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why cant she cry?
ok i have this good friend whos depressed sad but she always says "shes fine" and act normal around everyone and i know that shes not okay even though she denies that shes sad. but she pretty much admit it when we talk online.but she doesnt know why she cant cry even though shes really sad what do you guys think the she cant cry? and what do you think she should do? and how to release your tears? thank you so much and im sorry because of my english is bad im from japan
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i say its fine. no1 has seen me cry for a very long time. since my attempt i cry over the phone to my bff. thats all. since ive been going threw alot more than most people. but i now have meltdowns and cry myself to sleep everynight i couldnt cry at all befor my attempt but now i do but not infront of anyone. i deny it to and say in fine. but my friend found an icon f.i.n.e fucked up insecure nuronic and emotional. im in with all the goths im gothic since i became deppressed. although i am suicidal cutter and gunner, deppressed and denys all tears. my friends are the only ones i dont kill myself for. the first time i tried my bff came over right away bc i was on the phone with him and i had another meltdown. he came over and saw me bleeding almost to death and stopped it to save my life. i just turned 13 and that all happend at 12. is she wearing darks and death jewelry. check her wrists. most cutters start at the wrist to almost elbow. if you love her tell her you love her and would miss her. is she tough if she is use tough love if not be sweet. im tough i hate it when ppl are like all mushy. she is ok. although im the quiet shy girl but a super freak around my friends. to release your tears you have to find you life out for yourself and you need friends more than ever to live seriosly. i really hope i helped
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she's probably just really good at hiding what she feels. I do that sometimes but it eventually comes out sooner or later. But that's just me. and by the way your english isn't bad at all!
anywho
jus let her know that your there for her and maybe she is upset just doesn't show it through crying...some people don't; its just they way they show it. Some people will just totally hide it and come back to it later, or through anger, sometimes through well mainly anything
be there for her and when or if she cracks help her through it.
good luck!
-stephanie
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i do that too... i hide my emotions... even from my closest friends and family. but something that i noticed was that i got so used to holding my emotions in that i'd forgotten how to cry. i was really lucky because i had a really good trustworthy friend to talk to... the only time i'd cried in years was when i told him why i was always so sad... he just hugged me untill i stopped. hope this helps...
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If your friend is depressed, SHE NEEDS PROFESSIONAL HELP. It is important that you tell someone like a trusted adult or parent whats going on, although she claims to be okat at times, is she suicidal?
Some psychologists( i took a class on this) believe that depressed teenagers, the more depressed they are, have a harder time crying, because of the depression. Some teens who have been suffereing from depression for a long time might not be able to cry anymore, because they have become use to their status. I really hope this helps, but if you have any more questions you can write me back. Good Luck!
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