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Hey everybody! I am a full time student at a high school in Georgia. Ever since I can remember I have been helping people and would love to help you. However, please rememeber that while I am doing the best I can, I might not always have the answer your looking for. Don't rate low because its not what you wanted to hear. I will always do my best to answer you, but I can't make any promises. I like to make people laugh and hang out with friends.
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I like a guy at my school,and i think he likes me back but i only know his name and i want to get closer to him...to know him more.The problem is that i get really shy and i don't know what to say around him.Is eye contact enough? Please help me thank you very much
Well,try to start a conversation with him one day...talk about anything and be kinda flirty and use body language and stuff cause it helps to calm the "nerves"....
Basically, just try talking to him maybe even going out with him...like a group kinda thing and see how the "vibes" go and if theres anything there...
Hope this helps! Good Luck
I am a male in high school. There is a girl I really like that Ive only seen at a class once a week for a couple of years. I want to ask her out but Im pretty shy and I dont know if she likes me. I am pretty friendly to her but I dont talk to her a whole lot, probably because I dont know what to say around her. How do you think I can get her to notice me and go out with me eventually?
I think that you should start talking to her on a daily basis. It dosent have to be anything extreme just a hey whats up everyday....After you've been sayin hey everyday start with small talk...like how's your day going? hows your weekend? have you seen that new movie.....stuff like that?
While getting to know her- make sure you listen to what she says because girls LOVE when a guy listens and notices things...like complimenting her and things like that.
After a while, maybe she'll feel comfortable enough around you to give you her number...if not- offer her yours. Just take things slow and when you think the timing is right- ask her out...
13/f
Ok i dont know what to do bc i really like this guy and i have only told my really close friends but most of my really close friends are really close friends with him. But i want him to find out some how bc he is always like flirtin with me well he is like always sittin by me and talkin to me and flickin my bra straps and tickling me and stuff so i think that he might like me back. But all of my friends are laughin at me but he is really nice and he is kinda cute and like when im around him he just makes me smile. But i dont know how he will take it if i tell him so i dont know what to say but we always sit together and i have a couple of classes with him so it would be really obvious if i told him. But the biggest problem is that me and my friends are kinda preppy and he is a skater boy so i dont know how my friends will take it if i go out with him. But some of my friends have been like EWWW!!! and some have been like oh he is cute u should go for it and they all think that he would go out with me but i donk know. But we are always txtin each other so i dont know if that makes it obvious too or not so PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!
hey whats up! As HARD as it seems- please please please do not worry about what other people think....do your own thing and live your own life...half of the time-those people are just HATIN!...I know some of your friends are like EWWWW!!! But to be honest, thats NOT what "friends" say and there supposed to encourage you and build you up and when it comes down to it- you gotta believe in yourself and go for it if you want it...
If your a bold kinda chick than maybe you could hang out with him one night and just kiss him and see what happens....if your kinda shy then maybe you can text him and not too obviously but ask if he thinks hed ever want to be your boyfriend...something like that...
Um, I hope everything works out and Good Luck!
I think i need counseling. I haf anger issues and me and my very best friend (friend fer 10 yrs)got into a massive fight and she said that she wasnt my friend ne more and i cut myself all over and then i started hyperventalating. i couldnt feel my hands or my feet and the room was spinning and she called me and i was freaking out on the fone with her and i was so afraid. we worked things out but i think i need help idk waht to do im so scared.
Hey. I think that is a very good idea to consider counseling. Don't be afraid, but I recommend talking to your parents or mom; or maybe just a adult you trust-like a teacher or guidance counselor. Tell them, that you are afraid that you are going to hurt yourself or someone else due to a problem with anger issues....
Don't be afraid and everything will work out. Good Luck and stay safe....P.S: Sometimes when I'm REALLy mad I just try counting or singing my fav. song-something to help calm me down...
-Spoolie21
me and this guy louis started talkin today about nothin......mostly just random stuff.......then my friend brandi told us that we should get together but we just looked at each other like "no way"! then he said instead of me and him, i should go out with brandon my othr friend who was sittin right next to him, all of a suddon brandon said "hey dani do you want to go out with me?" i just looked at him in shock his face got really red so i laughed cuz i thought he was joking then he said hey well he's the one who said we should.....but i never answered him or even asked him if he was for real i wish i had cuz ive had a crush on him since like forever!!!!! im gonna see him again on monday so........does anyone have any suggestions of how i can find out if he was for real about it or not????
Hey whats up!
Um, since your already pretty good friends with Brandon- than it shouldn't be too hard to talk to him. um, I'd casually ask if he was joking that day when he asked me out... and kinda balance the wuestion....make seem like a statemtn but sound like a question....I dont know if that makes sense....or maybe instead of asking anything at all- you can say YEAH! I'll go out with you. lol
I hope that everything works out.....
-Spoolie21
ok tonight, sep. 15, is my high skool's homecomin dance, and it's a casual dance u see i want to wear my pink tank top w/ shorts and flip flops, but i also want to wear my brown strapless dress which goes up to my middle thigh and high heels
i cant make up my mind and either way i dress ill fit in with my friends cauz half of them are wearin dresses and the other half are wearin tanktops w/ jeans
what should i wear?!
Hey whats up!
I think that depending on how or if you dance, whether you should wear a dress or the tank top. If you are laid-back at parties and kinda just go with the flow- I think a dress would be cute. But if you like to get down and grind and go all "crazy" at parties- then wear the tank top and short- so that you will be less likely to be "exposed".....
I hope this helps! Good luck deciding....
-Spoolie21
Hey guys
17/m
Here's the deal.
I like this girl. I mean, i like her a fair bit. But i'm not sure if she likes me back or not. I mean, recently she has been saying in quizzes (i know not the greatest source of all knowledge in the world) that she isn't sure if she fancies someone. And its just the timing is kind of coincidental. So I was just wondering what you guys think I should do?
See, i don't want to say anything and potentially ruin what could be a good friendship, but then again if i don't take the chance i probably never will.
So yeah, I was just wondering what you guys thing I should do.
Hey. Im a 17 year old female and while its hard at times and kinda scary....I suggest that you tell this girl how you feel, be completely honest with her and also tell her that you admire her friendship. If this really is a good friendship then I am sure she will hear you out and listen to what you have to say...Also if she isnt sure if she fancies someone then maybe ya'll could take things slow and see where things lead you...
I hope I helped and Good Luck...
ohkay so i was talking to my boyfriend on the phone just a minute ago. and i told him that i missed him already ( i seen him yesturday ) && he told me that i`m sprung & he likes that. what exactly does that mean. and he also said that he was gettin there with me as well. i`m so confused. what`s it mean when he said that he is almost sprung with me too ? and what does sprung mean.
i`m female - 16
he`s male - 19
Well my friend say this about me all the time! lol
Sprung basically just means that you really like that person...you think about them alot and smile when you hear their name or when someone talks about them you get all warm-hearted or happy inside...
Almost sprung means that you are getting to know the person and you like them, but your not fully infatuated yet....your not obsessed or crazy about them: you just like them....
I hope this helps...
Alrighty so there's this guy that I like, and it just so happens that we're good friends. So we're hanging out tomorrow and I'm really happy, I finally feel like I might have a chance with a guy that I really like. But I'm also kind of nervous because I think it'll be just me and him... what if we run out things to talk about, like what can I say? Also, how can I hint to him that I like him, without being too pushy/annoying? I just don't want it to be weird if he doesn't like me in that way because even if nothing happens, I still wanna be friends with him. Help?
Honestly: ya'll are already friends so just gotta be open and real with him. Easy topics would be school, music and hobbies....but once you find somethign ya'll are both into stretch the convo out...
I'm not sure how to tell him, but honestly just be real with him, because guys don't do to well with reading between the lines. So be straight-forward....just try something like We've become really close lately and i think your a really cool guy...compliment him for a minute, and then say- and because of all that we've been through I wonder if you would ever want to be more then friends because I want to.....just be real and honest....
Tell him, that you still want be friends even if no "sparks" are happeneing or anything- I hope this helps....Good Luck
15f im sorry if its long please just bare with me i really need help.
i cant stand living in my house anymore. my mom only comes here just to argue. she says ive changed alot and i know i have but thats all part of growing up. she always hits me and im sick of it. i dont know what to do. i want to leave so badly. she tells me that she doesnt love me as much as she used to. and that really hurts me. i just entered highschool and life is getting so hard for me. my grades are getting low, my boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me, my family is falling apart especially my mom she comes to my room to hit me or to scream at me everyday. she argues so mmuch. i cant stand this anymore. i ahte living here. i hate my new school i jsut hate my life. i really dont know what to do. i cant stand my mom. she is so annoying. im sick of her just coming into my room to argue. also, its summer break im supposed to be out with my friends having a good time and she says she sint going to let me go out anymor. she says im grounded for the whole summer. i want to go out with my friends, to the beach the pool the park the movies. i hate her! i dont know what to do. she wont let me do anything. my life is hard enough. please help
Okay, first you GOTTA to a deep breath...........now let it out. Now, I know the last thing you need is someone telling you "Everythign will be okay", but I promise you it will be. School....especially high school....will always have its ups and downs but you can get through it...talk to your teachers abotu your grade....maybe get a tutor or a friend to help you out...talk to your teachers about extra credit and such. Boys come and go throughout our lives....and even thoguh ya'll were going out for a while- maybe its best yall broke up now you can concentrate on grade and such. If you really miss him though....talk to him because communicatation is a HUGGGEEEE thing!!! And thats what I gotta say about your mom...yes shes your mom but you gotta learn what to take in and what not to....and even though shes your mom- ANYBODY WHOSE SCREAMING AND YELLING AT YOU, SAYING THINGS THAT LOWER YOUR SELF-ESTEEM....THATS NOTTTTTT SOMETHING THAT SHOULD EVER ENTER YOUR MIND OR HEART. Mom or not, nobody should be talked to like that okay? The best thing I can tell you is you need to sit down and TALK to your mom. Tell her how you feel and how when she says that stuff it really hurts. Tell her you know your changing and thats why you need your space but most of all SUPPORT!!!!! from her!!!! Try getting maybe a friend and her mom in it and TOGETHER yall can figure out how to resolve the issue? Just be honest and tell her how your entering school and times are hard and her screaming and hitting isnt helping. I really hope this helps...Good Luck!!!
what songs relate to your life or others? i have this project and i have to pick a song.. it has to be something i can find at like walmart or easily download from the computer.. because my project is due tomorrow! i have no idea what to choose.. i mean i am only 13 and i havent experienced alot of the hard stuff that goes on in some songs, like break-ups, having a boyfriend, divorce, etc things like that. not saying my life is all easy.. i have a bad short term memory, i get bad and good grades, my room is messy half the time, my parents are kinda strict since they are from africa and things are diff there than in america, uh.. my fave color is green, im a preppy tomboy, and i like the sun and beach, etc. but i dont go to the beach all the time.. in my entire life i've only been there 3 times. so basically what song relates to your life or maybe mine that i can use? i like hiphop, R&B, umm.. i guess some pop, and some softrock.. i dont like like hard rock, techno, emo, or whateverz. THANKS FOR HELPING! its hella hard to think of songs!!
Okayyy these are song that both me and my friends like so I hope these help....
These are songs abotu life:
1. Fall Out Boy-Sugar We're Goin Down
2. All American Rejects-Too Far Gone
3. Bon Jovi- Its My Life
These are songs about love:
1. Love You I Do-Jennifer Hudson
2. Like a Boy-Ciara
3. Kelly Clarkson-A Moment Like This
These are girl empowerment songs:
1.Destiny's Child-Independent Women
2. Pussycat Dolls-I don't need a man
3. Jennifer Hudson-I am Changing
4. Destiny's Child-Survivor
I hope these help....Good Luck! :)
okay so i just got my heart broken. i really liked this guy and i THOUGHT that he maybe liked me.all my friends thought he did too. especially since 3 days ago he asked me out on date which ended up being cancelled. so on friday me and one of his friends who i talk to alot made this deal. .... if i kissed my guy then he was going to kiss my friend who he liked.so today came around and i was pretty sure that i was going to do it. then i realized that he was acting realy weird. so i decided no to do it and later on without me knowing one of my friends asked him if he liked me for the millionth time(my friends never stop) and he said no. he said he thinks i am pretty and all but that he just wants to be friends.now i dont know what to do and am feeling like shit. he has hurt me so bad and i feel led on. pleeze help
Okay....I know this just happened and all, but you are gonn ahave to FORGET THIS GUY!!!!! NOOOO girl deserves to be led on and treated like crap, so when you are treated like that forget them....because a real guy KNOWS how to treat you with respect and tresure you.
Maybe: he has alot of crap going on in his life and while he might have actin interested something could have happened and he decided that he just needed friends right now not a girlfriend. It might sound crazy, but its happened to me before: this guy and I were talking all of a sudden we stopped and he "wasnt interested anymore": well I later found out his parents had gotten a divorce and he took up a job, to help support the family...so you never know?
Talk to your friends too, even if its just for future times and let them know that while you love them and all: they mighe have been a little too pushy and shouldn't have bothered the guy so much and maybe then he wouldnt have been sso frustrated...
I hope you feel better, but remember that while you liked this guy its only one guy: don't let him lower your self-worth to yourself...YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!! Feel better okay and treat yourself...like eat a WHOLE a gallon of ice cream or do something that makes you feel better...Good luck! :)
okay im confused bout something. im a chrisitian and i really want 2 do everything right but there are 2 things i cant give up ( sex with my boyfriend and wearing showy clothes and cursing ) and everything else am perfect wit.
the sex wit my friend one _ im kinda engaged 2 him and we'r gonna get married does that still make it wrong
2. is it wrong 2 wear showy clothes, can u stil be a good christian
3. i cant help cursin i do it witout thinkin
pleaes this is only for real believers. tell me wat is right in GODs eyes thank u
First off: I want to say that there is this realyl cool website for Chirstian girls and guys who are confused abotu dating, how far to go, and how to live a life of purity....its www.godofdesire.com....they have different articles and such on sex and dating and love life in general.
I don't think that God will smite you for cussing, because sometimes it just happens. For example, if you cuss and when feel bad about it and repent and try to do better...it'll be okay. God knows if we are really trying and how much we want to praise Him.
About what you wear: It depends how "showy" you want to get and why your wearing it. If someone wears a mini skirt and halter top so that guys will lust after her then she has the wrong intentions, but if shes wearing it because she feels she beautiful then i think its okay....Personally, I think when women wear clothes like that its like their giving away their girt of secrecy; in other words if women are showing off their butt, breast, and hips then they are revealing the things that guys should hold off on until marriage. Like if guys are already getting pleasure from seeing the butt and breast then when a woman wants respect: they might not get it because they've given away their body...instead of treating it like the prize it is...( I hope that makes sense)....
And lastly, even if you are engaged; its not right to be having sex. Sex is supposed to be for marriage and even though you're almost there....you should hold off until marriage...
Good Luck! I hope this helps! :)
So theres this guy, lets call him S. And i really like him. But i dont know if he likes me. And i wanna ask him out but i wanna make sure theres a little bit of a chance he likes me. S is in my math class and he sits diagnally from me. And sometimes i catch him glance at me and when i go to look at him back he turns his attention to something else like the clock. He smiles at me a lot and laughs at a lot of stuff. And today this girl, L, that sits next to me at my table thing was like okay stop flirting you two, and he turned red. So does he like me, and should i ask him out? But like im really afraid to do it because i dont want L to know i asked him out since i dont really like her and she"ll make fun of me, so do you think itll be weird if i have J thats in his second hour ask him for me. And whats a way i could go about asking J to ask S out for me. Sorry its long and maybe a little confusing, but any help at all will be greatly appreciated. :].
THE hardest lesson for a teenage girl to learn: STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK AND DO YOUR OWN THING! Easy to say, but sooo much harder to do...however this is what I recommend...don't abotu this girl "L"...if you like him I think you should go for it....if it would make it easier for you, you could ask "j" to ask for you, but if you asked yourself it would be a little bit more special and personal: but either way is okay! A way of asking this guy out is something simple like, "Hey "S", you're a really cool guy and fun to be around...you wanna hang out sometime?"
i hope everything works out....good luck!
im a 15 yr old female.
Ok so theres this guy I met at my school.
and weve been talking and everything and he seems like a really nice guy and everything, but im scared of liking him to much or giving him a chance cause i dont want to get hurt. With pretty much all my last relationships the guys have fucked me over pretty bad, and im tired of it. I just want to be with a good guy who wont hurt me. But how do I know if this guys any different?
Help please?
You know that this guy won't hurt you by the way he treats you.I cant give you a promise that this guy won't hurt you because that would just be unrealistic, but in a way-this is what relationships are all about...TRUST. Sometimes you have to "put yourself out there" and believe that things will work out. However, you are only 15 years old so you have plenty of time to find the good guy who you'll love and so on. But right now, I recommend taking things slowly. Pay attention to the little things he does around you and how he makes you feel, because that can tell whether hes a pretty good guy or not. For example, if you hang out together, does he hold the door open for you or does he talk to you with respect? Does he try to push things on you? Like making out or being physical or does he just like hanging out with you? Would he bring you around his friends or let you meet his family? In answering these questions, you might be able to have some idea on whether or not this guy is "REAL"...but dont worry too much and always have fun because every guy is like a book waiting to be opened and an adventure ready to be completed...
Good Luck. Hope this helps and if you have any more questions....I'll do my best to help! :)
yesterday my best friend was really upset and she said she wanted to be left alone..should i do anything and if so what? i feel kinda bad just letting her be alone. help please?
the same thing happened to my guy friend. what should i do?
thanks soo much.
If a guy wants to be leaft alone...I suggest you give him some space, but in doing so let him know that you are there for him if and when he needs you.
As far as your other friend goes, don't try to push her into talking to you, tell her that you respect her and will give her space, but that you'll always be there for her saying everything will be okay! And never feel bad, every once in a while, people need there space...trust me. If you push to hard, you might start upsetting her even more.
Don't worry, once she gets her space/time; she'll be cool again. Everybody needs a break...its in our nature.
I hope this helps! Good Luck
Hello ,
I'm just wondering what do you think true love really is ?
Thank you ,
Betty.
I always saw true love as somebody loving you for you! Not carign about all your stupid habits like smacking gum or the fact that you talk too loud. True love is someone accepting you and never trying to change you. Someone wanting to hold you or just be close, it doesnt always have to be about sex. True love is someone who values you so much that they dont even care if you dont have sex. Someone who will treat you with repesct and dignity...will do little sweet things for you, not because its your birthday but because they love you. One of the biggest things is when they put you before themselves....like your all that matter sand they will protect you with every breath in theit body. True love is many different things to many different people. However, this is only a few things that I invision abotu true love. i hope this helps!
What are some things that all guys look for in girls? Like, that ALL guys look for. Um, i am looking for a couple things, not just one thing.
Thank youuu :]
Hey.I'm a 16 year old girl but I just asked my friend this a few days ago and he told me a few things. But I also want to say that don't base what your like after one guy's opinion....cause all guys like different things but in general...
Guys look for girls who know their self-worth. In other words, not too high matienence and thinks there beautiful without always have to be told that. An amazing smile. When they give you a hug, its like you feel this shock and don't want to let go. A girl who is filled with life and love and confidence. Who stand up for what she believes. A girl who can make you luagh. A girl who smells good and takes care of herself. A down-to earth kinda girl. A girl who doesn't freak out if you don't call her every night. A girl who can have fun on her own and feels appreciated and knows love without haveing to be told it...
I hope this help! If I think of anymore I'll rewrite this! Good Luck!
I was thinking about throwing my first boy/girl kinda party. I'm 14/f and I have a pool, so I wanted to have a kind of pool/summer party. I need advice about how to exactly organize the party so everyone will have fun and what to eat and drink. How long should it be? What are activites boys and girls both enjoy? Do I just invite the people, they come, and do their own thing? Help; I've never done this before and I need advice!!!
Lets see....I'm 16 years 9ld and host a few parties every now and then. Pool parties never get old and can be a ton of fun if you plan things right. Now, first I'd start off with the invitations. Think about how many people you want to come...you set of friends or the whole grade....how many people would your parents want? These are things you and your mom and/or dad should discuss. Once you figure out the amount, you can move onto the details; such as time, place....etc. Invitations can be written out by hand or typed out...you should have something basically but pretty like time....place...and dont forget to add your number so people can RSVP.
After invitations you can get into the party itself. You can start off with music! I'd have a variety of music so everybody will have something to listen to. Great food options are chips, cookies, sodas, maybe little subs but nothing too heavy because people will be in the water. I'd have the party last for maybe 2 to 4 hours. Honestly the question about what should they do...usually guys will be the first in the pool and people will eventually follow. Maybe if your parents dont mind, people can come inside and watch tv if they are tiring of swimming....I'm not too surer about that because everybodys different but in general kids just hang oiut by the pool and talk...etc.
I hope this helps. If ya want to know anything more my email is angelicflutist@yahoo.com. Have fun and don't worry!!
hey evry1
well mi bff is coming over soon 4 a sleep over and i dont know what kinds of things to do.sometimes its reelie boring wen she comes bcuz we have nothing to do
plz help!
*I rate very high*
Well...everybody likes different things but everybody like movies. So maybe you could go to blockbuster and rent funny movies and eat popcorn. You can prank call guys at your school. You can do crazy stuff like karoke and put it on youtube. You can sing and dance and play truth or dare. I hope this helps! Good Luck