im surprised your on!!! okay well shenaye has this new guy and i really dont like him because he has hurt her a few times but she wont listen and its making me mad. and she says she loves him but i dont think she really does, i think its infatuation. and then i have problems with boys (as usual) well there are a few guys but none of them are really what i want. one has a girlfriend, one lives too far away(sacramento),and another only wants sex. and im a good girl and dont do that. but its just like i changed alot this summer (thanks to you) :) and i am happy with the changes but at times i feel like they are getting nowhere i mean i cant find the guy that just fits me. and i know what he would be like but hes nowhere to be found!! and i think i might like matt anaya again. i know. stupid me. but i cant help it!!hes soooo cute. and i think if i tried this time it would work cause im different now. so im going to start talking to him again. well thats all for now. how are things with you??? i miss you!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? apchem answered Thursday October 25 2007, 8:41 pm: Well, thanks for confinding all this things to me.. I am not an expert but I have learned through my mistakes that the best way to aproach this is to make a list of the things that you are looking in a guy....
For sure you know that the guy that only wants sex is not the right choice and you should stay away from him... keep being a good girl...
what I would ask from you is that don't get in a relationship just as a desperation, because you most probably will end up with the wrong guy...
make a list of things that you can't live with out and things that you can deal with...
Also if you really like a guy, may be you need to learn a little more flirtitious but do not be too much though..!!!!
it may attract the wrong guys....
Do not talk to Matt, because if he had been attracted to you, he would have asked you already....
unless he is talking to you...
Do not sell yourself nor beg,, because you are attractive and now with your new look, you look older and some guys might also be intimidated by your looks......
Anyways who are you hanging out with????
About shenaye,, all you can do is tell her and just be there for her once her heart is broken... meanwhile you did what u had to do!!!! [ apchem's advice column | Ask apchem A Question ]
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