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Q: Does diet affect the amount of zits you have? Because it seems whenever I eat a lot of junk food I break out...=[
actually its just stress that causes the break outs but honestly i think food has something to do with it. if you eat a lot of sugary stuff that JUNK gets thru your blood and it can make your skin more oily.
but mostly zits are just caused by stresss!

Q: hi i am nearly 14 and i am only a 30AA/30AAA why are they so small it is so embarissin all my friends are c cup and i have grown loadz and started my period please answer it
well i'm 14 and i'm only 32A...so your not that far behind me. but i've noticed my boobs are getting better. just give it time. you may just normally be a smaller cup size. look at your mom, your grandma on both sides, and even your aunts who are blood related. that can tell you how big your boobs can possibly get. its all heredity. but give it time!
hope i helped.

Q: ok,so this guy asked me to homecoming and i said yes... but i'm a little concerned that it might be awkward? he told me he'd take care of finding a group to go with and stuff but every time i ask he's like "i don't really care which group we go in" and that he has options and we'll see and maybe we don't need a group. ....which i donno, just me and him might be a little weird. so how can i make sure i have fun and that the whole situation isnt weird? and also, am i like allowed to dance w/ other people or do i have to dance w/ just him?
well. just make sure one of your good friend or friends are going. then you can be like AH! hold on i'll be right back!
& no you don't have to dance with just him
but itd be "polite" you could always just tell him i'll go with you but i wanna see my friends too! just be nice about it.
if its that awkward then maybe you should tell him you really wanna be with a group of people because its too weird for you. just tell him straight up and he'll proly feel relieved because he probably think its weird too!

hope i helped...any lol

Q: my teeth arent white at all, and ive tried to use crest whitening strips, but my teeth are very sensitive, so they hurt when they are on it. is there anything i could buy that will make my teeth white fast without any pain?!!
and not too expensive please!!
my teeth are really sensitive too but i still use the crest whitening strips and i ues a tooth paste called prevident after i use the stripes it takes a few days for you to really really notice a difference but it works!

-prevident tooth paste.
-crest white strips multi care
even try using the strips maybe 2-3 times a week
instead of every day.

Q: Okay i might be flying (like cheerleading)
im not afraid or anything it just i think about it alot
and yesterday i was there and i took me a little min t o go p and stuff im deff not afraid of it!!
its just i think of it to much anything that can help me knot think og it bcause ii really want to fly this year!
alright, just DONT look down. i mean your not afraid; not many flyers are. just lock your knees, hold your weight and look up! Just find an encouraging song or something to listen to before practice get it stuck in your head and just prove to yourself you can do it. like haha
a few of em ; they're not the greatest but they lyrics are cool and the songs get stuck in my head.

there's always bet on it from zac efron!! haha. wow.
or keke palmer its my turn
even hmm tryin to think its from a band called superchic(k) i think its called get up.

they get stuck in my head and then they're so easy for me to just concentrate on the songs and just pull whatever i need to pull up in the stunt..
and if its your first time flying down panic.
it was your first time you gonna have to get use to it.

hope i helped! ;)

lol the song thing just helps me. lol

Q: why are some guys are players? and do you think nice guys arent that attractive because they are"nice"?
i think that the nice guys can be attractive to some girls

but then players
mainly it's like
girls sometimes like guys
they feel they cant have
and that's they "players'
message
to me anyway

and i know what you meann
but i think nice guys scare some girls away sometimes because they are nice and think maybe they'll get to attatched?
but usually most guys aren't like that

but i do not like players
they jus go around and hurt girls
for no reason
it's pretty pathetic if you ask me

but that's my answer =)

stick with the nicer ones
just try to see who they really are.
not what they seem to be.

Q: all the coverup stuff i get stays on for like an hour and then wears off
does anyone know of a good coverup/foundation that stays on for a really long time
because i got this 24$ stuff from ulta and it only stayed on for a while the first day i wore it
and now it stays on for like an hour
sooo help!
to tell you the truth
the make up is going to wear off
eventually... =)
but
if you use like covergirl foundation
and take your finger or a sponge and DAB
it on where you need it
it'll take a while but if you just rub
it'll come off quicker
if you dab it stays on atleast 2 -3 hours
longer

what might work is using a matte mousse
you've heard of it i bet
that works really wel but again just dab it

i've heard that there's this lotion or spray that you can put on your face to keep the makeup for wearing off or spreading. i'm not sure though

my advice:
try take an oil tissue [the tissues that take up oil from your skin] after you wash your face
then apply the concealer; dab it with your finger or a makeup sponge; then after that use some blush or what ever else you use and afterwards use some shine free or just plain powder [don't cake it on just use some to help blend in stuff]

hope i helped!
-stephh

Q: Every time I workout or on my knee too much I get shooting pains in it. Like today, I walked 1/2 mile and rode my bike for 20 minutes and it started to hurt. What can be wrong? Thanks in advance!
don't worry. it could just be a growing pain. But if it always hurts you might want to see a doctor. I have this thing called Jumper's Knee and Os-good-slaughter

Q: what are some good sites that have cute high heels for teens?
i'm not sure of the site but it's called
DEB

i love that store. you can order online or find a store around where you live!

also you can always try kohls sometimes; even target has some cute heels.

deb is the best place for dresses, cute tops/jeans, and shoes...accessories are pretty crazy there too!

Q: hey it dosnt matter both old or new
thnx
"da rolling stone girl!"
mk well i'll find a site..



Q: it is my birthday next month, and i really want a rolling stones tshirt!
Ones with diamontes on and the things is i have looked online everywhere for one but they are like £40 and I am NOT spending that on one tee.
I really want the ones with jewells on, dosnt matter about colours and stuff, just jewells lol!
I live in the uk so even if you give me an usa site it is cool, it will probarbly be cheaper.
I HAVE googled it, I want one under £30 or £20 in
uk money or usa money.
well wait. Are you talking about the OLD rolling stones or the new ones. because well my cousin [he's freakishly old] is in the old one [keith richards] anywho. i can probably find it for you easily i just have to ask my grandma.. lol. BUT if it's the new one i can ask wear my friend got hers if that'd help =P just drop one in my inbox...

Q: So im 14/f and i got my FIRST period march 10th and ive got them normally and stuff but i have it now and like when i peed i looked and i was peeing blood (duhh) but when i was done peeing and i was gonna wipe but i looked down and blood was like still coming out and it wouldnt stop but i wasent peeing?
it was just like a stream of blood that wouldnt stop but i just wiped it anyways because it was still going after like a minute, ANYWAYS this is scarying me is it normal?? should i be worried??

whats wrong :[
No, you shouldn't be worried.

It's normal. I think i read someone else say that your body is just preparing for a baby...well yea that true. lol but you might be on your period again or it might be irregular which just means you don't start at the same time as you normally do.

but it's nothing to be worried about! tampons, pads, you'll be good.

don't freak out! i know exactly how you feel and mainly it just makes you even more scared cuz your freaking out about it! calm down and let your body do what it's gotta do..

don't we love that time of the month?!

[yes; that was sarcastic.]
hope i helped.

-stephanie =D

Q: Hi. This morning, as i was in bed, i tried rubbing my eyes, and my right eye, really hurt. so after a few hours, i got up, looked in the mirror, and there was some sort of yellowish-green thick liquid, on the edge of my eye, and my eye was slightly red and runny. there is also a tiny little spot on the edge of my eye, that hurts also. My eye hurts when i blink, or look around. is this an eye infection, or something worse? will it get better with eyedrops? thanks.
there's 3 things it could be.

1.) pink eye - which can be treated with eye drops

2.) allergies - also treated w/ eye drops [the yellowish-green liquid is from soemthing either your allergic to or it's pollen from outside or dust..]

3.) something worse

but i highly doubt it's something worse.
go to the doctor as soon as possible and check it out just to make sure

but usually all eye problems are healed with eye-drops

half of it's telling me it's allergies because of the pollen n stuff outside.

you might have scratched it while your sleeping to!

just go have the doctor check it out and you'll be fine!

-stephanie

Q: ok i have this good friend whos depressed sad but she always says "shes fine" and act normal around everyone and i know that shes not okay even though she denies that shes sad. but she pretty much admit it when we talk online.but she doesnt know why she cant cry even though shes really sad what do you guys think the she cant cry? and what do you think she should do? and how to release your tears? thank you so much and im sorry because of my english is bad im from japan
she's probably just really good at hiding what she feels. I do that sometimes but it eventually comes out sooner or later. But that's just me. and by the way your english isn't bad at all!

anywho

jus let her know that your there for her and maybe she is upset just doesn't show it through crying...some people don't; its just they way they show it. Some people will just totally hide it and come back to it later, or through anger, sometimes through well mainly anything

be there for her and when or if she cracks help her through it.

good luck!
-stephanie

Q: Well im 14 and i have been with my boy friend for 9 months. and lately he hasnt really been talking to. kinda like avoiding me. i dont know what i should. i mean i call him and try to talk to him. and normally we talk for a couple hours. but he tends to be like "i gotta go bye" after like 15 minutes on the phone. i dont know if its something i did.

what should i do?!
ok, well just take a deep breath and relax. Maybe he just needs some space for a little bit. You might need some too. Like not breaking up but just talking every-once in a while. Maybe he's busy and can't talk long.

If worst does come to worst
he might be interested in someone else
which is scary. Just ask him like the first 5 minutes you talk ask him and be like

hey is everything alright?

you know don't be too concerned or worried just be calm about it.

good luck!
-stephanie

Q: Any advice to sooth cramps? Or any good medicine?
I know Advil, Tylenol, lying on your back, and exercising helps.
Any other tips?
hey!

ok well try a heating pad they are amazing. My cramps go down real fast leaving the heating pad on high for like 10 minutes. If that doesn't work try a cool wash cloth then the heating pad.

Some warm tea would work too!

And of course lay down!

hope this helped
-stephanie

Q: Is there anyone out there with a medical background that could come up with an off the record probable prognosis or at least some educated advice rather than random common sense comments?
Both my parents work in the hospital well my whole family does. And i'm planning on it too. If it's something major just e-mail my mom she won't mind ask me for her e-mail address and ask away. My dad works with doctor's every day..he deals with respitory but he's also been a paramedic half his life. My mom is a nurse. My grandma works in the Emergency room. My cousin is a doctor. lol you get the picture. So you can ask me and i'd get the answer asap.

-stephanie

Q: is it bad to eat a powerbar, but then you don't exercise afterwards? i usually exercise but if i were to eat one for lunch, then i just went out and ran errands, is that unhealthy?
well,

sometimes i will say eat like nutrition bars but i'm looking into them and they don't really work. Sure they might have some vitamins but they only work to like give you energy and then you'll feel like SUPER tired...it's pretty pointless.It gives you a boost and then you just want to do it easy. If you do eat one don't exercise too much cuz you'll over do-it and wipe out. I'd reccomend an apple or water to be honest. Don't eat them too much because a lot of them are high in fat and calories.

hope this helped
-stephanie

Q: Well I recently turned 13 last month, And I've had pupic hair since about 12 in a half, and idk why but it scares me, like when im in the water (the bath tub) it makes me feel funny and its itchy..., I want to remove it, In fact I've been shaving it off for a while now, but it grows back ictchy, stubbly, and whiskery (hate that word!) I tried nair once, but it hurt REALLY bad and made my pours bleed.

Plus it grows back really fast for me, like in 4-5 days for me, and it itches SO BAD.

is there any way I can get it off without shaving and using nair? thanks =]
Well you can try waxing...[which hurts of course]

or like she said...trimming

OR

you can just TRY to let it grow and shave around your underwear like you know what i mean.

but honestly i wouldn't shave it because you're going to HAVe to keep up with it A LOT!

sorry!! :/ hope this helped some.

you can always use something similar to nair i can't think of the name but it's not supposed to hurt as much...look for it at walmart!

-stephanie

Q: 14/f im going to florida on tuesday and i due for my period and i dont want it while in florida cause im gunna be going in the pool and beach and i dont wanna look all bloated in a bathingsuit so is there something i can do to either get my period like in the next couple of days or something i can do so i dont get my period for a while?

thanks
That would totally stink!

Try asking your doctor if you can get a pill to just hold off on the period. But mainly this stuff is for like 18 and up because your body still has to develop...you can always try like midol while your down there. and maybe you'll be lucky and you'll get it maybe the last day your there or the day after!

-stephanie

bio
xLiisten2urheart
alright well 1st off my name is Stephanie.
i'm 13... in 8th grade


i cheered my 8th grade year. i didn't cheer 6 or 7th [that was volleyball]

i love sports



i love God!




uhm. anything else i guess just i.m. me


-Stephanie


p.s. i'll proly get a new column soon. xLiisten2urheart the name is getting boring. lol...but then again i might wait a while.

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