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hi can you please help me..yes im young and stupid!
i know this might come off as stupid but not to me im really scared..3months ago me and my bf were fooling around and he put his penis by my vagina not in it but against it and for like 10-20 seconds and he didnt ejaculate or nothing...but there is thhe stuff already on his penis when he gets arroused....3months later my period still comes on regularly,but now i have reallyyy bad gas,lol a couple days ago i had my first migrain while my period was on...then when my period goes off i notice this bumpy rashy stuff inside the lips of my labia monora...ive never had sex before and my period just went off.i really dont want to tell my mom right now i just feel helpless and stupid..now my period went of yesterday and i have this little rash on me or whatever it is..i need advice,but i dont want to have to tell my mom or anyone about the thing 3months ago. september 9th to be exact
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Hi your uestion is not stuppid at all. Well if you have had your period regularly I wouldn't worry about pregnancy but you need to be very careful about STD's even without ejaculation or sex an STD can be transmitted by coming in contact with someone elses genitalia. The rash could be hair bumps if you shave or an allergic reaction to soap or washing powder etc... If the rash continues or worsens you may want to see a doctor or talk to someone that you feel comfotable with. Good Luck.
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ok hun first you need to relax a little bit. It's obvious you aren't pregnant. So thats one worry off your mind. But the bad news is you *might* have an std. You should get checked and tell him and make sure he gets checked...cuz he might have given it you. You really need to get it checked out cuz it doesnt sound normal. The gas could be a change in diet. your body is evolving and growing so maybe your pms symptoms are growing too. When i was younger pms was no big deal...now its a pain in the you know what. my biggest advice is to get an std test. Tell her you guys wanted to have sex...but didnt. She will be proud that you said no and didn't actually go through with it. She will also appreciate your honesty. For real...get it checked out. It could be nothing...maybe an allergy to something in a pad or tampon. Or it could be something bad. Just tell your mom. in the end you will be glad you did. B.c if you dont and it is an std ... you could unknowingly infect some one else down the road...it could possibly affect you getting pregnant in the future, and it could possibly lead to other problems. Go see a doctor. If your imbarassed to talk to your mom about it ... write her a note to break the ice and leave it for her before you go to school and talk to her about it when you get home. Good luck and if you need anyhting else...you know where my inbox is :D
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