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hey mr.z long time no talk... anyways we went to the movies last night and it went well. we got along and had fun :) maybe this time it will actally work out i mean i am okay with just being friends with him if that is the way it ends up. but he has to be at least somewhat interested considering he came last night...so yeah :) its a all good. write back (link)
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happy for you,,, just don't expect too much so you will not be dissapointed!!!!ok
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hey mr. z!!!!!!! i havent talked to you in awhile !!!!! well i hope you have a good break! happy new year and merry christmas!!!!1 i love you!!! (link)
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I know,,, but I am used to it by now...girls and boys talk to me when I have them in my class and we get to have a good relationship but then after they are gone... everything is gone...
they don't come back...
It is like having a relationship...they break up with me and they find new teachers.....
saddddddddddd :(((((((((((((((
The amazing thing is that with you it was different.. I did not have you as students and yet you try to keep in touch with me...
I am really happy for you...
now I am the one that feel lonely.. I have noone...
it is going to be a sad christmas....
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he is a good boy :) one thing you might not like is he has a lip ring though lol. but he is sweet, and he respects me. (link)
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lip ring.. for a guy.. that is weird...
does your mom like him??
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his name is adam. and no one is supporting me right now cause well idk why!!! sam is and shenaye is but alot of people are against me and him going out. uggghhh im so sick of people these days. but he is really sweet mr.z you will like him :D (link)
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is he a good boy?? (meaning he does well in school and respects you and does not do drugs or stupid stuff)))
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hey mr. z. well i have a boy now and we are dating :D he is a good boy and yesterday he kissed me. im very happy!!!! i will come into class with him a little later kkk bye!!! (link)
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What is his name???
happy for you
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well dont worry i am noot going to make the move on him. he will have to do something if he wants too. yeah there is this one guy who is 18 and i llike it cause he is really mature. thanks mr.z but im not THAT amazing lol. sorry if i spell something wrong im tryting to finish this up b4 the bell rings. anywho but i just hate it that everyone around me has a realationship and i dont!! do you know how hard that is to deal with?? well im not going to be on this weekend so i will talk to you monday. bye :) (link)
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hey, you did not post anything,, and I was not sure what to write because I did not have the whole scope of things...
I just have to tell you, that in order for you to get into a relationship with a guy, you need to see what your options are.. meaning,, the guy that you want to date has to have certain good qualities that you need to have...
meaning has to be a gentleman, someone that does not want to be with you because of sex....
Someone that supports you and is there for you in the good and in the bad..
someone that lets you be with your friends because you are not attach to them...
remeber that love is not just being attracted but is to sacrifice for your them....
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Dont worry i will always be a good girl :) and yes matt has talked to me and im not starting anything, just being friends and if more comes along cool and if not whatever. I just dyed my hair. :) i really like it!! it makes me look older. anyways i hang out with shenaye and all my old friends. i dont talk to sam as much which makes me sad :( but i am trying to fix that. I am alot more flirtatious now but i am careful who i flirt with cause if i flirt too much i could get nown as a hoe. and that is NOT GOOD!! lol i dont know mr.z..... you helped me out so much. you changed me into a totally new person but in a good way. i didnt even see the whole picture till you came along! what would i be now if it wasnt for you??lol well write back and thanks for listening!!! (link)
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I think that you should let Matt make a move,,, because u already did before and he is going to think that you are too needy!!!
Well, eventually you were going to figure that out... I just helped a little...
hey,,, you have everything going for you...
pretty, brains, and friendly....
whoever is your bf,, will be so blesses to have you as a gf.....
just promise me that you will not sell yourself short...
you are worth alot... and you deserve a good guy!!!!
and yes,,, you are right,, don't flirt too much....
you know... sometimes is better to date someone that is more mature than you!!!!! so he can appreciate what you are!!!!
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im surprised your on!!! okay well shenaye has this new guy and i really dont like him because he has hurt her a few times but she wont listen and its making me mad. and she says she loves him but i dont think she really does, i think its infatuation. and then i have problems with boys (as usual) well there are a few guys but none of them are really what i want. one has a girlfriend, one lives too far away(sacramento),and another only wants sex. and im a good girl and dont do that. but its just like i changed alot this summer (thanks to you) :) and i am happy with the changes but at times i feel like they are getting nowhere i mean i cant find the guy that just fits me. and i know what he would be like but hes nowhere to be found!! and i think i might like matt anaya again. i know. stupid me. but i cant help it!!hes soooo cute. and i think if i tried this time it would work cause im different now. so im going to start talking to him again. well thats all for now. how are things with you??? i miss you!!!! (link)
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Well, thanks for confinding all this things to me.. I am not an expert but I have learned through my mistakes that the best way to aproach this is to make a list of the things that you are looking in a guy....
For sure you know that the guy that only wants sex is not the right choice and you should stay away from him... keep being a good girl...
what I would ask from you is that don't get in a relationship just as a desperation, because you most probably will end up with the wrong guy...
make a list of things that you can't live with out and things that you can deal with...
Also if you really like a guy, may be you need to learn a little more flirtitious but do not be too much though..!!!!
it may attract the wrong guys....
Do not talk to Matt, because if he had been attracted to you, he would have asked you already....
unless he is talking to you...
Do not sell yourself nor beg,, because you are attractive and now with your new look, you look older and some guys might also be intimidated by your looks......
Anyways who are you hanging out with????
About shenaye,, all you can do is tell her and just be there for her once her heart is broken... meanwhile you did what u had to do!!!!
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hey mr. z. do you ever come on anymore??? i think i need help again!!!!! :) (link)
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I forgot about the account...tell me what is going on????
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hey...the amanda and jordan thing is over...they got bored of eachother...well i have been having bad luck with the whole boy thing i mean there are a few guy AND HE STILL WOULNT GET IT!!!! (link)
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well,Jordan was more for you than her... Amanda likes more adventorous type of guys...your time will come eventually to find the right guy... still have 2 years at the high school... but if nothing happens in HS then in college.. be happy!!!!!!
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amanda decided she like jordan after meeting him 2 years before...james didnt like her so she gave up on him...and idk if sam passed the exam she hasnt gotten the results yet...me and sam will visit u (link)
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ok,, well he is a good guy... hope amanda treats him well... i am not good at hooking up students but i will keep trying...I have a sun burn... and i have been doing excercise.... going to the beach everyday
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no i never went out with jordan but amanda did. long story. she pretty much stole him and i am not going out with to many jerks lol just a few. sam has drama coming out of her kazoo and theres nothin really new there lol anyways i am glad you are having fun and when do you go back to gv?me and sam want to visit you!!!!! (link)
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Amanda,,, i thought she liked james... i will be back on august 1st.. Ask sam if she passed the apchem exam....
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obviously its brittany. so you havent been on for a loong time! how is vacation???any fun? okay well jordan is over with and there are a few guys here and there but not many. i have decided that i am not going after them they are coming after me :) and surprisingly it is working very well! i have met some new guys and am being there friends first. so anything new with you??write back! (link)
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what do you mean by Jordan is over...
did u go out with him or not?? and if you did how was it???
don't go out with too many guys and please do not fall for a jerk!!!
my life is great...
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my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year. he lives in the bigger part of town about 13 miles from my house. ive always gone there because thats where the movies, restaurants, etc are [there is nothing here] plus the fact that my mom works alot and he cant be here if she isnt, and we usually dont have guests over anyway [never rlly have]. in all the time weve been hanging out over this last year, his mom has driven him here or picked me up/brought me home maybe 5 or 6 times. i usually see him 2-3 times a week. it started out as just one time a week but then increased when he quit his job. my mom hated driving me there all the time because gas is expensive and what not [both of our families are kind of on a money crunch] but despite all the yelling and fussing she still did it. then i got a car. i pay for my own gas and now im up that way 5-6 days outta the week. i ended up getting a job that i love about a mile from his house. so on nights that i work [usually 3-4 times a week] ill drive over there and hang out for a few hours. no prob. but on days i dont work he stil wants me to come see him. but thats alot of money & gas. he got another job in april and is making decent money [about $7 an hour i think] and works 20-30 hours a week. hes 17 and has no car soo im the one doing all the driving. even if we go out to eat or to a movie [which we hardly EVER do.. seriously, 95% of the time we sit at his house] im the one driving there and paying half the time. i mentioned tonight maybe he could give me $5-10 like every 2 weeks to help me pay STRICTLY for gas, and he flat out said no. he has money that he spends on stupid stuff basically, so is that really too much to ask? i cant just stop going over there, because i cant not see him, plus there is NOTHING for me to do at my house, and my friends are always busy during the summer. how can i get him to understand thats alot of money on my part and i think he should help me at least a little. (link)
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look, that is the problem with boys of this generation... he is the man of the relationship, and he is supposed to do whatever to be with you, if he has to walk to see you or if he has to give you money.. but he is wrong of what he is doing...
he has a job and there is no way that you have to put up with him...
What is wrong with girls now?? girls go head over heals over some dumb guys...
you have to stop feeding his ego... he is controlling you,, can't you see it???
Tell him, to get off his ass and start caring for you...
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how do you know if you don't really love somebody anymore?
i have been dating my boyfriend for a while now and i used to be butterflies in my stomach can't stop thinking about him in love. He was the same way to me, and the thing is he is still completely head over heals for me but im afraid i don't love him. he changed alot lately, he lies to me now, hides stuff from me. he's doing alot of stupid stuff like getting arrested when he is with his friends. i talked to him about it, we even went on a break. he appologized did anythign to get me back and the second i did, he lied to me again. im a good girlfriend and i don't cheat or lie and i am there for him when he gets in trouble but im afraid i don't love him anymore. how will i know for sure? (link)
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I think you already know for sure,,,the signs are there...
These are the things that should guide you to know whether you love him..
Do you have patience for him?
Do you want to be kind to him?
Are you jelous?
Do you boast that u r better than him
Are you proud that you love him?
Are you rude to him?
Are you selfish?
Do you get easily angry at him?
Do you keep records of wrong???
the question is now...
Is he worth of your love???
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hey read my first question but ignore the bottom.
anyway what should i do about the girl im friends with. i like her but i dont want to destroy our relationship by telling her how i feel.
it feels like every day i dont tell her it further tears my soul. (link)
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just go and tell her!!!!!!!
what is the worst thing that can happened?
she rejecting you...she will respect you more for being honest
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is it normal to masterbate with a vibrator alot? (link)
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no it is not normal....
are you single?? then there has to be a way to control it...
otherwise it will control your life instead of you controling it
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Hi...I was wondering when you're pregnant I know you can still have sex unless directed by your doctor not to for the safety of your baby...anyways when you are pregnant and having sex your husband can cumm in you right???????
Just wondering...I mean it would make sense since you're already pregnant....Thank you ! (link)
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actually it is bette to do it because it would help you dilate faster during labor...
just don't do it right before labor....
but the last few months....
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I had a friend who i've been friends with for a few years. Suddenly out of nowhere, he told me he liked me & things went downhill from there. We remained friends & had a good time talking/joking around. A few months later, he changed. Randomly he began getting mean & just an unlikeable person. He was saying every argument we gotten into was my fault, how I wasn't trying hard enough to be his friend, wouldn't give him the time of day, didn't seem like I wanted to be his friend anymore etc. I do not even know to this day where he came up with all of that but he did. Then he would say lets not be friends anymore & I tried talking to him a few times & he would appologize, say how much he cares, & just be friendly again. Then randomly, he would go back into lets not be friends. One time he did that & he was completely serious about it & blocked me. We do not live near each other or whatever so I just let him go. He unblocked me & I asked him why we couldn't fix things & he said he was not a forgiving person or whatever and that he wanted nothing to do with me. This was all completely random & out of nowhere. I left him on my buddylist, but I knew we would not talk anymore. Recently, he's signed on & i am not blocked anymore & neither are my friends [he blocked them as well]. I'm not sure why he did this & were randomly unblocked. Does that mean anything? I obviously should not be friends with someone who treats other people badly, but why would someone go from totally caring about a friend, to not caring at all in a matter of days? Any opinions/ideas? Thanks! (link)
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man a woman can't be friends.. now that you have crossed over the friendship to the relationship, you have realized how truly he is... you should be glad that you know how he really is now that later...
so you need to cut all type of communication with him
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The past 2 times me and my boyfriend have been having protected sex..(with condom)we have both been finish, he usually goes to the bathroom to clean himself up with absolutely no problems. But the past 2 times that he's done that and he's noticed that the sperm slided off alittle onto his testical area with the condom on (he got soft). we are both extremely worried that we got sperm on me. He says he KNOWS that it was around my vaginal area but didn't go inside. But we both washed off really well. Do you think I could be pregnant? (I can't get it off my head) (link)
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well, scientifically speaking the sperm must be inside the female part in order to achieve conception...
the problems lies whether there was some sperm inside...That is the question of the million dollars..
Congratulations on your baby
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