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bad friend? =\
i have this friend and all she does is copy me. like i'll make up words and quotes and hang out with certain people and she's always a step behind me. my friend and i who are also friends with her wanted to go to this concert and now she's suddenly obsessed with it! i can't stand her most of the time and telling her how i feel won't work cause she's one of those 'i can't do anything wrong & it's all about me people' even if she doesn't realize it. ALSO i've liked this boy for awwhile and i was thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend for him, and she started going out with him a week later when she KNEW i liked him and she didn't like him, which i know because i asked her. ANYONE GOOD ADVICE PLEASEEEEEE!
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Hey. Well, for one thing, I agree. She deffinatly should not have hooked up with the guy you like, but, think of it this way: She is always very jelous of you, and she envies you and would love to be like you. She found out that you want something that takes a little time to get, so she acted on it right away, to make you jealous of her, for once. I know it's probably extremely annoying to have someone following you around all the time, but try to have a little bit of patience with her, after all, it is a compliment, as I see it :].
As for the kid you like, tell her that you're getting really pissed and you think it's really low for her to go out with someone she doesn't even like, just to piss you off or something. Tell her that it's wicked stupid and skanky to lead someone on to get back at a friend and if she doesn't set this guy straight that you'll do it for her. Don't take shit from her, becuase I hate more than anything the type of person you described this girl to be - "the world revolves around me" and someone that dates someone they don't even like. So, get this hoe straight :].
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They say that when someone copys you that is shows a great deal of respect and admiration. She obvioulsly admires you and looks up to you as a role model. You shouldn't be mad that she wants to copy your style or your likes and dislikes, it is clearly a compliment showing that she strives to be like you. The only think wrong is that I understand that it can be very annoying having a little shadow running around. She shouldn't have hooked up with the boy that you liked but after all you do have a boyfriend. It may be harsh...but it is true.
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Stop being friends with her. Tell her that you've had enough of her crap & you're not gonna take it anymore. You're done with the bullshit & how she always copies you. If she doesn't seem to get it, act on it & make it clear!
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If you can't stand her why do you keep her as a friend? Friends are supposed to be people whose presence you enjoy...
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