I am knowledgeable on a lot of topics
I am married been mrried 6 years (this September makes 7)
Been in a relationship for 11 years no its not perfect thats why I can give marriage advice
My family is so disfunctional so write me bout that I have lots of advice on that
Pets: I take in abandoned cats have 22 a ferret, a dog and 4 fish and have had lots of others
Cooking: I can cook anything I am from Mississippi near New Orleans so I cook cajun or soul food
Sewing/Crafts: I have a website where I sell purses and jewelry come check me out at http://stores.ebay.com/Handmade-purses-and-Accessories
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Myspace bloghttp://blog.myspace.com/228girlms
Homosexual thoughts: I am bisexual so I can give advice in this area
Ask me anything I will try to help openly and honestly if I do not know I will try to find an answer for you.
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My dogs are small and I'm worried about the cold weather. Are they okay out there? I mean I went outside around 3am and it was freezing! I already have dog houses with their own heating pads, should that be enough? They aren't allowed inside at night. (link)
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They should be fine with a heating pad and a doghouse. Animals ae alot tougher than we as pet owners think they are sometimes. Perhaps you could get them some sort of heater that is safe for outdoors. Be careful though with rain or percipitation and electronics.
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If you discovered that your drunken boyfriend had gotten a blowjob at a party from a stranger whose name he didn't even know, would you be bothered by this? I might add this was a couple of years ago, before we knew each other. He just admitted it to me and I've been weird about it ever since. I haven't even been able to talk to him. I can't get it off my mind. I've just totally lost respect for him for it. I realize people make mistakes but it's really bothering me. =/ He does regret it at least but still.
So..uh.. what's wrong with me? How can I stop holding this against him? Do I have a right to look down on him for this?
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Well I would respect him for being honest with you. If this happened before you met I do not see anything really that could bother you unless it is the feeling that how could someone do something like that with someone that they do not know. Some people are into this and in his case it might be because he was drunk. Perhaps h has learned his lesson. Now if this happened after you were together well that would be a problem. I would talk to him and let him know that what he did makes you feel uncomfortable. Perhaps what you need is reassurance that he will not do this again and that he would definitly not do it while you are together. Good Luck and be thanksful fo his honesty.
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hi my name is addi,im from india.ill just make it short my age is 22 i never had sex before till i met the girl i was looking for i wanted to have sex with her but on the last time i came to know that she likes to suck alot.i mean she is a blow jobber.she alwaz used to meet me and she used to suck it, 3 to 4 times i was discharged evry time but now the problem started my left testicide was hurting me a lot i went to the doctor took some medicine but not much effective,now wen ever i see my testicides they seem like they r blown up.i mean like air is been filled up in them has filled .........i have left the friend ship with that girl and now im in much pain in these days.looking for ur answer (link)
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Hi this may not be the answer you want to hear but I would let the doctor check for an STD. STD's can be transmitted through a blow job just like sex. Good Luck to you have this checked out before it becomes a problem worst than the one that you have.
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i know this might come off as stupid but not to me im really scared..3months ago me and my bf were fooling around and he put his penis by my vagina not in it but against it and for like 10-20 seconds and he didnt ejaculate or nothing...but there is thhe stuff already on his penis when he gets arroused....3months later my period still comes on regularly,but now i have reallyyy bad gas,lol a couple days ago i had my first migrain while my period was on...then when my period goes off i notice this bumpy rashy stuff inside the lips of my labia monora...ive never had sex before and my period just went off.i really dont want to tell my mom right now i just feel helpless and stupid..now my period went of yesterday and i have this little rash on me or whatever it is..i need advice,but i dont want to have to tell my mom or anyone about the thing 3months ago. september 9th to be exact
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Hi your uestion is not stuppid at all. Well if you have had your period regularly I wouldn't worry about pregnancy but you need to be very careful about STD's even without ejaculation or sex an STD can be transmitted by coming in contact with someone elses genitalia. The rash could be hair bumps if you shave or an allergic reaction to soap or washing powder etc... If the rash continues or worsens you may want to see a doctor or talk to someone that you feel comfotable with. Good Luck.
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I can not stop eating.
I lost 5 pounds last month,but all of as sudden now my body is going insane. it's like I NEED TO EAT, even when I don't feel hungry like today for example, I've had
a pudding, chocolate bar, jo louie, a sandwhich, bag of peanuts and smarties, grilled cheese, mac and cheese, crackers and cheese, oatmeal, chcolate eggs, big chocolate bunny, yogos, coffee, fruit-to-go.
And it's only 1 in the afternoon.
My stomach is HUGE, and hurts, but I still want to eat.
What can I do to get this under control?
I'm madly craving sweets. (link)
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try eating low cal or low fat foods slice up some apples, cucumbers, watermelon, mangoes or anything keep them in the fridge for easy access whenever you want someting sweet eat that. you can also have some celery and peanut butter. sweet fruits will cure your sweet tooth just as quickly as candy after you get used to it perhaps find some low cal recipes on line make your own pudding with low fat milk have wheat bread instead of white bread, cook some bran muffins they help you lose weight eat that instead of cookies or cupcakes, keep the junk food out of your house or fridge when the urge hits grab the healthy snacks you will fill up chances are you wont walk or drive to the store for sweets. Good Luck :-)here's 2 snacks to get you started
Banana Shake
1 banana - cut in to slices
2 cups low fat yogurt
1 cup orange juice
1/2 cup skimmed milk
Blend the ingredients in a blender until smooth. Serve in a chilled glass.
Healthy Fruit Berries Salad
Blue berries - 1 cup
Raspberries - 1 cup
Black berries - 1 cup
Cherries - 1 cup
In a large bowl, mix the four fruits. Add a little whipping cream on top if you like. This is a very healthy fruit snack. It's low in fat, contains a lot of vitamins
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Sorry this is long, but I'm not sure how else to explain everything.
I live in America, but I recently accepted a place at a school in England to start Uni this fall.
I did two years of schooling at a community college in FL and received an Associate's degree, and had a full scholarship to continue onto a University anywhere in FL, but I couldn't find a school that had a programme that I was interested enough in.
By the time I start Uni this fall, it will have been two years since I graduated from college. I took the time off to figure out exactly where I wanted to go and what I wanted to do, and also to give myself a break since I felt completely burned out from studying.
My only problem is that my dad's side of the family does not support my descision to go to England AT ALL. In their eyes, I'm throwing away a scholarship and acting foolishly. They have more than enough money to afford my tuition, but since they don't support my descision, they won't give me a dime.
This means that I'm left to pay for 3 years of schooling by myself, which means I have to take out over $75,000 in loans.
My mom totally supports my decision, but she cannot afford to help me out with tuition either.
I've tried to find scholarships, but haven't been able to find any for my school or programme.
My question is this: Does anyone know of any specific places that offer loans for international schooling that have low interest rates and do not require someone to co-sign the loan? I don't have any credit at all, so I know that I will have to pay a higher rate than someone who has really good credit, but I'd like to find the lowest rate as possible.
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Try for grants, department of education, or citibank for student loans. You can also ask the university of your choice if they have a work study program you could just say work at the campus library to knock off some of the tuition or maybe tutor at the university. Hope this helps Good Luck and I hope your family sees that you are trying to further your education and be what you want to be. Hope this helps:-)
heres a link to a site that may offer a scholorship for what you want to study.http://www.scholarshipexperts.com/index.jsp
You can also try your local library ask them for a book on studying abroad in the reference department.
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whats fanatic? (link)
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when someone is obcessive over something like a religeous fanatic talks and reads about religion.:-)
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Last night when i was masturbating (i do it at least 4 times a day and it's been that way for a number of years) when i got close to being at the edge of orgasm I got this EXTREMELY powerful headache in the lower left corner of the back of my head and it spread to the rest of my head.
The same thing happened this morning.
Why is this?
I'm PMSing now if that makes a difference. I'm worried. I still have the bad headache now. (link)
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Occasionally, orgasm can trigger a Migraine but, in others, can relieve a Migraine. If it continues or gets worse you may want to check with your doctor theses headaches can sometimes be caused by exertion.Dull, achy sex headaches are thought to be caused by tightening the head and neck muscles during sexual activity. Sex headaches associated with orgasm may be a response to increased blood pressure that causes the cerebral blood vessels to dilate.
In other cases, medications such as birth control pills and pseudoephedrine (a common decongestant in many over-the-counter cold remedies) have been linked to sex headaches.
Hope this helps Good Luck:-)
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My two year contract isn't over for Cingular. I don't really want to change my plan, but I want a new phone. Does anyone know of a cingular phone, thats pretty cheap.. and has a QWERTY keyboard? I don't care if it's one of the used ones that they fixed, as long as it works and looks fine. (link)
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try going to ebay.com they have new and used phone way cheaper than cingular wants make sure the phone is an unlocked phone just change the sim car and you are good to go Good Luck :-)
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i've been suspecting that my dad did coke before with his druggie buddy
and this morning i heard my parents fighting about it and he has done cocaine
im really confused about it and i hav nothing against ppl who do drugs but its my dada and its different i kinda deel different about him
i still love him but im realllllly confused
i dont want to talk about with him or my mom
cant talk to my mo cuz shes an alchoholic and is always drunk how can i stop feeling weird bout my dad i love him to death but its all different now (link)
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Even though your parents have problems you are right to love them but I understand that you feel differently towards them now. I am so sorry that you are having to cope with this. But do not feel like it is your fault it is their responsibility to get help. Maybe there is a teen center in your area that you can go to speak to someone or perhaps get involved with a teen club to kinda take the edge off.If things ever get bad at home please let an adult that you trust know what is going on I wish I knew more to tell you but I did find this website I read overit for you and it offers some good tips for you to read on how to deal with a parent with a drug or alcohol problem
http://www.magellanassist.com/mem/library/default.asp?TopicId=267&CategoryId=0&ArticleId=8
Please remember that if things get bad talk to a teacher, guidance counselor, preacher or some other responsible adult to get help because you as the child should not have to put up with something like this my prayers are with you and I wish you all the best :-)
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my boyfriend, i cheated on him. we have been in a relationship for little over a year, im going to make this short as possible. basically, we got into a fight [usually we resolve and what not] but these two boys were with me when they knew we were fighting. basically i hooked up with them bc i was mad at my bf. i cried the whole night regretting it. i then had to tell him; thats when everything was horrible. i told him, he wouldn't even talk to me, he just walked away while i cried because i truley regret it. he then cried after school because it finally hurt him so much. he even said i dont care if she cheated, i still love her. i dont know what to do, we've talked but things just aren't the same. i know i fucked up okay i just want everything to be okay between my boyfriend and i, we were best friends before together so yeah. how can we resolve this? ugh >:[ (link)
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Cheating always hurts those involved and sometimes the pain and mistrust caused by cheating can last a while. Just imagine how you would feel if after the argument he would have hooked up with someone you would be devastated right? The best thing to do is put yourself in his place.You can try to talk to him but if he won't talk to you just wait until he cools down trying to talk to him while he is upset will only make matters worse. Perhaps you can catch him alone in a few days and try to talk to him. Make sure you let him know that you are sorry and have learned from your mistake and will not do it again. Don't try to push the blame on him with things like "well you started the argument" or "it's your fault I cheated" trust me this will not work.I am sorry to say it will take a little while for him to start trusting you again.You will have to earn his trust all over again. If you have been in a relationship for over a year it must be something worth trying to get back together so just give it a little time ok. Next time please think before you react the argument you have will be over tommorrow but the pain from what you say or do will last much longer Good Luck :-)
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so apparently $50 Hollister jeans cant hold up, because now right on corner of my back pocket, a hole which started and used to be small has now stretched to literally the size of a quarter or bigger.
ive been puttin duct tape on the inside to cover it when i go to school & work.. but it looks kinda retarded.
wut can i use to cover it?
someone said patches.. but unless im stupid that would be like a patch over the outside right? which would look pretty dumb on my butt.
any ideas?
btw, nothing expensive =]
oh & no sewing machine access. (link)
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some stores like walmart(in the craft dept) or a craft store have great patches theres some for girls and some for guys I bought a butterfly one for some jeans and WOW! people are alsways asking where I found my jeans all you have to do is iron them on if you want to change it just pull it off and iron on a different one that way you can always change them up. other than a patch you would need a sewing machine maybe a small handheld one (they're sometimes 10 bucks) would be a great investment for times like this Good Luck :-)
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ok its like this IM A 15 YEAR OLD FEMALE....theres this ...and we have been talkin about havin sex...but i dont kno if i should shave my vagina or not...see i kinda shaped my pubic hairs up a little but there are still hairs where i shaved and dey are all pokey...and it feels weird...should i jus shave the rest off or what??? please help me with ths ASAP!!!! THANKS (link)
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1st off please practice safe sex.
Shaving pubic hair is a personal preference for some if it is prickly and you need it to not be prickly you will need to shave again or wait for the hair to grow out its kinda like shaving your legs and after awhile the new growth comes in prickly.Some women even run over pubic hair with a man clippers (the ones for cutting hair) this leaves the pubic hair slick and neat but no prickles good luck hope this helps:-)
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I have two female students in my class. they like two baseball players but the two boys are immature yet the girls still like them and the girls still have hope that the two boys would ask them out..
So I told them to give up already because these two boys are not showing any interest...
they have tried to flirt
What else can I tell these two girls?
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well we all know boys mature slower than girls they will learn this too eventually. The bestthing is for them to learn it themselves I guess you caould tell them that maybe the guys are not ready to start dating maybe baseball, practice, tryouts etc.. keep them too busy for a girlfriend, it may even be possible tat their parents do not allow dating. You can go any way in this situation but the girls will still have to learn on their own and they will just like we all learrned. Good Luck :-)
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how can i squrit (link)
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squirting will take some great muscle control and practice
heres some instructions
Lay a towel on the bed before you begin . Make sure your nails well trimmed. Get into a comfortable position between, . Use lube if necessary to get started if you are dry.Begin by stroking your clit to get aroused. Once you get turned on, insert two fingers, palm side up, into your vagina. About an inch to two inches inside the vaginal entrance, you should feel a round, roughened area on the front wall. This is the G-spot. Stroke against this area using firm pressure. It should enlarge and begin to feel more solid. Try touching your clit as you manipulate the G-spot. The more aroused you get the more you will squirt it may take up to an hour
when you are about to cum it will feel like you have to pee just relax and let go Good Luck :-)
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me and my bestie are having a b-day party at a pool, and the theme is pretty n' pink. We are giving out party bags, and EVERYTHING in them has to be pink.
we wil have different party bags for guys and girls.
we are going to put like pink nailpolish in the gurls..and pink candy in both of them..but we need more ideas!! Please make them all pink..and not too expensiveee. Thanks!!
I ratee!!
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If you really must go for pink with the guys I found this site got some cool stuff one is a rubiks cube for .79 it has shades of pink the pink candy or gum could be given to guys too. this site has cool stuff and they will even mail a catalog have used it for parties a lot they have all sorts of party favors and you can buy them by the dozen http://www.orientaltrading.com/
and the best thing is they are CHEAP lol
Maybe mix the guys bags some pink candy, a pink trinket and then something else thats more guy friendly. Good Luck hope your party works out :-)
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ok well i sometimes use the water faucet to pleasure myself and i was wondering if like water in ur pussy is a bad thing. could it mess something up? after i do it water comes out so i dont know. haha k thanx (link)
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Water in your vagina could be bad try running water over your clitoral area this feels pretty good and you wont have water pressure going inside of you. and No masturbation is not bad its natural to explore your body and pleasure yourself also this gives you a chance to find out what excites you Hope this helps :-)
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can you keep a monkey as a pet? like where would you buy one, and would you need a liscence or anything? thanks (link)
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First off monkis make nasty pets. lol but if you really must have one ( I would like one myself) there are different laws in every state concerning exotic pets so check with your local Wildlife and Fisheries agency.
This site tells you more about monkey ownership
http://monkeymaddness.com/articles/realitycheck.html
In some states depending on the monkies life span he may have to be willed to a family member or friend and you may require a licence
some of them are very very expensive here is a link to a site that sometimes has monkeys for sale
http://board.pets-buynow.com/Exotic_Pets
Please make sure you check the rules of your country or state otherwise you could be fined and your pet taken away if it is illegal to own one Good Luck :-)
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hi, im a 17 year old girl, and ive been talking to this guy for a while. and im really interested in him and i think he is in me. we are going on a date today. we would have a couple weeks ago but he became very sick with mono. mono has 3 stages the first stage where you get really sick, the second where your really tired, and the third where you are recovering. so i've never had mono and i do not know how contagious it is in the second stage (which he is currently in). basically hes been telling me that hes not really contagious anymore but i think that is just so he can kiss me... so what do i do?.. do i kiss him? or if i shouldnt kiss him... what could we do instead.. remember its the first date but we have been talking for a couple weeks like everyday so nothing too promiscuous. :) (link)
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1st off you can catch it from more than kissing.It also can be contracted by sharing a toothbrush, drinking straw, or eating utensil with someone who has the virus.It's generally believed that a person can spread the infection for the entire time he or she has symptoms and even for several months after the symptoms are completely gone. Kiss him on the cheek to be sure if he says anything about you not kissing him tell you don't kiss on the 1st date (good excuse) Its better to be safe than sorry.Please note that he can spread the infection for the entire time he has symptoms and probably for a few months after his symptoms are completely gone. Makig him happy with a kiss is not worth getting sick Good Luck :-)
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How far after having sex without a condom, should I take a pregnancy test?
I had it last week, was supposed to get my period this week. Do you think its to soon? (link)
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I would wait a week until after the missed period was supposed to come. If negative wait a couple more weeks nd try again.Good Luck :-)
Heres a link with more answers about home pregnancy test http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/howsoonpregnancytest.html
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