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does she want a kiss?
My closest female friend is always with me. We spend alot of time together. More recently when we are alone we just talk and look giddly at eachother. When laughing, she tends to lean on me and if a song or somthing comes on and we're not talking, she'll lay her head across on my lap (we're in a car). She may even move my hand so that I am holding her, and she gently takes my hand. When we are talking like this or just looking at eachother we are very close (physically). I dont know if she would want me to kiss her, in fact I think about it all the time! Whenever there is an awkward silence and we just gaze at eachother instead of doing anything we just laugh giddly. I am so unsure of what she wants. I know what I want ;-). I would have no problem hooking up with her at the every impulse or at least whenever I read the situation that asks for it. But I don't know if that is what she wants too. I don't want this to be awkward but the constant punding of my head with this confusing situation is driving me crazy! I can't just say, "hey want me to kiss you" because that would destroy any mood at the moment, and who knows! Maybe she is just expecting me to kiss her, and know what she wanted. what does she want, why won't she just say "kiss me" if she really wanted me to. Does that mean she wants to keep the relationship the way it is currently?! Should I just make the move at her and see what happens (We have hooked up before, but she always initiates). It's not that i'm afraid or anything, I just have no 'friggen clue what she wants!
*please also, don't say talk to her about it. because i've tried this. doesn't turn out properly.
so - do i make the move when i think she wants me to kiss her? even though she really hasnt made any suggestion that she wants it
any help at all is much appreciated
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I would say go for it. But go carefully. Wait for the right moment, and make sure you're getting eye contact. When you're sure you're close enough, glance down at her lips, then back at her eyes.
This is the universal 'can I kiss you?' in silent talk. You know....Body language?
If she does the same to you, or closes her eyes, or smiles or nods or does SOMETHING that aint negative, then lean in and give her a VERY light kiss right on the corner of her mouth.
Then pull away and look her in the eyes again.
Do nothing else until you've judged her reaction. If she kisses you back, well then go you.
If not...well then just laugh giddily and change the subject.
If she DOES react positively, then halt the horses before steamy make-out session can continue, and ask her what she would say if you asked to be her boyfriend.
That takes a lot of pressure off the situation than just asking straight-up "Will you be my girlfriend?"
Don't just wait for her to say "kiss me" because it's a rare girl that's capable of being that bold, and chances are it will never happen.
-Leah
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def. go for it, i know exactly what your going through. me and my bestfreidn are the same way. and sometime we willl always be in a situation where can i have the perfect oppertunity to kiss her but im so scared as to whats running through her mind and i dont want her to feel uncomfortable so i dont. but look at it this way if you dont do it soon your never gonna find out and you'll end up regreting it. i mean heck if you guys are so close what does it amtter, i mean if you kiss her and she dosnt want it, your her bestfriend so its fine. and if she goes in for it you could end up having the best relationship of your life<3 hope i helped and let me know how things turn out.
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She totally wants you! There are no signs that she doesn't. I think that you should definatly kiss her. And don't ask...nobody likes when someone asks if they can kiss you. Just do it. I hope that this helps! :)
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yea...she wants you too kiss her...it's pretty obvious. She just as worried as your are about "breaking the moment" so just follow your heart and you'll do fine.
-stephanie
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hey
it sounds like she does want you to hook up with her if she puts your arm around her, etc.
my suggestion? give her a quick kiss on the lips or cheek & see her reaction. if she gives you a look or stops kissing you, it's a no. but if she keeps going & smiles & laughs alot, yeah! keep goingg!
just take it slow- you have to experiment a little bit with her, it seems.
& don't give her mixed signals either. like don't ignore her one day & be all sweet & loving the next day. major turn-off. just be careful of that. try to talk to her a little everyday.
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well by the sound of it she does and no offence but u must be really clueless if u havent figured this out yet. She does want to kiss you because any normal friends that r gurls & guys wouldnt be that close.
Good Luck!
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It sounds like she's into you.
Go for it =]
-Katie
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