar intake. only eat natural sugars (but not too much). If you are going to eat carbs make sure that they are the good carbs...whole grain...like from oatmeal and stuff like that. Running is good and so are simple at home things that you can do. You can just move around and that is burning carbs. Motivation: Just think about your hot body and wonderful health benifits that you are goijng to recieve from this. You are going to feel better about yourself and feel more energized too. Those always motivate me! Hope this helps. :)


i have this friend and all she does is copy me. like i'll make up words and quotes and hang out with certain people and she's always a step behind me. my friend and i who are also friends with her wanted to go to this concert and now she's suddenly obsessed with it! i can't stand her most of the time and telling her how i feel won't work cause she's one of those 'i can't do anything wrong & it's all about me people' even if she doesn't realize it. ALSO i've liked this boy for awwhile and i was thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend for him, and she started going out with him a week later when she KNEW i liked him and she didn't like him, which i know because i asked her. ANYONE GOOD ADVICE PLEASEEEEEE! (link)
They say that when someone copys you that is shows a great deal of respect and admiration. She obvioulsly admires you and looks up to you as a role model. You shouldn't be mad that she wants to copy your style or your likes and dislikes, it is clearly a compliment showing that she strives to be like you. The only think wrong is that I understand that it can be very annoying having a little shadow running around. She shouldn't have hooked up with the boy that you liked but after all you do have a boyfriend. It may be harsh...but it is true.


ok, im 13/f (turning 14 in a month) and i havent started my period yet. I don't know if that has to do with the fact that i have small boobs. I'm only a 34A, and i dont want to stay that my entire life. Do u think ill get bigger, and is there anyway to make them look bigger? thnku =] (link)
I totally know what you mean. I am 16 and have only a 32A! I make them look bigger all the time though. Victoria Secret is my answer. Just find a bra that makes them look bigger. Thats all I do and people dont believe me when I say that they are only a 32A. Its crazy but true. You can get a nice bra from there and they are roughly $50. Kinda a lot for something most people wont see but definatly worth it. I dont think that it is because of the whole period thing. Just be thankful that you haven't started. Hope that this helps. :)


I have two really red pimples, and they won't goa way. (Had them for about 2 days now) But I really just want the redness to go away. Will toothpaste help this? And what are the side effects from using toothpaste on your face? Also, when should I apply the toothpaste, and leave it on how long before I take it off?

THANKS! (link)
This might sound crazy but it works. Put a dab of Visine on them and it will temporarily take the redness away just like it does for eyes. Hope this helps.:)


My closest female friend is always with me. We spend alot of time together. More recently when we are alone we just talk and look giddly at eachother. When laughing, she tends to lean on me and if a song or somthing comes on and we're not talking, she'll lay her head across on my lap (we're in a car). She may even move my hand so that I am holding her, and she gently takes my hand. When we are talking like this or just looking at eachother we are very close (physically). I dont know if she would want me to kiss her, in fact I think about it all the time! Whenever there is an awkward silence and we just gaze at eachother instead of doing anything we just laugh giddly. I am so unsure of what she wants. I know what I want ;-). I would have no problem hooking up with her at the every impulse or at least whenever I read the situation that asks for it. But I don't know if that is what she wants too. I don't want this to be awkward but the constant punding of my head with this confusing situation is driving me crazy! I can't just say, "hey want me to kiss you" because that would destroy any mood at the moment, and who knows! Maybe she is just expecting me to kiss her, and know what she wanted. what does she want, why won't she just say "kiss me" if she really wanted me to. Does that mean she wants to keep the relationship the way it is currently?! Should I just make the move at her and see what happens (We have hooked up before, but she always initiates). It's not that i'm afraid or anything, I just have no 'friggen clue what she wants!

*please also, don't say talk to her about it. because i've tried this. doesn't turn out properly.


so - do i make the move when i think she wants me to kiss her? even though she really hasnt made any suggestion that she wants it

any help at all is much appreciated (link)
She totally wants you! There are no signs that she doesn't. I think that you should definatly kiss her. And don't ask...nobody likes when someone asks if they can kiss you. Just do it. I hope that this helps! :)


so, im getting a puppy. a chihuahua. shes only 5 weeks,(6 weeks saturday) and she started eating by herself, so i might get her this weekend. well anyways, i like the name Stella. But when people ask me her name, i say Stella, and they give me a weird look. i think the name is cute.
so my first question. do you think the name is cute?
and can anyone think of cute unique dog names. oh and if you couldnt tell, shes a girl.. haha
thanks!!! (link)
I just got a puppy on saturday! He is half chihuahua. I named him Otis. YAY FOR PUPPIES! Now for the question. I think that Stella is a cute name. I have a cat named David and people always give me dirty looks when I say what his name is. I dont think that you should care what other people think. Your the one that is going to live with her (your new pup...) I like the name Stella anyways...its a cute little girly dog name. Have fun with your new puppy no matter what you name her. :)


Is there anything that i may have around my house that i could put on my hair over night to make it really soft and silky tomarrow? you know how some peoples hair is so soft and shiny, but not oily looking, and when you touch it it feels soft? well is there anything i can put on my hair tonight that would make mine as close to that as possible in the morning? It can be like maybe some hair products, but i probabally wouldnt have them at home because i need it for tomarrow, or it could be any kind of food or food juices if you know what i mean. just anything and everything.

thanks =]

and what would i need to do to it in the morning and does it need to be wet or dry when i put it on and do i need to cover it with anything while i sleep.

kAy thanks (link)
I am getting this out of Seventeen magazine so it should work. For strong, shiny hair, mix two eggs with 1/4 cup vegetable oil. Coat hair with it, wrap your head, then leave it on over night. It should work. The person that wrote it was a celebrity facialist. Sounds good to me...hope it works! :)




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