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Hello;I'm Cherie.
I'm very outgoing.I won't
fake that.Being close to
my friends is important;I
like getting to know new people.
I will tell you straight up;
I've been in and out of cliques.
So tell me your social scene.

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ok so i just want a real, heartfelt, serious relatsionship. And there is a girl i like a lot. but i just don't know if she is going to be the serious relatsionship girl i'm looking for. you know? help me out, rie?

Okay; you want a real relatsionship then find someone you can have a good time with while being serious at the same time.Some one who can talk to you about everything & the other way around. Also they can always put a smile on your face. It's not easy to find the right things in everyone you start to like, but no-one is perfect.
And if the girl you like cant take a relasionship seriosly then what can she take serious?
You seem like you need someone speacil in your life so maybe you should just try to see if your match holds to the wind...if it doesn't work you can still be friends.
It might be hard but sometimes it's better for both of you.
hope i helped alittle
Merry Christmas

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Well, I broke up with my boyfriend because I was confused and I thought I liked someone else.
Than after hanging out with that other person, I realized I made a HUGE mistake.
And I told my ex that I missed him, and asked if he would be mad at me if I told him I wanted him back.
But he told me "Of course I wouldnt be mad at you! But im going to have to think about it, because I dont know"

I miss him ALOT.
I cry all the time now.

Should I wait for him to give me an answer, and keep trying to get him back.

Or let him go?

Well, to be honest i would let him 'think about it' I mean you did break up with him for another guy. But he's probably gald you want him back and more then likely you'll get back together. Just make sure you let him know how much he means to you. It would probably would be to hard on you to just let go, plus depending on how long you dated.
feelings like that just don't go away.

Atleast he's not mad and i think you shouldn't
just keep waiting i think it's important to try.

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Well, lets see..... I was dating this real sweet guy... always nice to me. and never did anything wrong, but he broke up with me for his ex girlfriend. It hurt alot, but i forgave him. Than they broke up and he acted as if he wanted me back, but he told me he liked me.. he just didnt want to. Because he didnt want to date anyone right yet, or this summer, or anytime soon. Than this kid that ive known since he was 9 likes me, and i kinda like him too.. but im confused.... what should i do?

Well i know how this is.You like a guy who you once dated & he won't leave your mind.See the thing is you need to move on.So maybe it would be a good idea to date the guy who likes you back.Your ex-boyfriend isn't looking right now and he might not be worth the wait.Or on the other hand He could be playing hard to get.Look at both of their past relationships.If one's a player don't date him.But see your ex did do something wrong because he left you for somebody else.And bad habbits die hard.This may sound to up front but this is the real world.Boys suck.Really and it's the wrost because girls are more into relationships most of the time.But if you try hard you'll win big.Even if that sounds lame; it's true.Find the right boy for you/that boy you known for a long time might be him.Give it a try.I hope I helped;if i didn't i'm sorry.

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i think i like boys and i'm a guy!!!!

Awe it's ok! Believe me i'm sure you could find someone if your cute or even outgoing.Just go by what you want to do and what you like =] Life is alot fuuner/amazing that way.hope i helped.

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okay so i just got my heart broken. i really liked this guy and i THOUGHT that he maybe liked me.all my friends thought he did too. especially since 3 days ago he asked me out on date which ended up being cancelled. so on friday me and one of his friends who i talk to alot made this deal. .... if i kissed my guy then he was going to kiss my friend who he liked.so today came around and i was pretty sure that i was going to do it. then i realized that he was acting realy weird. so i decided no to do it and later on without me knowing one of my friends asked him if he liked me for the millionth time(my friends never stop) and he said no. he said he thinks i am pretty and all but that he just wants to be friends.now i dont know what to do and am feeling like shit. he has hurt me so bad and i feel led on. pleeze help

It's ok;boys are dumb like this all the time.But the thing is your friend shouldn't have asked him the same thing a [million] times.Because most guys hate that.The good thing is he still wants to be your friend and says your pretty.So keep it at that and work your way up.Talk to him alot more;then you could maybe go to the movies or do something fun together.For now since your upset about it talk to friends,even write a peom or something to get your feelings out.Then that way when your around him you don't get too mad at him for the past.Hope I helped-Rie.

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my feet are so gross
but i have to wear open shoes....
whats a shoe that i can wear that is open,but isnt flip floppish

well there are really cute open toed shoes at hot topic;even if your not into that style.You should just try it because their in style and look cute with just about anything.Hope i helped-Cherie.

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one of my best friends has become obsessed with being popular. unfortunately, the popular kids dont even like her. so she just follows them around and tries to look like shes with them. sometimes one of them will ask her to go to the movies or something, but only because they need a ride there. then when they get there they ignore her or ditch her. then she sends them messages like "why wont you be my friend? am i not popular enough for you?" shes making a fool of herself and im really embarrassed for her. i wish i could say something to her, but what would i say? or is it better to just let her figure it out on her own?

Well;you should try talking to her.Face to Face;at your house.Try telling her why their not her real friends and how they use her.Really they could hurt her one of these days and you should try to help her now since your a real friend of hers and it would be really helpful too.

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There's a girl who lives down the street who I've known my whole life. She's okay to hang out with sometimes, but she's very clingy and possessive, so I don't like to spend too much time with her. Anyway, I just found out that she's joining my sports team and we will be giving her a ride home every day after practice. That means she's going to expect me to invite her over every day, or want to hang out all the time after practice. I don't mind doing that sometimes, but I have other friends, and a boyfriend, who I'm gonna want to spend time with. If I tell her I have other plans, she'll be mad at me for not inviting her. Plus I won't always have other plans, I just don't want to spend every day of the summer with her. How can I avoid having to hang out with her every day, without sounding mean or hurting her feelings?

Hello.Yeah this is totally understandable.Just tell her that you have other things to do;but make plans with her.When you hangout tell her when the next time you could hang out is;like when you have time.Or better yet;when you both have free time.Tell her that even tho you think you can;plans might change.But promise to have some time together.After dropping her off just tell her you'll see her soon,later..etc.If she gets upset when she can't come someplace with you and other friends then it's not your fault.Tell her sorry but there are to many people as there is.But try to keep your temper on low and always be friendly[even if you wish she would go away].

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hey guys im 15 years old and on the insides down my legs there are veins or popped blood vessels or something i dont really know but they look ugly i want them to go away but i dont know what it is can anyone help? thank you in advance

Hello.What I would do is go to a store and see if there is some kind of lotion to help it.Google it & try to find something to answer that.You could even go to a doctor;they went to school for that kind of stuff;right?

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i really like this one guy, but i really don't think i'm alive. i really want him to ask me out but he never talks to me. what sould i do?

Yeah;i've been there.And believe me if he doesn't talk to you then he's not worth your time.Or since you like him alot;try asking him to hang out or meet someplace.But ask him where to meet..and try to think of somethings to say.Don't plan it out so much.Go with it.And if he seems to like you ask him or maybe he really likes you back.Best of luck-hope I helped.

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i drink and don't want to im fat and depressed and wanna blow my brains out

Why do you drink;Ask your self what does this prove?Don't think your fat.Doesn't everyone these days.But your beautiful;no matter what.Alot of people say their depressed;I know people hurt you.It just depends on the way you deal with it.Try talking to your close friends.Write a letter to get it all out then burn it.As long as you know whats bothering you;you can fix it.Killing yourself isn't the way to go.It may seem easy.But it's not.I would know.I once...tried.But it's just a teen thing anymore.Just try talking to some one;have a some group of freinds come over and talk about.Don't be scared to cry with your friends.If you don't want to drink then stop.Make yourself stop.It doesn't help.Alot of people drink,cut or stave themself.Don't be one of them;but different and try to fix your probs easier.I hope I helped,if you ever need anything talk to me.

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