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*The tears wont stop coming*
okay so i just got my heart broken. i really liked this guy and i THOUGHT that he maybe liked me.all my friends thought he did too. especially since 3 days ago he asked me out on date which ended up being cancelled. so on friday me and one of his friends who i talk to alot made this deal. .... if i kissed my guy then he was going to kiss my friend who he liked.so today came around and i was pretty sure that i was going to do it. then i realized that he was acting realy weird. so i decided no to do it and later on without me knowing one of my friends asked him if he liked me for the millionth time(my friends never stop) and he said no. he said he thinks i am pretty and all but that he just wants to be friends.now i dont know what to do and am feeling like shit. he has hurt me so bad and i feel led on. pleeze help
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Okay....I know this just happened and all, but you are gonn ahave to FORGET THIS GUY!!!!! NOOOO girl deserves to be led on and treated like crap, so when you are treated like that forget them....because a real guy KNOWS how to treat you with respect and tresure you.
Maybe: he has alot of crap going on in his life and while he might have actin interested something could have happened and he decided that he just needed friends right now not a girlfriend. It might sound crazy, but its happened to me before: this guy and I were talking all of a sudden we stopped and he "wasnt interested anymore": well I later found out his parents had gotten a divorce and he took up a job, to help support the family...so you never know?
Talk to your friends too, even if its just for future times and let them know that while you love them and all: they mighe have been a little too pushy and shouldn't have bothered the guy so much and maybe then he wouldnt have been sso frustrated...
I hope you feel better, but remember that while you liked this guy its only one guy: don't let him lower your self-worth to yourself...YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!! Feel better okay and treat yourself...like eat a WHOLE a gallon of ice cream or do something that makes you feel better...Good luck! :)
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It's ok;boys are dumb like this all the time.But the thing is your friend shouldn't have asked him the same thing a [million] times.Because most guys hate that.The good thing is he still wants to be your friend and says your pretty.So keep it at that and work your way up.Talk to him alot more;then you could maybe go to the movies or do something fun together.For now since your upset about it talk to friends,even write a peom or something to get your feelings out.Then that way when your around him you don't get too mad at him for the past.Hope I helped-Rie.
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I think you have to consider all of the possibilities, maybe he just had a bad day, maybe hes confused with himself, maybe he likes another girl. i dont kno but it sounds like he just doesnt know anymore. if he did like you and asked you on a date maybe he got really bummed when it got canceled and he might think that you didnt like him anymore. i think you should ask yur friend to tell him 'she likes you still so why dont you like her anymore' that way he would know that you like him and it might change his mindc and give him more confidence towards you. Also have your friend tell him that you were sad when he said he didnt like you. and after all that he can either say he does still like you, or explain in more detail why he doesnt like you. either way you will have a happy ending, or at least an honest answer. hope it helps
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